i just cannot understand onlyfans

SufferableKant · 2020-05-20T16:17:38+00:00

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silly_birb · 2020-05-20T16:21:16+00:00

That's the result years of feminist emasculation.

It's an accomplished goal, now men have to pay to even look at women.

Try to bump a girl by accident and you will get 10 years of jail.

SufferableKant · 2020-05-20T16:26:06+00:00

they could just hire a fucking scort

The men buying these photos either regard prostitution and escorts as taboo, or they look down on paying for sex, or they consider having to "resort" to directly exchange money for sex as admitting to losing in the game of being able to charm and woo women the old fashioned way.

because she is totally vocative about her boyfriend involvment

As long as these men are getting enough validation, their brains will jump through loops and do whatever it can to ignore cold hard reality.

what is wrong with the guys who buy this shit???

They are so utterly desperate for attention that they are literally paying women to interact with them. These are people, whose highlight of the month is when a random girl smiles at them in the grocery store. These are the kind of people who think that a receptionist is flirting with them just because she has a bubbly personality.

Even if they know that they'll never meet these women on OnlyFans in real life (let alone date them, or have sex with them), the interaction they get is the only way they can fill the void of being hopeless addicted to female validation. And buy paying money they can (usually) avoid the kind of rejection that they would have to tolerate if they walked up to women in real life.

tl;dr

They are too ashamed of paying for sex, so instead, they pay for pretty girls to ~~pay attention to them~~ acknowledge their miserable existence for the shortest amount of time.

sapereAudeAndStuff · 2020-05-20T18:29:34+00:00

It's our biology.

Beta males evolved to trade resources for sex. Only very very recently has this strategy been subverted, and the behaviors haven't caught up yet.

For most of human history a beta male giving a woman resources and seeing her naked was basically him fulfilling his sexual strategy. These men continue to do their end of the deal in accordance with their biology, they just haven't caught on to the fact that this strategy has been fully subverted.

ZealousMaths · 2020-05-20T16:42:49+00:00

Dude, when simps are neglected by moms who on the rare occasion rear them to be men they never would have married or had kids by if youth was eternal, said men go out and become completely easy to the whims of the women.

I always had the belief that our biology not only has individualistic effects but also group effects too. Case in point the development of simps is essentially an intermission where women no matter how disgusting get eternal wealth from men they never would sleep with while they try to be the lucky gal that gets N=526 dude to commit. That’s essentially what happens.

And mgtow is the wrench in it all. Of course you wouldn’t get it. You didn’t fall for the crap, and if you wanted it badly, you could try to be some form of N=526. Maybe not as high, but in general not far off. But even those guys are getting court cut,

So it is all shit and worthless.

StingRayFins · 2020-05-20T16:48:39+00:00

I think two major things are at play here: psychology and upbringing.

In short, and this is my personal opinion, it stems from the sense of ownership. If someone pays or invests in something they have more of an attachment to it.

It's get a free iPhone 11 but if you paid for your iPhone 11 you'd love it more and it would mean more to you. I think some of these guys take it a bit too far and find satisfaction in giving away money without getting much in return (Findom).

I think the second component is being hopeful and delusional. This is the upbringing part. Perhaps they have low self worth or an extreme disconnect from how the world actually works. Many guys have low self-worth. They're insecure, hate themselves, and don't believe they have anything to offer. Guys like these HAVE to resort to other means to even a slightest chance.

They typically need a skill/talent of some sort or 💲💲💲

This is why you need to stay away from people who are overly flashy and materialistic. Often times it's a huge sign of instability and insecurities. This is why the term, "overcompensating" exists and it's for good reason.

R_Hak · 2020-05-20T16:42:14+00:00

I don't understand how so many girls are doing it with no shame and thinking there are no repercussions.

Wisdom_of_a_Khan · 2020-05-20T17:46:48+00:00

As pathetic and sad as it is, They are at least getting "Something" for their money. It's nothing valuable, a naked picture of an average girl. It's pathetic that they would pay for that, but they are atleast paying for something.

The people I don't understand are the ones giving thousands of dollars to gamer girls for literally nothing in return. No picture, No communication, just a bunch of lonely dipshits giving charity to someone that is likely richer than they are.

Mgtow_troaway · 2020-05-20T18:01:24+00:00

The boyfriend is engaging in pimping, and what she's doing is prostitution. It's not modelling because a model sells the thing they are modelling for, like clothes or jewelry. The sexual undertones are necessary for this transaction to occur. They think they are smart for "fleecing" the simps who pay for it, which is exactly how pimps feel about johns.

Teflon08191 · 2020-05-20T17:59:28+00:00

Just call it a stupid tax, like gambling, and call it a day.

blackboots_ · 2020-05-20T21:27:33+00:00

It's sex work, adult entertainment. you can't sugar coat it and say their a model nope, any government job or a job with a back groundcheck will get rejected and I hope they are done because of it.

I know a good bit of nurses have got on it just for the validation and cash. but gues what in almost all 50 states the nursing licenses have a socal media clause of vulgar or something like it worded differently tho. congrats you did porn now i just wish i had a ticket to the show of when your life gets fucked. that 6 years of schooling gone for mabye 3 good years of adult entertainment you did.

I for one had first hand experience with it and well I walked to much surprise of every one but no thanks i don't want sloppy 300+ or have there pics passed around the office. their are no marriageable woman now days.

Now I am just trying to enjoy the decline get in a position for a cabin away form every one, I might find a girl and string her along but.... thats a big risk.

tsundokume · 2020-05-20T22:41:02+00:00

Its the idea that someone is sending personal private photos to you is what draws these men in. A lot of them legitimately think they cannot get a woman under any circumstances and they are just paying to empty the pipes basically.

If you think that idea sounds stupid, that's because it is. Almost all of these girls end up having these private photos leaked online for free so there is literally no incentive into paying into onlyfans. And, I'm going to be 10x10=100 here, after you see them naked once, you kinda have seen all there is to offer.

droidrookie · 2020-05-21T02:17:12+00:00

In fact sites like this should go even more mainstream so that the whole world can know, especially simps, what women are worth.

your_vital_essence · 2020-05-21T03:56:03+00:00

The problem is overpopulation. Too many people means that increasingly large numbers of them will feel worthless enough that the tiny acknowledgement they get for sending money has become worthwhile to pursue.

These young men should have relationships in their lives that both give to and demand of them. That would be solid health food for their psychology. It's actually scary to contemplate the deficit of meaning in so many lives.

Just as a population of deer becomes weakened by disease with too many of them in an area, humans become riddled with spiritual malaise. Perhaps (warning: woo) there are opportunistic parasites in another dimension of existence, whose attachment to a being can only be surmised by external behavior. The "belief shield" that keeps the psyche healthy was pierced, and the human becomes a walking host.

Lol, sorry that got wierd at the end...I just woke up 😅

usnraptor · 2020-05-21T04:18:58+00:00

Could it be the simps are buying approval / validation from the girls? He gives her money and she thanks him, tells him he's wonderful (my hero aka whiteknight), and rewards him with nude pictures.

Duchat · 2020-05-20T17:59:58+00:00

Do you know what I don’t get? Sounding rods. Severe NSFW. Let alone allowing someone else to use it on you, who can’t feel when it’s gone too far.

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