I’m now MGTOW

FreedomReclaimed · 2019-06-06T02:58:44+00:00

I know you feel shitty rn but you just got released from prison. You’re about to live your best life and do better than ever!

user_miki · 2019-06-06T03:02:17+00:00

MGTOW is not coming only after being dumped.It comes from internalizing and understanding why pursuing women is a waste of time and resources that would be better used on yourself.Otherwise another woman comes along and you will forget all pain you suffered and say here you found NAWALT and the cycle repeats.

MasterGetro · 2019-06-06T02:55:38+00:00

Did she really say that too you

GestapoMexican · 2019-06-06T03:06:58+00:00

Hope she gets fat since that is a worse punishment than death! I'm obese btw but trying to lose weight lol

atdForge · 2019-06-06T03:37:07+00:00

You lost a person but you still have yourself..broken but it will pass. You lost money but you will earn it back by working. Please refrain from making life altering decisions while you're still depressed. Move to another state by all means but never because you want to physically distance yourself from bad experiences in that area. Remember, you just ended you turn with her. She will just repeat the cycle with other men. Mgtow is not a refuge to brokenhearted, but to men who observed that their ugly experiences with women are becoming common in this society and better not to play the game. Tip: learn a skill that interest you. It's like a gym for your hands and mind.

ConstantChinner · 2019-06-06T03:02:04+00:00

Fucking cunt. Your course of action is easy here.
Block
Ignore
Ghost

Psybur · 2019-06-06T03:35:05+00:00

The chemicals in your brain will need time to adjust since you're still in "relationship mode", but believe me, you'll get there. Just hang in there and begin to focus on yourself and your new bright future. Staying downtrodden only gives her the power to emotionally control you without her even being there.

ElMatador_33 · 2019-06-06T03:02:16+00:00

She lied. Maybe one day you’ll find out the real reason why she broke it off. Hopefully by then you’ll thank her for setting you free.

figyg · 2019-06-06T04:38:54+00:00

My sweet summer child.

Many of us have been there. You'll pull through it, and be better and stronger in the end.

But for now, grieve. Be honest with yourself. Don't pretend to be macho. Grieve the loss of whatever you were hoping for in this relationship.

I know its sappy, but I can tell you're tender hearted and a good person. And those traits that make you a good person are probably the same traits that she despised.

I'm happy to listen if you need to talk. A lot of guys here pretend it's so easy, but they're usually the incels that never had the chance to be in this situation

LegendOfChunk · 2019-06-06T04:12:33+00:00

You'll slowly start to notice your freedoms as time marches on. You'll hear about guys getting dragged along to extended family parties and you'll remember you don't have to do that anymore. You can play that fifth game of league of legends in a row without worrying if she's silently cursing you for not paying her attention. You'll order that new head for your bike and you'll be glad it wasn't another 80 dollar dinner and a movie night wasted. You'll catch up with an old friend and realize you aren't worried about what you're going to tell your girlfriend so she doesn't get jealous and upset that you're on the phone. Realize these things, then think further. You can be anyone, anywhere, doing anything. Wanna go to the Maldives? Fuckin go, you answer to no one. Wanna take up an instrument? But it and pay for the lessons, your money is yours alone. Your life and your love is your own and for yourself. Live your best life and fuck the rest.

famousbyaccident · 2019-06-06T05:09:29+00:00

I went through the same exact thing last year my guy. Keep ya head up! It’ll be tough now but it’ll get better within time. ✊🏾

tinyricksanchezC137 · 2019-06-06T05:13:33+00:00

Welcome, brother. I too recently got fucked over hard by my ex. I lost everything after fighting (and eventually winning by dismissal) a bullshit charge she lied to the police about when I called the cops. They arrested her but dropped her case right when she was let out. I lost my job, home, and moved to 3 states in the last year. I've been suicidal, but this community has helped me so much. I'm glad I gave it a chance. Don't let these women destroy our lives. Best wishes.

fasterfind · 2019-06-06T05:46:59+00:00

That's such a bullshit thing to say. But, women are masters of bullshit, and now you know how shitty she really is. Move on.

waterfat · 2019-06-06T08:00:11+00:00

Not just women, but most everyone are opportunistic friends. No worries, realize it.

Be happy with you, be your own best friend.

nigelh · 2019-06-06T12:41:04+00:00

As others have said having a breakup isn't going MGTOW.
MGTOW is realising that what you just had was the standard experience. You can either line up for another dose (aka this time it will be different) or move your focus to yourself. Invest your money and hope in yourself.

[deleted] · 2019-06-06T03:33:12+00:00

This can’t be real.

Oh wait. That would be logical...and we are dealing with women.

So it’s probably real.

Did she use those exact words?

[deleted] · 2019-06-06T04:19:07+00:00

What's your profession?

iMattLore · 2019-06-06T04:58:21+00:00

Bro, I feel you. I was with my ex and every thing seemed so perfect. We would even smile at eachother like idiots. And then one day she woke me up and didn't love me anymore.

It sucks, but all you can count on is yourself. Everyone else will stab you in the back.

MGTOW

Yashugan00 · 2019-06-06T05:24:28+00:00

you have learned a valuable lesson that will serve you for all time.

also: you don't need us, you only need yourself. go do something fun

ps: eventually, they all check back in.... and you won't care

DarthCallidous · 2019-06-06T06:05:24+00:00

Never, ever go back to women. Soon you will find that MGTOW is freedom.

jbslol · 2019-06-06T06:30:41+00:00

Be glad you didn’t marry her. It feels bad but it could have been worse.

HereWeGoAgainTJ · 2019-06-06T06:32:14+00:00

That's a fresh wound you got there OP. It'll heal in time, but don't forget who did this to you. Use it, let it drive you. Brick by fucking brick build yourself up again. You have friends here that understand.

Go your own way, and remember: "Success is the best revenge."

gadabout13 · 2019-06-06T08:01:30+00:00

Welcome....it gets better. You're eyes will open and suddenly every horizon will be possible. In a couple years...you could even thank her

Alexius_von_Meinong · 2019-06-06T08:33:05+00:00

Being treated badly and understanding that you've been treated badly is the first step. The second step is how you respond to understanding that you've been ill used.

TheWise_One · 2019-06-06T10:10:31+00:00

Do what do you gotta do to have a better life and to better yourself. It’s all about you and your journey. Love yourself

astuteglute · 2019-06-06T11:36:34+00:00

If you left with no debt that has nothing tangible associated, no spawn to lose, no legal liability, and no STDs your in the green leaving with just what's in your pockets.

Stay_In_Yo_Lane · 2019-06-06T12:58:15+00:00

A similar thing happened to me a couple of weeks ago... :/

[deleted] · 2019-06-06T13:27:08+00:00

First, understand that her reason for leaving you is absolute nonsense. But good luck trying to figure out what her real motives were.

If you have the opportunity to start over somewhere else, and you want to do that, by all means go for it. Just remember that you do not need another person to complete who you are. Take all the love and dedication you gave to her and focus it all on yourself. You will be a much happier man.

samsoldit · 2019-06-06T13:32:06+00:00

Welcome brother.

I'm here for you

Yakzi · 2019-06-06T14:13:45+00:00

Now focus and enjoy your journey and freedom.

And dont forget: you are one blowjob away from prison, alimony, and child support.

mgtow-for-life · 2019-06-06T15:44:38+00:00

Fuck that bitch! Or better, don't :)

FaustoLG · 2019-06-06T15:50:44+00:00

Good decision! Moving away from her, also block every contact with her, especially common contacts.

I recommend you Sandman from youtube, avoid TFM as he shows some traces of SIMP.

Thenattylimit · 2019-06-06T16:13:59+00:00

Im not even really mgtow but i can 100% support the philosophy of only looking out for yourself. Stick to that and you wont go too far wrong.

Chin up bro. Good shit will come.

CastandRefused · 2019-06-06T16:28:20+00:00

It is said that the one who cares less in a relationship has the power. If you are going to date (which I don't do) then you need to not give a shit because when you give all the power to a woman in that way she will use it against you. Women are not romantic and they do not have hearts for men. This along with my desire for freedom and an unwillingness to play their games makes me avoid them completely. I live for me and MGTOW is a blessing. Welcome to real living.

XbabyjeezusX · 2019-06-06T17:15:59+00:00

Oh the "you love me too much/you're just to sweet" excuse. That's an oldie. It's in the same family as "it's not you it's me" and "I think we should be friends" excuses. What this really means is "I've been talking/fucking another guy for about a month and ready to swing over" You should have just popped her in the face one good time and said "How's that for love, bitch?!"

smokeythecat420 · 2019-06-06T17:21:46+00:00

"Why do my eyes hurt?"

"You've never used them before"

Cest7 · 2019-06-06T18:51:49+00:00

Welcome to the first day of the rest of your life

MuleFool42 · 2019-06-06T19:50:58+00:00

Look at this as a lesson learned, but more so, as an opportunity to focus on yourself, your personal and professional development, as well as to improve your physical and mental health.

Relish these opportunities and never let anyone get in between you and your personal goals, for yourself and your own happiness, ever again.

You'll be respected more for prioritizing yourself and your own needs (because in this society nobody else will, so it's on you) and by demanding a level of respect from others, that if they can't meet it, you cut them out of your life.

Soon, your circle of contacts is quality people who add to your life and who you learn from.

Don't ever look in the rear view mirror, move forward and achieve success. After all, success is the best revenge. Not against any particular individual, but against society at large that expects everything from you but will give nothing back. Screw that, grab the world by the balls and twist it to your own will.

Hoping all the best for you.

shitfromass · 2019-06-06T21:05:48+00:00

So my girlfriend dumped me because I “loved her too much.”

riiiiiight...

Title	I’m now MGTOW
Author	trey7bayou
Upvotes	161
Comments	80
Date	June 6, 2019 2:55 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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