I found out about three weeks ago that my stepmom has cancer. Now I have a stepmom because my birth mother died of cancer. Now, my father has to go through his second wife with cancer.
Almost all my close friends are married and the ones that aren't are in some sort of committed or cohabitation setup. As a single man I am seen as nuisance. I have basically zero to fuck incentive to be seen or heard. I tried ghosting in the past but now I have the drive to get it done properly. I've dropped off social media and I've just stopped responding to few messages I receive. I don't give my number out to people anymore. The next goal is to leave my 9 to 5 and get my own property (I rent an apartment).
You know the world is fucked when you have better conversations with a bunch of strangers in the gym than with your friends and family these days.
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I feel compelled to say something here.
There is a quantum difference in the smarts, wit, conversational ability, and sex drive of my ex wife and my girlfriend.
One of the many reasons I divorced my ex wife is that she is an utterly non-demonstrative, uninterested and uninteresting cardboard cutout of a woman. There was of course the henpecking...
My girlfriend loves to f@&k, moans like a whore in bed, wants to be tied up, and at least once a week says something so witty that I laugh until I can't breathe.
There are differences between people. Some women are really great. I don't ignore AWALT, and though it might sound like it, I'm not putting my gf on a pedestal. She has faults like anyone.
But there are good people. You just have to find them and then invest some time in them. It pays off.
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She's only doing this just get you to marry her. She'll change in an instant once you have signed your name on the marriage license.
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Maybe, but I don't think so. My girlfriend is borderline obsessed with me. It's not a bad thing. She plays the game perfectly. And as you might see in my other posts, she doesn't want anything from me financially.
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She began to change almost immediately after the wedding, and to me this is evidence that the premise of MGTOW is absolutely correct.
I've had some frank discussions with my girlfriend (who is that rare self-made, independently wealthy woman) and she has said women are obsessed with security. She said that even she, who is as financially secure as a person would ever want to be, views security differently than she thinks men do. She's said that while she knows intellectually that she is perfectly financially secure, the idea of pursuing security still pervades her thoughts in ways that she doesn't think men ever experience.
She's divorced and has her own kids. She doesn't want anything from me and I don't want anything from her other than conversation, companionship, and crazy sex. We like each other, too, which is a real plus.
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Possibly. I'll never let down my guard, though.
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If I married her, it would wreck the sex. And the sex is great. If she asked me, I'd say no.
The two things that make this different from most other relationships are (1) she's independently wealthy, and (2) she's very sexual. It's wholly unlike any other kind of relationship I've had with a woman. What she gets from me is great conversation, the very aggressive sex almost all women crave, and I'm not that guy telling her how to live her life, plus I'm well off financially and don't want a dime from her.
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See my other recent post. I've been sleeping with two other women sporadically for the entire duration of our relationship of several years, so if she did cheat -- would it even be cheating? -- I'd be in no position to complain.
I'm reasonably confident she's enthralled by me, and that's the intentional result of how I've handled her since the start. But if she's not, it doesn't really matter. If she's cheating, that doesn't matter either. I'm not trying to marry her or have kids with her, and I don't want anything from her. I wouldn't do any of these things if she wanted them of me.
And to be clear, what you're seeing here is one thing and one thing only: the relentless, disciplined application of Red Pill. If there is a poker faced, cut throat player of this game, it's me. It is possible to get exactly what you want from a woman with no exposure of your own resources.
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