How to live without a girlfriend

Tchapppy · 2020-01-06T13:51:08+00:00

You will be forever unhappy if you chase anything in an effort to procure the validation of women. Make yourself happy and dgaf about everything else.

p3p3_sylvia · 2020-01-06T13:58:21+00:00

Yeah you can, but here’s how it’s gonna go. You’re gonna obsess over this chick becuase she’s hot or whatever. She’s gonna want nothing to do with you becuase she’s too busy getting dick from a dozen other guys. So what do you do? You improve yourself. Well, in the time you’re making yourself into a much better man, she’s riding dicks left and right. Your value as a man is going up while hers is plummeting. Hopefully by this point you realize you’re worth much more than that and just continue on with your life.

Don’t look at improving yourself as hard work. It is but ultimately it is improving your quality of life. Yeah going to the gym sucks at first but feeling strong, confident and full of energy is worth it in the end.

Octoxo · 2020-01-06T13:58:26+00:00

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FindingKeeping · 2020-01-06T17:10:48+00:00

Like someone else posted MGTOW is not a relationship advice forum. MGTOW is a self improvements and restoring your CHI forum

You currently have a mindset that "You need to have a companion in life". You have been trained for cohabitation by Parents siblings friends and society, if you don't have relationships, you are actively shamed humiliated disgusted. Your primitive Brain is flooding you with Testosterons and telling you to settle down.

Your post suggests your earlier efforts went south and you see through that Women in current era have all sorts of freedoms and they Enjoy them thoroughly. Biologically women are programmed in that way. You will understand it after your mindset change.

Eventually Even if you fight the dragon and rescue the princess from burning mansion ( which what you are expecting us MGTOWs to tell you the non existing "secret" a how-to guide). Marring any one of these chicks with teach lessons the hard way, there are severe consequences for a man being in relationships, fake allegations, RAPE MeToo allegations, divorce, loosing custody paying up Alimony and child support till you rot under responsiblities. Sex is overrated, believe me no marriage is worth owning a Pre owned wet holes. Your sublime slime beautiful companion will start gaining weight, will Start to look ugly. She will start dominating bitching nagging fucking you immediately in every way possible.

You are still allowed to follow this default path. But I am suggesting following to you:

Let me remind you , its not easy. Whatever I am saying here, you will need a heck lot of practice and patience to change your viewpoints and thought process from the one you currently have. It takes years. You will go through several mind changing phases.

You will have to build yourself for the sake of yourself and not for someone's approval. Focus on your education, find source of earning job business services whatever. Better yourself physically with good diet and exercises. Try Yoga its life changing.

You need to have 3 routines in your life

1 that gives your Wealth

1 that gives you Health

1 that gives you mental peace ( serotonin https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Serotonin )

Absolutely ignore/block negative people in life. You never needed them. Stay away from Alcohol, drugs, anti depression medicines, PTSD and all other BS excuses one has allowed himself to ignore his bad habits

You are CEO of your life, its all about yourself and not someone else. You were born alone, you will die alone. When you are done here, you are not even allowed to take the cloths with you, all relationships die that day. That day nothing will matter. So remember that and focus on what matters right now.

Most of us MGTOWs learned all this a hard way, paying hefty prices in terms of money time energy mindset.

prove_this · 2020-01-06T15:45:55+00:00

Ok so what I'd do in your shoes is just see escorts for a while. It'll take the shine off of women and it's cheaper then trying to attract women.

Women are hypergamous, what that means is when you look at a group of girls and see some 5/10, 7/10 and 9/10...when she looks at a group of guys she sees 1/10, 1/10, 1/10 and 10/10.

It's your choice if you want to try to be the 10/10.

As for it being 'fair'; a women's shelf life expires at 30. They just have incredible sexual power for 15 years and then it declines, rapidly. A man's deal is better, but you have to be older to see it.

Please just recognise that you've been programmed to thirst for their attention, but it's not worth it. You'll see that better if you just run a train on escorts for a while.

ProudOutLoud · 2020-01-06T14:50:29+00:00

Your post makes no sense, if you want to live without a gf, go for it, no one is stopping you but yourself. However if I’m reading between the lines of what you want to say, I would assume you are looking for advice on how to fill the void of unconditional love having abpartner is supposed to grant you. Am I right?

Ibericvs · 2020-01-06T15:30:04+00:00

Don't chase women, for your own shake. It only will make you misserable.

If you want to improve, do it for yourself.

thatMGTOWguy · 2020-01-06T14:16:53+00:00

At the end of the day, you have to realise whether GF or no GF, you need money to enjoy your life and live as you dream. Yes, girls are desired for simply existing. Does it annoy you? Yes it does. Can you change it? Not at all, it’s just how the way it is. Nobody can change that.

I made the same mistake as you. My only good thing is I’m 3 years younger than you and realised at a younger age. Chasing women and their validation will only fulfil one aspect of your life, chasing money and actually earning it will fulfil almost every aspect of your life.

Also when you chase someone, you are basing your self worth and happiness on something that is outside of your control or external to you. Forget all these relationships and focus on building yourself up. Very soon, you will be able to see the positive results.

Knutjob · 2020-01-06T16:38:28+00:00

Just be a total arsehole ,drinking,whoring,partying bad boy.....attracts women of all types like green bomber flies to shit. You will get all the pussy u want then,and enjoy yrself in the process..........

ThaHentaiConnoisseur · 2020-01-06T14:34:46+00:00

You live without a girlfriend by living without seeking validation from women at all. You can still speak to them but you have to use your head to not catch feelings. Improving yourself is a good thing. In regards to it making you more likely to get a girlfriend, maybe. I'm not seeking a girlfriend either so I don't know how much it really helps. You are right on why improve yourself while she's getting her back blown out by the whole team. Thing is when she's all used up and goes to seek a nice guy, that self improvement you've done will come in handy. You'll shut that bitch down. At the end of the day you will be a better quality person than some slag. And don't listen to them cucks in that dating advice sub. Just do what you want to do in your life bro.

waxqube · 2020-01-06T15:11:43+00:00

I'm not sure why you need others to tell you how to live. Just live life the way you want it.

AncientMGTOWWISDOM · 2020-01-06T16:17:20+00:00

You dont understand a fundamental difference between men and woman. A womans value is given to her up front. Her youth, beauty, fertility and virginity. They are valued for the things they recieved naturally, by simply existing and not being a fat slob, and even then, they still have options. a man on the other hand is valued based upon his charectar, skills integrity, honor, status, wealth and knowledge. these things must be built from the ground up over the course of his lifetime. no point in bitching about it, just apply your reason and logic and do whats best for you. Dont let people shame you for advocating your own interests. its the defining trait of the alpha. Never be the simping beta, thats just a terrible fate, and youll lose everything in the end.

elitebuzzy · 2020-01-06T16:25:18+00:00

I was at your point in life. Wondering why no woman would ever date me. Started putting myself out there. To get rejected by women. Did make friends though.

I found out they are whores and like having fun. Since I'm still young and hang out with a younger crowd to mid 20's. I realize these people aren't worth it. Starting asking myself are these women worthy of me, my time, and my money. I mean you can have fun and all, but loyalty is a bitch.

I did work on myself, but not for women. Seeing women cheat on most my military buds on tour (I never got to join because of a medical problem). Watching college girls cheat left and right, makes you wonder if they are even there for the education.

In short, just chase money and know your time/value. Woman who say they are good aren't. And real good women are rarer then hens teeth. So don't bother. You can still fuck around, but don't get serious.

EggGang14 · 2020-01-06T17:54:21+00:00

Yeah man, the first and most important step is to learn not to predicate your self worth on the intersection of your desires and a females actions. It never ends well and 9 times out of 10 ends with the male tying their self worth onto the slave driving girlfriends actions. That's a shitty way to go through life. Work on yourself, but not for her, or any female for that matter. Take a look at yourself and your life and focus on what you want to improve or accomplish for YOURSELF. The more you work on you for you, the better you feel, and a few years down the line you'll feel proud of how far you've come and she'll have spent these years getting dicked down left, right, and center while wallowing in mediocrity. Only you can figure out where you want to get in your life, but never let a female tell you what you want, only you can get yourself where you want to be. Good luck.

xdrunkagainx · 2020-01-06T19:00:22+00:00

Do whatever you want. Find a hobby, play video games, volunteer, get a motorcycle, travel. Your friends will all start to get married and settle down, most will lose touch with you due to women not letting their husband associate with free men.

HoldenBalzac · 2020-01-06T19:24:58+00:00

So, how to enjoy life as a single man? No children, no wife, no LTR. There are lots of discussions here about going Monk mode (avoid women entirely) versus the PUA (pick up artists) or men who pump and dump 'em. I can't address the latter. But so far as living in monk mode. First figure out if you're extrovert or introvert. Introverts enjoy their solitude and can be perfectly content all weekend with some books or hobbies. Extroverts need people and enjoy social interaction, they'll need a group of friends or bros to hang with. Next, pick a line of work that matches your personality and skill set. Live frugally, live within your means. Work on improving yourself: physical fitness, mental health, job skills, financial success, knowledge, hobbies, etc. Build a set of goals and work towards them. Women will seek you out after you have some status and resources and then you'll have to decide if you want to carry their baggage or not. Look at each woman as a potential business partner but also a partner who may just be trying to defraud you and use your wealth to pay off her debts. Do a costs benefits risks analysis of each potential partner and you'll find most of them will be negative results; the costs/risks exceed the meagre benefits. Once in a while, visit some married men and get them to talk about their lives and wives. Watch their faces as they talk and ask yourself why they look so exhausted and so unhappy while still telling themselves how happy they are to support a wife and her children.

CerebralAbrasion · 2020-01-06T19:35:06+00:00

Trust me, when you have a woman she saps so much of your time, energy, money. It's a huge sacrifice to keep her happy. Basically you have to choose between taking care of a woman or taking care of yourself. If you choose to take care of yourself focus on becoming your ultimate vision of your life. Maybe you dream of passive income, free time, being fit and healthy, collecting cars? Work toward what YOU want, it's so much better than watching your life slip away to serve some ho.

BetaBeGone · 2020-01-06T19:37:37+00:00

Women are to men like leeches are to skin. Those other guys who have the girls will also have child support, alimony and death by a thousand dramas.

God marriage has been replaced with government marriage. Government marriage is designed to enslave the man to the woman by divorce court alimony and kidnappers ransom known as child support under penalty of prison if he refuses. The idea is that women will then vote for more tyrannical government as payment for their man slaves.

KaitouNala · 2020-01-06T21:06:01+00:00

You will find here that most of us advocate not to dabble in LTR/relationshits in the first place.

What I suggest? Find how to be happy by yourself, that is to say with yourself.

When you are content with yourself, company/others become optional.

Look up what keanu reeves has to say about single people and loneliness.

SprinterLyfe · 2020-01-06T21:06:31+00:00

Best relationship advice: focus on you.

You're probably a really decent guy, who in a pre-feminist age would have made a great husband. But you are coming into the game when cultural battles are raging worldwide, and men are losing favor, status, and respect UNLESS they hold onto their masculinity themselves.

Ron-Don-Volante · 2020-01-06T21:58:35+00:00

I want you to understand that life is about the journey just as much as the destination.

Dial it in and enjoy the ride.

since25jan2019 · 2020-01-07T05:30:29+00:00

Your question is a typical "no-brainer". The truly confounding question is, "How does any man live with a woman?"

21354641654684 · 2020-01-06T21:35:52+00:00

You asked why the girls get to have their fun at 19 and guys can't. Here's a little background.

You have to remember as far as relationship value goes, women are born rich and die poor, men are born poor and die rich.

What does that mean? Women are showered with praise for their youth and beauty from a young age into adulthood, they didn't do anything to earn it, they were just born female. If they can avoid getting fat, they have it made. But, when they get between 25 and 30 or so, their beauty starts to fade. Then you hear the old "where have all the good men gone?" Men's interest in them has declined as their beauty has faded.

As boys, we are born with nothing. We have to earn everything. Money, social status, knowledge, strength, property, etc. We start working out, get stronger, build our social circle, learn skills, work our way up the career ladder, build wealth and acquire property. Nobody can do these things for us, we have to earn it ourselves.

Why does this matter? Men instinctively look for young, attractive women (youth and beauty suggest fertility) to have children with. Women instinctively look for the strongest tallest richest man to take care of her and father her children. Again this is generally speaking, some people are different.

A lot of the guys here are out of the game, meaning they aren't chasing women or interested in relationships. I am one of those guys. At this point I am done with it all. But I will tell you that you should still improve yourself. Do not do it for women or anyone else, do it for you. The dating guru who suggested you should chase money, fitness, and friends instead is right. All of that gives you something constructive to do, and can be used to create healthy goals. You need to have something healthy to focus on. The only thing I would add to that list is hobbies, they are just as important.

Remember, don't do these things to get validation from women or anyone else. Chasing other people's validation will not give you fulfillment, as you cannot make other people happy. Happiness is a personal choice. You must do all of this for yourself.

The Man in the Glass

When you get what you want in your struggle for self

and the world makes you king for a day

Just go to the mirror and look at yourself

and see what that man has to say.

For it isn't your father or mother or wife

who judgment upon you must pass

The fellow whose verdict counts the most in your life

is the one staring back from the glass.

Some people may think you a straight-shooting chum

and call you a wonderful guy

But the guy in the glass says you're only a bum

if you can't look him straight in the eye.

He's the fellow to please never mind all the rest

for he's with you clear up to the end

And you've passed your most dangerous difficult test

if the man in the glass is your friend.

You may fool the whole world down the pathway

of life and get pats on the back as pass

But your final reward will be heartaches and

tears if you've cheated the man in the glass.

kruggerand · 2020-01-06T15:49:56+00:00

You don't have to improve yourself if you don't want to. MGTOW comes down to making a choice. Do you spend vast quantities of your valuable time, energy and money in return for the sex and affection from a woman? Also usually you have to mostly do activities that she likes (watch chick flicks, sit on the bench at the mall while she shops, give up your video games and hobbies as well as friends she doesnt approve of) , listen to the eventual nagging and the "you dont make me happy any more" topped off by a severely broken heart. If you are smart you will avoid this trap.

2020-01-06T19:41:55+00:00

“Chasing” is a terrible idea. Why waste time going after things that won’t make you as happy as you think they will? There’s nothing you have to chase. Instead of chasing, develop Yourself. Go after You.

This is different. There’s no chasing involved. You are a unique individual with a unique collection of talents that only you possess. Discover what these are and develop them, not for anyone else, but for yourself. Do things you enjoy, things that you truly enjoy, and live what you were put on this earth to do. Don’t waste time with activities that give you a quick and cheap dopamine hit. Choose things that you have to put blood, sweat, and tears into, whether literally or metaphorically. No self improvement, there is nothing to improve. At your core, you are you. Uncover who you truly are and live this life as your truest, highest self. If you’re on the right path, money, fitness, friends, and even women come without you even trying. The most powerful way you can live without a girlfriend is living as Yourself.

Self-improvement is masturbation. It is wheel-spinning. ”Chasing” anything is a complete waste, especially money, fitness, and friends for the sake of money, fitness, and friends. Fuck that. Live You, and your life opens up completely.

TigPlaze · 2020-01-06T20:15:23+00:00

Never build yourself up for a woman. Build yourself up for YOU.

Bibazavr · 2020-01-06T20:33:19+00:00

Lol, just dont bother with this shitty slut. Earn money, expirience and make good passive income till you are 30-35. By then that thot will be an undesirable mess but you will be rich and full of streangth. Thats how it works. She will end up begging you to date her. They always do it while trying to get a betabuxx in their thirties.

Its fun to mess with them when that time comes. Just remember about prenups.

trematar · 2020-01-06T21:01:26+00:00

I understand what you mean, here is a short list on how to live the single life!! This info is my mgtow started pack!

You are making the right choice! Basically, from now on, do whatever YOU want to do, not what society or family wants. As far as females are concerned, here is a short list: 1) The MOST IMPORTANT thing to do is to un-train your heart from SEEKING FEMALE VALIDATION! Our whole lives as boys we are brainwashed by movies & music that "true love exists" and "She's the one!" ... and that "good feeling" you get when a hot woman talks with you .... ALL OF THAT stuff is "Female Validation" ... it could take months or years to ween yourself off these things. However, once you do, you will not feel any stress or guilt over being just a man on his own. You will be "free"! (Also, get a dog or two, they will love you better than a woman will) Women and children are loved "Unconditionally" ... Men are only loved under the condition that they "Provide something". If any part of you slightly disagrees with this, just ask any women if she would date a "Good looking Homeless man" ... 99% of the time they will say no lol.

2) From here you have 2 paths, what some mgtow call "Monk Mode" or "Pump & Dump" ... Monk mode is 100% avoiding all sexual contact with women and all interaction with women. You will be protected from STD's, #metoo, etc. Monk Mode may not be for you, but it is the ultimate way to be free from "Predatory Females" ... btw, read the book "The Predatory Female" it will open your eyes to a lot of things.

3) If you wanna go "Pump & Dump" because you like sex, here are some recommendations. • Never get married or cohabitate with females! Living with female limits your freedom and with common law marriage/false rape claims, etc, its best to never live with them. If you date a girl, the moment she "wants to take things to the next step/level and move in, dump her and move on, or simply bang hoes/escorts and make sex an event, like going to the gym (Its much cheaper than having a girlfriend anyway) • Females are NOT your FRIENDS! A female friend only wants you to do "Boyfriend shit" without giving you pussy. If you take females on dates, make them pay their half. You pay for yourself. Enforce your standards and don't give a fuck what they think. They are a bench you want to press, merely a sex tool.

4) Weather you go monk mode or pump and dump, the next step is to be smart with your finances. You will see how much more money you have now that its not wasted on women. I recommend getting "Dave Ramsey's Financial Peace University" Book/DVD's if you don't know how to invest money. Or if you do, great, I hope your ROIC goes through the roof one day!

5) Stay logging into this sub daily/weekly and check in, you will always find support here and tell your other friends about the MGTOW life and how there is really no benefit to get married anymore. "The only way to win is to not play".

Congratulations on your freedom and escaping divorce-rape!

binbagaccount · 2020-01-06T21:43:51+00:00

Ah I can give what you seek.

If want to be happy single, you be willing to do what you enjoy, take up a hobby.

Women are not a hobby, they are worthless trash.

Reading is a hobby, listening to music is a hobby, playing video games is a hobby, watching movies you like is a hobby. Cooking can be a hobby.

Gardening can be a hobby, gym can be a hobby.

Being single is about self discovery and finding what makes you happy.

Till separate woman + kids = happiness

You fail to realise that single + hobby = true happiness.

Women are quick fix like drugs. Don't do them and won't have problems.

Thermotastic · 2020-01-06T23:06:04+00:00

Read, "No More Mister Nice Guy".

It'll help you live without the need for external approval. Making you happier in general.

TheCuckTriggerer · 2020-01-06T23:38:24+00:00

Try dating a single mother in their 30s, that will quickly sour you on women and you won't want a girlfriend anymore.

johnnydh85 · 2020-01-07T02:10:58+00:00

You still not tracking young buck. First you work on yourself for knowledge and a healthy life . Which brings positlviry which brings more positive stuff.. but you have to do it for yourself and not for anyone else or a agenda . Now with that said stop doing things for females .

2020-01-06T15:38:52+00:00

Why do I have to improve myself?

You don't have to. Just go to a country where women aren't so overvalued if you want women.

She gets to have her fun with who knows how many guys while I'm out there "earning my worthiness"? And when am I good enough? When I'm 30? 40?

When she's a single mother with kids and needs somebody to help pay for them. Then you can get your chance to be a hero to pay to raise kids that aren't yours. That's what society would have you do.

What did she accomplish by then that would make her so special?

Nothing. Due to biology, they are most healthy when they are young so they are most attractive when they are young. That's not a question of personal accomplishment but of biology.

hillbilly_mgtow · 2020-01-06T15:42:04+00:00

You are the prize mofo. Not some slag with a burned out axe wound. You have the ability to actually find happiness while women live in a natural state of unhappiness and wanting more

basbasbas199 · 2020-01-06T16:58:56+00:00

Hookers/massagesalon beats relationships anyway

CognPsycNeurScie · 2020-01-06T17:51:00+00:00

The real question is: What do you need a girlfriend for in the first place? Costs outweigh the benefits.

LOIKDU · 2020-01-06T17:58:19+00:00

Finding what you love is a whole journey

11483708 · 2020-01-06T17:59:34+00:00

Yo man, chin up. One of the toughest tests you will face is the ability to give as little of a shit as possible about what women think about you. How to live without a girlfriend? Easy. Have a laugh, workout for yourself and no one else, make sure you chill with some mates, learn something new and have a hobby. Do that, you'll be confident in yourself. You'll find the right girl eventually. Not all women are bad, just a few, just like men. This sub is funny most of the time because it points out the double standards.

HWGA_Gallifrey · 2020-01-06T18:56:25+00:00

Get a dog. They're more loyal.

fuckoffplsthankyou · 2020-01-06T19:15:37+00:00

Find your mission, whatever that is.

Mostly, focus on making yourself happy. Whatever that takes, do it.

palah93 · 2020-01-06T19:18:41+00:00

To give you an answer we need to know a little more about you. What do you do in your life ? Are a still in college or do you have a job ? What’s your hobbies ?

redvisionsss · 2020-01-06T19:36:55+00:00

Find some good porn and a hobby and relax.

NietzscheExplosion · 2020-01-06T20:04:31+00:00

Eat
Sleep
Love yourself.

CommercialReason5 · 2020-01-06T20:16:37+00:00

Get a dog.

silly_birb · 2020-01-06T21:19:20+00:00

A man should improve for self satisfaction.

For me i started going to the gym to get chicks, but then i enjoyed improvong for myself and being satisfied for who i am.

The same for everything else, money is a mean that allows you to do what you want and improove in things you like. You enjoy playing guitar? You can buy what you need and spend the free time playing alone or with others.

weeidkwhatsgoingon · 2020-01-06T23:14:21+00:00

they gave you solid advice but you refused to take any of it because they added the girl bit at the end. just take the advice and dont get the girl? you got down voted for dismissing all advice and being passive aggressive with people.

Lonewolfblack · 2020-01-07T00:50:54+00:00

Hi mate heres what I did, I got with countless women, realised they were all the same, keep a few on the side don't give them any money.

Now, gym, my career excelled with no petty distractions.

I sorted my finances, private pension, optimal interest rates and property investment

I taught myself to invest in shares and and stocks and even trade currency.

I took myself out for dinner.

I focused on friendship, I took my mate out for pizza the other night pulled and went back to hers and left right after.

You don't need. Gf bro. You can be any thing you want

Citadel_97E · 2020-01-07T01:44:43+00:00

Don’t be a bitter asshole.

Improve yourself for you, not her.

You should still be focusing on work, throwing weights around and reading books.

But not for some woman.

2020-01-07T02:19:37+00:00

Lmaoooo you truly are sad. People gave you good advice on how to be happy alone on that sub but you just wanted people to pity you, not give you genuinely good advice. Glad you found the percect circle jerk sub though.

Harlen21 · 2020-01-07T02:46:27+00:00

Find a goal and go for it, at least that's what I do.

It can be anything from studying a new career to getting into a new hobby, the important thing is keep moving/improving loneliness only sets in if you let it and a occupied mind does not have space for it.

KineRov · 2020-01-07T04:25:21+00:00

I haven’t gone through all comments in case somebody already mentioned it then you can ignore this. So first and foremost thing to live a single life is your character. With good character and integrity you will always have people around you to help you. Second is health. Don’t fall sick. Have a healthy life. Sickness call for dependency. Third is wealth. Make money. Save money. Invest money. Fourth is karma. Earn good karma (not the reddit ones) All the best!

2020-01-07T05:00:46+00:00

Do not chase, just earn what you want to earn (be it money, a particular place to live, a specific job...) and do everything you need to do to be sure no one can take these things from you via divorce-rape or false accusations.

Your time is precious, and even if you're doing nothing, ask yourself whether you prefer doing nothing or feeling like shit because you've been cheated on and betrayed or trying to survive stupid mind-games.

DroidOnFleek · 2020-01-07T13:39:19+00:00

Sounds more like "how to give up on a dream of having a girlfriend", because you are allready living without one.

My 2 cents - become better and more interesting version of yourself. for your own sake, not for the others . Become a person you would want to be friends with. Buy a motorcycle, travel to china, read a book, learn a new language, run 5k, take hike in the mountains. Do shit.

masterjake7 · 2020-01-07T14:53:08+00:00

After while (at least for me) the attraction to a fantasy of having a significant other slowly fades as the red-pill syndrome kicks in. Yes every once in awhile I think “I wish she were laying with me right now..” but you have to remind yourself that it’s just a fantasy, and true unconditional love is a rare trait with this younger generation of women.

TL;DR = it may suck at first but you get used to living alone and the positive aspects of such.

Toasty_Nuggetz · 2020-01-07T15:50:50+00:00

It's actually pretty easy. Just wait until you're in your 30's. You'll see. It gets much easier.

In the meantime, exercise, eat right, get enough sleep. Next to your wealth, your health is the most important thing, so look after it. Work hard, study hard, do whatever you have to do to accomplish your goals in life. When you're in your 30's and doing well, you'll look around you at women your age and thank heaven you never got attached to them.

2020-01-08T16:41:56+00:00

Hey 26M here also, before going MGTOW/Monk I pretty much tried everything (Gym, skincare, reading more on relationship, going out more, tinder etc..) None of this shit worked and I just wasted my time. Since I stopped chasing women and started chasing my purpose I found solace.

broski66 · 2020-01-08T17:37:35+00:00

Stay single and focus on yourself, best advice i can give was married once. Sure no one wants to be alone but i'd rather be alone than to pay countless amounts of dollars to a woman who didn't help me earn none of that money.

Title	How to live without a girlfriend
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Comments	77
Date	January 6, 2020 1:47 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/ekucqe/how_to_live_without_a_girlfriend/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MGTOW/how-to-live-without-a-girlfriend.643373 https://theredarchive.com/post/643373

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