Feeling incredibly apathetic

YonnieFrodo · 2021-03-12T10:39:06+00:00

Oh yeah I feel like that all the time. It comes and goes.

violatedmentally · 2021-03-12T11:39:25+00:00

I can relate. Most men here have gone through it and are still going through it. Its hard not to feel this way when you're bombarded with insanity on all levels whether it be in real life or online. It's hard to escape it in real life, but eventually you'll learn to just tune it all out. I lost the desire to watch any entertainment, play some video games to relax, have a drink to relax. Just means you're doing some soul searching. You're not easily able to shut off, because you're lost in this world. Nobody is there for you and there usually never is. But theres plenty of us still out here, holding a lantern for you to see you're not alone in this dark place. Hang in there bro. Just find new hobbies as everyone says. Learn more about yourself and move forward.

desertedpotato71 · 2021-03-12T11:30:52+00:00

same here, since i found the red pill it's hard to have enthusiasm for anything tbh. I have many hobbies which i enjoy to the fullest and make me feel happy and good. but since taking the red pill and thus having like a cheat code to life, everything in regards to humans becomes predictable

p3b234cw4z2 · 2021-03-12T12:04:23+00:00

I can relate. To be honest, I don't feel anything towards women. I used to hire escorts, but not anymore.

I find meaning in my work.

I evaluate the value I bring to the world from the amount of money they give me for my work.

I am content with that knowledge.

t-vern-t · 2021-03-12T13:45:40+00:00

Yes, I can relate, because enlightenment means realizing that certain parts of your hierarchy of needs can never be met. In the modern perverted world, trying to meet your intimacy and love needs results in a destruction of your more fundamental needs of security and safety. It also means that protecting your physiological and psychological health prohibits you from participating in one of the fundamental activities of being human, having children and passing on your beliefs through them. Rage, depression, and apathy in the face of such realities are the responses of a properly functioning human.

nigelh · 2021-03-12T21:27:49+00:00

Career is good but have something outside that or it will go stale on you. If the things you were doing before have lost their magic try something new.

BubblyNefariousness4 · 2021-03-12T23:13:18+00:00

Yeah man it happens to me too. For the most part it usually passes when I start thinking about other things I’m curious about. Life, liberty and the Pursuit of happiness.

CoolDEpot · 2021-03-14T16:25:19+00:00

Just think about all the extra energy, time, wealth, and emotional peace you have now that women dont exist anymore.
Freedom is amazing.

Conclusion8343 · 2021-03-14T21:57:34+00:00

Ain't no depression man. That's just some dumb fucking bullshit some blog or website wrote because they were trying to find deeper answers to something that is simple, which is, you can see that it's all bullshit, therefore you no longer give any fucks. That's all.

Don't let some stupid shit inception you. I mean really, do you actually feel depressed?

I no longer give any fucks about much of the stuff you mentioned, and I feel good that I now have that clarity of mind to be able to detect and dismiss useless information, allowing you to concentrate on yourself instead of nonsense.

razer55600 · 2021-03-12T10:33:50+00:00

Join a community and make friends.

Then all good

No-Driver-2402 · 2021-03-12T15:30:25+00:00

Yes, I can. Most people don't care for societal issues and etc, they are just having fun and that's it.

If you can't enjoy your time doing whatever, then you're depressed.

Thinkingman21 · 2021-03-12T16:43:15+00:00

After red pill rage which last three days, I was happy ever since. I did however overcome Male Mother Need, remove Hope and Validation from myself completely. I view females as a completely threat to me, a human being, not a human doing, in their efforts to convert me into their latter.

My life got more brighter but I think I was inevitable nature mgtow. I don't know if that helped

distortionharmonics · 2021-03-12T17:05:54+00:00

It could be that you are repressing your anger. Are you being a good boy? Because that's what we're conditioned / programmed to be our whole lives. Apathy is a subtle depression, and often depression is a lot of repressed, introjected anger. Do you notice how women just blab constantly with no filter and let all their emotions out? That's actually healthier. But men are not allowed to do so. Find your outlets, find your voice, and express yourself, work on something creative, or figure out what is making you apathetic. Apathy/depression are the precursors to suicide, so figure out why, and try to learn from your experiences and move forward. A lot of guys just ignore and repress their emotions, but they often turn into alcoholics or drug addicts of some sort. Men are confused about having emotions, even though we have stronger emotions than women, because we're told to shut up and go to work. The soft cushions in society are for girls, not men, so we need to look out for ourselves and each other.

Sir_manalot · 2021-03-12T17:32:12+00:00

This is a good thing.

First you ignore.

Then you get mad.

Then you bargain (think screaming at god about why it is like this).

Then you get depressed (which is where you are now).

Then comes acceptance.

It is easier said then done, but try not to go backwards and actually reach the acceptance phase. A lot of problems will just disappear when you hit it.

SwiftStrik3 · 2021-03-12T17:56:31+00:00

Yep. I don't really give a shit about their issues anymore as it's usually just for attention especially suicide threats.

TheOnlyThing-Sufjan · 2021-03-12T17:57:33+00:00

Yes its very relatable, I got those moments of being apathetic towards everything. I do not really mind that much to I know they sometimes happens and generally within a few hourse or couple of days my mind will focus on something again and its better. Generally a good tip to get out of that state of mind is to just go do something physical (go for a run, walk, lift some weights). But also accept that this is part of being alive, sometimes live is boring and you do not want to do anything, that is ok. Its sort of related to mgtow, since you realise alot of what you are doing has no ultimate goal, in your blue pill phase women are the end game, the so called Gods who gives us meaning. So you will do everything and anything to get closser to that, and you do not have to worry about something having meaning because there is always meaning because you are chassing God so to speak. Now this has gone away and you need to fill in the gap, this is not easy, and sometimes it knocks you down a bit. But remember that its better to have the apathetic episodes then to be divorce rapped, of being a simp, or being #metood. So yea its a very understandable feeling.

Deplorable_X · 2021-03-12T19:07:40+00:00

Have you considered becoming a monk? Like for real.

GoodFaithSockPuppet · 2021-03-12T19:26:00+00:00

When the Blue falls away, and you're left looking for purpose and meaning?
Everything gets questioned. Everything gets asked, "what do you do for me?"
Do not "Hope" for anything. Work. Toil. Learn. Push. Progress. "Hope" is bad. It is a useless emotion which only creates pain and expectation in the attachment to a "Better" something.
Attachment creates suffering.
You are a universe trapped within a flesh sack. An incarnate idea of Mind inside of Body.
Put down some goal posts. I used the Enneagram to find my "Type" and then explore how to grow/adapt/become as a person. As the Enneagram is a system to learn who and what you are at this moment, but also how to change and wrestle with the sum of all that is human.
Do not become static or stagnant. Grow.
It is not so much about Focus on "Other Pursuits" but on the Pursuit of that which is Growth.
Harness your natural industriousness to gain skills, work well, find your purpose, and actualize the man hiding underneath years of mass media programming.
In the words of the A-J, "Break the conditioning"

You are, and shall always be, an "Awesome Bastard" (Thanks to Replicant Phish for that one)

realChebz · 2021-03-12T20:00:14+00:00

Ive started feeling this way a month into lockdowns... And the idiocy has only been getting worse every month.
I've just lost all hope in humans, we are worse than sheep. At least sheep dont try enforce others into following their sheep behavior and dont virtue signal about it.

justaguy529 · 2021-03-12T22:18:39+00:00

I don't think the problem is you, I think the problem is with how political the left has made everything. everything is forced to have a leftist agenda now. they have replaced entertainment with indoctrination.

Johnnntena · 2021-03-13T09:56:56+00:00

Life is full of suffering one. You have to find joy and meaning in something.

Title	Feeling incredibly apathetic
Author	IfYouBanIllMakeNew
Upvotes	27
Comments	23
Date	March 12, 2021 10:30 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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