Heartbreak.

ParalyticPoison · 2019-10-08T19:41:44+00:00

Time, and realizing AWALT is a thing.

Ron-Don-Volante · 2019-10-08T20:39:07+00:00

The heartbreak you experience will be largely based on projections of what you thought she was to you and what you wanted her to be.

once you come to terms with that, the easier it will be to move on.

if you can appreciate logic, have a look at this and remember you are the prize.

Copypastable · 2019-10-08T20:09:05+00:00

Have other stuff you're passionate about. Women should never be a man's passion. Emotionally invest in something else that adds value to your life.

LifeIsStillTestingMe · 2019-10-08T23:13:07+00:00

Realize the person you think you loved doesn't actually exist. That was just a figment of your imagination, the real person is the ugly truth. You can move on realizing you loved/are thinking about a delusion. Furthermore, pain and suffering is just what happens to a person when expectation and reality don't match up.

Vaxel00 · 2019-10-08T19:55:11+00:00

part of me says that love is unconditional and should give it another go

That's your stupid side talking, don't listen to your stupid side.

Help, please. I know that this isn't the way but I'm very weak

This is on you to change, don't make up excuses.

sfldesigner · 2019-10-08T20:08:42+00:00

Hey man. Let’s talk.

This happens, it’s natural. If you catch yourself beating yourself up. Try to turn that off with positive thoughts or fight it off.

Try not to give into impulse, do not contact her.

You’re gut was telling you something when she would not commit to discussing your future together. That is confirmation she was not thinking about it; specifically a future with you.

You left. That was the right thing to do. Strong, be strong. You looked out for yourself. That’s awesome. Stay the course, it’ll hurt, it’ll suck. But man you’ll be ok soon.

Feel that pain and use affirmations to ease it and when that pain is no longer a massive distraction get on your hobbies, see your friends, talk to family.

All the best.

JMD173 · 2019-10-08T21:50:04+00:00

You must first learn to let go before you can heal.

https://youtu.be/5wDbe0SX0Xw

caem123 · 2019-10-09T00:32:45+00:00

You must tell yourself that you miss how she made you feel, not that you miss her. Read it again. It's the feeling you miss, not the person. You can get that feeling from some one else or some where else.

betterforitall · 2019-10-09T02:32:53+00:00

I'm in my fifties and I still have a problem like this so don't blame your age.

Essentially you're going through withdrawals. Thinking about her makes you feel good because you're remembering when things were really good and you were high as a kite.

The only thing I can offer as a helpful suggestion is to catch yourself when you're thinking about her and think of something else.

You strengthen the neuronal connections in your brain when you think about something. You weaken those connections by not thinking about that something.

I divert my thoughts by reminding myself that the woman I thought I knew is more in love with cock than her own children. She is loyal to nothing except her pussy. She couldn't possibly ever understand what I used to feel or what I still feel (greatly diminished from what it used to be).

Meaning_meanfully10 · 2019-10-09T06:42:02+00:00

Thank you guys. I really appreciate you all. Words can't describe how grateful I am for all of you. I've never felt this much brotherhood, I feel like I really got help and can count of you brothers.

Again, thank you all. Genuinely grateful for everyone of you.

LightningEdge756 · 2019-10-09T00:01:48+00:00

What honestly helped me the most was seeing the things I could now devote more time to now that I was single.

Jaquzi · 2019-10-09T01:50:47+00:00

Time, just prepare yourself you'll have to take way more hits like this. But remember what Rocky said "it's not about how hard you can punch, it's about how many punches you can take and life hits the hardest."

MetalEther · 2019-10-09T03:49:06+00:00

This is pretty far away from the main stream, but you can use this subliminal to forget about an ex. There are affirmations hidden in the audio that you can't consciously hear. They go into your subconscious and can help you control your feelings:

POWERFUL! Forget your Ex or Crush You Never Dated + Attract True Love Subliminal

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7y4i6BvFw0o

Use this booster and blockage remover to amplify the effects:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2ymFyhffzXo

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7ziicITH1MQ

All your troubles are in your head. Change what you're thinking by reprogramming your mind on a subconscious level.

edgysecularist · 2019-10-09T07:41:18+00:00

Meditate and find peace with yourself, if you have any anger use it and hit the gym.

misanthr0pe666 · 2019-10-09T13:44:33+00:00

Every time your brain thinks of her smile, think of the word "FAKE." Associate the two. Our subconscious is funny in that it loves repetition.

Title	Heartbreak.
Author	Meaning_meanfully10
Upvotes	7
Comments	22
Date	October 8, 2019 7:41 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/df51mm/heartbreak/
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