How do older men tolerate them?

DangZagnut · 2019-03-03T00:36:33+00:00

Most don't grow beyond that stage.

There are benefits to dating older women. Depending on your interests.

SlowJellyfish1 · 2019-03-03T01:24:07+00:00

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ManyRoadLessTraveled · 2019-03-03T01:37:18+00:00

Pushing 50. Young women better looking and they admire you somewhat. You can enjoy short term. Nothing enjoyable about older women.

Fantoche_Dreemurr · 2019-03-03T01:59:53+00:00

No, they don't get more mature. Women stop evolving mentally at around 12, right when they see they can use their bodies to get attention and favors.

They just grow better at it as they age since they get to hit the wall 20 years earlier than men.

After 35, women will just babble about their meaningless achievements or talk about their bastard kids like they just got finished building some wonder.

TheMeJewMovement · 2019-03-03T00:32:55+00:00

Lol no. R u stupid? Girls are no different from 18-25 vs. 25-30. They are not more mature, they are not smarter, they are not more emotionally stable. They are just older, uglier, not as tight, are more jaded and bitchy, are more in a rush to lock in a man and get pregnant, and have way more previous partners. They are worse than younger girls in literally every single way.

801735 · 2019-03-03T00:30:11+00:00

Thirst and oblivious of TRP. Basically BP simpery.

DWShimoda · 2019-03-03T08:37:07+00:00

Personally I agree (with the "obnoxious & childish" part)... but if you want an answer to this:

How do older men tolerate them? (self.MGTOW)

It's simple, they do pretty much the same thing younger guys do: turn off their brain and "think" with just their dick.

Youd think 25-30 would be a better age range.

Not really, they're not more mature*; just older & with a shitton of more baggage. Besides, why rent a 10 yr old used car (especially one that's been through the equivalent of a demolition derby), when you can rent a new (current model year) car?

* Except possibly more devious, but I don't count that as "maturity."

TheMeJewMovement · 2019-03-03T00:33:35+00:00

Most of the older men are simps who are essentially their sugar daddies. It's transactional desire. Never underestimate a simps ability to ignore obnoxious female behavior.

jamocadyn · 2019-03-03T03:31:15+00:00

Older men know that the relationship will end...they (the men) are usually the ones who will end it once they get bored.

Ricky469 · 2019-03-03T04:15:12+00:00

Haha, I'm 59, I rarely date anyone over 35. I prefer 21-25. Old enough to be good company young enough to not ask "where is this going?"

OatsGYOW · 2019-03-03T05:50:11+00:00

The older you get, the easier it is to deal with bullshit to get what you want.

Also, lol@ older women being more mature. If anything, a young girl will be easier to influence out of the degenerate modern society has become.

2019-03-03T10:21:29+00:00

I think it depends on the individual woman more than her age. There are sixteen year olds more mature than sixty year olds, and personality counts a hell of a lot more towards compatibility than age.

Are many teenage girls annoying? Absolutely. But not all of them.

IterantImprovement · 2019-03-03T16:06:15+00:00

Early 20's the girls think they have all the time in the world to settle down. There's very little anxiety in them regarding their fertility at this time. You as the elder know this isn't true, but she doesn't want to hear it from you as she didn't listen to it from anyone else before you. So you just ride the ride.

You as the older man have the advantage over men her age because of money, even temperament, and realistic life and relationship expectations. A lot of these women are coming from a previous chaotic situation and appreciate the stability for a time (before they get bored and start longing for the 'excitement' chaos again). So during that time, you both can enjoy each other's company without any expectations on you to make an honest woman of her (and girls these days have never heard that saying).

Alternatively women rounding 30, that feel their fertility fading, realize that they're not attracting attention like they used to become like a junkie needing a fix. They've got a timeline and they know it, and will tell you outright, "I have no time for games, I want a family!". These women also make younger ones look more appealing for this reason as well as their physical appearance.

As they approach 40, many of those woman have utterly failed to achieve even the minor goals they thought they'd have easily under their belts by 30 or so that thought at 20. They're coming to the grim realization that they have no real prospect for the future and a lot are either miserable or in full on panic mode and clinging desperately to celebrity fertility stories not really accepting that they themselves do not have such options ahead of them.

Approximately 50 and beyond these single chicks are like jailhouse lawyers. They're acutely aware of how dire their situation is and what they can and need to do. On one side they'll have some thirsty 20 yo male who's tired of competing against older men throw attention at her, so she thinks she's having a resurgence of what she experienced in her 20's and far too attractive for the shlubs her age. Or she'll be on full seek and destroy looking for her golden parachute so that she can try to marry into stability and a comfortable retirement situation.

And if you're successful and nearing retirement, you realize, do I want a gold digger that's hoping I die shortly after we marry or the youngest gold digger I can get that is just looking for fun and good times that doesn't have any of the knowledge or manipulation skills of women your age. Their naivete is kind of charming and their lack of fertility anxiety allows you to enjoy your time with them without hearing the subtle ticking of a clock in the background.

As far as their obnoxiousness goes, I haven't found age changes the topics of conversation much really with them. Not saying all of course, but like 99% of them (the ones I've dated, interacted with, by-passed, or just casual conversation) do not learn from past mistakes and keep making the same mistakes over and over again. You expect that from a 20 year old, you expect more from a 30 year old, and it's just idiotic from a 40+ year old.

HeadingForTrouble_ · 2019-03-08T18:22:26+00:00

I'm not really a MGTOW follower, but I guess I can answer this one seriously, as my last relationships have been in this age range (I'm in my 50s, relationships over the last 15 years have all been 17-25).

Most of them are so fucking obnoxious and childish.

There's an element of truth about this, but there are some who are different. Many of those know what they want and are happy with giving the older person what they want out of the relationship. Their objectives can range from providing a stable home to have and bring up children to financial support through university. Many of the ones who have a goal are less obnoxious and childish and are more willing to talk through disagreements rather than throwing a tantrum.

You'd think 25-30 would be a better age range.

Nope. The better women have been taken by then - the single 25-30 age range often consists of those who haven't learned from their mistakes.

Title	How do older men tolerate them?
Author	MGTOWMayhem
Upvotes	10
Comments	33
Date	March 3, 2019 12:27 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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Personally I agree (with the "obnoxious & childish" part)... but if you want an answer to this: