I’m sorry guys

bacon_and_3ggs · 2019-04-26T00:54:40+00:00

Sounds like you've swallowed your first red pill.

As for your past anger at us...we dont give a fuck.

Keep swallowing the red pills..sounds like it's new to you. And if you've resisted it before beware your blue pilled programming 'you are one blow job away from being back on the plantation'

Either way. Welcome. Keep reading

dirtydog113 · 2019-04-26T02:04:46+00:00

WE dont judge here , everyone has their own story and double cross to bear.

Welcome , beer in the fridge , whiskey on the bar.

Pessimist_realist · 2019-04-26T00:55:48+00:00

Most men wake up eventually. Not all though.

53withtrollhair · 2019-04-26T02:06:02+00:00

Don't apologize, that is not why we are here. We are supportive and accepting of truth. Be strong and welcome. You can share here anytime.

DunkelDunkel · 2019-04-26T01:12:54+00:00

Stay positive and keep an open mind but always remember that AWALT: no unicorns, and you should be fine.

cyndonn66 · 2019-04-26T03:01:32+00:00

The last good woman I knew died 20 years ago. RIP, mom.

PorkBomber · 2019-04-26T08:01:56+00:00

I did, in today’s society there is absolutely no way to find a good woman out there.

Its not about being able to find a good woman. Its about women having 100s of different ways to fuck you over and ruin your life. Women have TOO MUCH power in today's society. She only needs to make a short phone call to police and say you've laid your hands on her and you'll be in jail for DV in no time. She suddenly has a change of heart after 10 years of marriage, decides to take a divorce and there goes half of your income and assets.

The problem is, even if you find a 'good' woman, she still has all the same power and privileges to ruin your life as a 'bad' woman does. Would you live in a house with a serial killer? I guess not because you wouldn't feel safe. Marriage is similar. A woman has power to ruin your life in few seconds and you can do absolutely nothing about it. Its living your life on the edge.

VanIsleR · 2019-04-26T02:51:23+00:00

Don't be sorry because we were all you before we took the red pill too. I can't tell you how many times I shamed men who weren't with women or at least thought it to myself. I was always dating, always worshiping the golden V, but no more. Welcome to your best life.

Llodarr · 2019-04-26T02:47:04+00:00

☮️ welcome brother.

cyndonn66 · 2019-04-26T03:03:31+00:00

Kudos. Welcome to recovery. Read and learn to enjoy life without dependency upon females, my friend.

PrismMage · 2019-04-26T04:38:29+00:00

Consider yourself forgiven. Welcome to MGTOW.

Thundus_Bear · 2019-04-26T02:13:12+00:00

Welcome.

Older_Miggy · 2019-04-26T04:18:39+00:00

So you're about my age. Care to share a backstory with us, and what changed your mind?

tacticalinfernape · 2019-04-26T04:45:37+00:00

"angry dudes who can't get laid"

exactly what you'd expect from NPC

DWS33_ · 2019-04-26T04:43:30+00:00

that’s why we never care when guys shit talk us. because if you’re able to actually date women with ease you will take the red pill

Misogynist-youth · 2019-04-26T05:44:17+00:00

Don't apologize for learning the truth.

Apologise to yourself only if you let history repeats it self

MajorVegas · 2019-04-26T03:53:32+00:00

Hey, welcome to the hospital. Come take a seat.

MethaCat · 2019-04-26T05:42:51+00:00

Now all that's left is to let the rage pass and start bettering yourself.

selfism_mike · 2019-04-26T06:06:51+00:00

You are forgiven. Now go and sin no more.

Uttfttufftcytfcctf · 2019-04-26T05:49:57+00:00

Nothing to apologize for, we were all you at one point

Senip69 · 2019-04-26T07:13:59+00:00

It’s always the way. A guy will come here while he’s still wearing his leash and spray noxious shit everywhere then fucking 6 months later he’ll cone crawling back with his tail between his legs.

Don’t think I’m insulting you,... hell I was the same once, we all were but I wonder if you’ll put the leash back on once the initial pain is gone or will you fully wake up to the current state of affairs.

Only time will tell

carlodelmazo · 2019-04-26T04:05:00+00:00

Who knows, if you like woman keep looking, I mean just know the consequences and don’t complain if something goes south.

drakal7 · 2019-04-26T04:32:44+00:00

Welcome

Goshtow · 2019-04-26T08:10:08+00:00

Welcome. This is a rare place where actual healing can begin.

roflcopt0rz_returns · 2019-04-26T08:24:12+00:00

The truth always wins in the end, and MGTOW is the truth.

It takes some people longer to take the red pill than others. Many men die without taking it at all.

As for your first impressions about MGTOW, we get that kind of stuff all the time, we're used to it. MGTOW is less about egos and more about sharing the truth. If you can admit you were wrong, that's a far bigger step than the average person can take these days.

highiqcurrycel · 2019-04-26T04:36:49+00:00

" I used to think y’all are just bunch of angry dudes who can’t get laid, ranting about women "

Tbh most men here would be sub-7 and the not getting laid part might be true for a lot of men here. But it makes perfect sense. If the game is so rigged and the odds of winning are so low, its better to pull out completely and just enjoy your copes.

AdrianoWerneck · 2019-04-26T09:54:53+00:00

This is what happens when you choose feelings over statistics.

RedMeatTrinket · 2019-04-26T14:11:45+00:00

When I was 21, I would never have believed my older self about this. My dad did say something to me but I thought to myself, "Stupid old man." It took more years than normal to discover it. I ever heard of MGTOW until last year but I was already living they belief system for years.

Freefrombitches123 · 2019-04-26T14:22:12+00:00

We've all been there

2019-04-26T14:22:49+00:00

It's not that we can't get laid, it's just not worth it. I've always had sex with women thinking in the back of my mind that the condom could split, so it's important to only sleep with high quality women (ie mental health) because if I have an accidental child with her due to the condom breaking, I want my kid to have the best mum possible. Right?

But there's so many women out there with hidden mental disorders, or who are seriously crazy, combined with todays media conditioning that they are better than everyone else and have more rights than everyone else...including thier children, that it's just not worth the risk anymore.

I don't like the way MGTOW is going, it started out well and then got invaded and taken over by actual incels - "men" who can't get laid because they are soyboys with bad attitude, "men" who whine about how women treat them but do nothing to better themselves to attract the women they want. These "men" are basically spoilt boys...and now half of MGTOW are these "men", which is not what MGTOW is about. "Men going their own way" ie having the choice to go your own way, is not "MWHTGTOW" ie "Men who HAVE TO go their own way" because they won't make the sacrifice to better themselves.

So be careful who you listen to. There's youtubers out there or people on reddit and elsewhere who will give you the advice along the lines of "women deserve to die in a fire" or some shit like that, claiming to be MGTOW...they are not MGTOW they are just lazy incels. As we see with feminists, it's far easier to hate your polar opposite and blame them for your problems than it is to make sacrifices and do the work.

Even if you tap out from dating, you should still actively be trying to make it into the top 20% of the male population on earth. This is quite easy all you need to do is make money, lift weights, get your diet right... and you are in the top 20%.

The only way women will ever change is if the top 20% of men (because women will only sleep with the top 20% and not the rest of the 80%) will no longer put up with their shit.

https://i.imgur.com/XPFYOPZ.png

If all of the top 20% of men went MGTOW, women would soon change, drop the feminist crazy BS, just to find a man they are actually attracted to.

There's nothing more fleeting in life really than knowing women want you but CHOOSING to MGTOW. You become the forbidden fruit. The diamond amongst the ashes. That they can never have.

Put simply, the juice isn't worth the squeeze, and in 2019, 80% of men need a fucking power tool to perform the squeeze.

XbabyjeezusX · 2019-04-26T18:59:07+00:00

Yea we're not incels. If incels are the before picture then we are the after picture. We got there saw how shitty it was and said "fuck this shit" That's the thing. We got laid and saw how bad shit gets after that.

SamwellTarleyofTexas · 2019-04-26T00:52:41+00:00

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Red_Pill_Philosopher · 2019-04-26T02:46:08+00:00

Serves you right buddy.

Never disrespect the red pill again.

XD XD XD

hahahihi1234 · 2019-04-26T04:17:50+00:00

It's funny people think MGTOW can't get laid, because it's literally what gets every drug dealer, rapist, abuser, murderer etc. laid 24/7.

SpaceCowboyBop · 2019-04-26T05:46:05+00:00

It takes character to admit you were wrong, plus experience usually. We were all blue pill at one point, at least you are here now and not swinging from a rope in your garage.

AllureFX · 2019-04-26T06:52:29+00:00

its the minority of incels and some members with initial red pill rage that give off the angry vibe in the community. Most are extremely laid back and prolly some of the least stressed out ppl on the planet

Lorandel1cz · 2019-04-26T06:58:22+00:00

Apology accepted, welcome, brother.

azereze · 2019-04-26T08:19:07+00:00

don't worry bro we always here to help you, be careful when she says want to meet, don't make any contact with her

r8001 · 2019-04-26T09:28:31+00:00

It's ok, we're used to it. It's nice to see a post like this though. I mean not that you had to go through this shit, no no, wouldn't wish that on.... actually, no, I would wish that on an enemy, but ugh, anyway, it's nice that you admit you were wrong about us.

EpicFruityPie · 2019-04-26T10:50:53+00:00

Exactly it's not that we can't get laid its that we choose to stay the fuck away

mengmar1 · 2019-04-26T11:26:13+00:00

I think the issue is homogenisation of lots of groups and from an outsider looking in it’s easy to equate all of them as sad bitter incels. This is what feminists do too. They aren’t interested in analysing the different groups and for them it’s far easier in their mind to think any man that avoids women or doesn’t actively pursue them is a sad incel. But as you now know the difference is huge. Sure, with mgtow there are some amongst us that feel a mild dislike for women. That’s only natural once you realise their true nature. But, we are more focused on living life to the full for ourselves than complicating it all with a woman. There is no desperation involved or bitterness that we can’t get a woman as such as many of us have been led to mgtow for the very reason of having had bad experiences with being with women. It’s all about us being the focus now and not letting a woman ruin it and financially destroy us. Sometimes, like my case for example, we are living with the vestiges of our beta mistakes of the past. But it can only be up from there! Incels are unable to get women, may have a certain red pill awareness to them but their identity is built around bitterness, self pity etc. They are a totally different animal to mgtow. Different species even.

SupremeGentleman92 · 2019-04-26T12:03:19+00:00

Pretty much everybody in r/thebluepill They’ll all realize it sooner or later, let them enjoy their ignorance while it lasts.

Sajuck-Khar · 2019-04-26T12:17:00+00:00

You'll see there a levels of MGTOW (or red pill). From those of us who still indulge in getting our thirst quenched, to complete bitter hermits who chose to leave the society. Everyone comes with different experiences and levels of pain they endured. It's up to you to decide what going your own way means to you. The common thread that binds guys here (in my opinion) is that we recognize the disfunctional gender dynamic today and how the cards are stacked against men in society. So most of us just remind ourselves to always be on guard which ever level of MGTOW you'll choose to adopt.

As someone who never got hurt or divorced raped, I chose to interact with women for many different reasons. I require my needs to be met, to be healthy in mind and body and to succeed in life just to name a few. With that said I always remind myself to never ever get emotionally attached and be ready to cut the cord no matter how much she might resemble a unicorn.

UserName3267 · 2019-04-26T12:21:12+00:00

You are welcome here!

enderagent890 · 2019-04-26T12:46:50+00:00

don't apologize, we don't take thoughts like that seriously anyway :]

annonymous93 · 2019-04-26T13:41:47+00:00

It often takes extreme pain to snap one out of the matrix....That's the largest factor I would argue between the redpilled and bluepilled people

ohyoullknowme · 2019-04-26T14:15:23+00:00

Today is the first day of your free life my brother. Live it. GYOW.

FalsePositiveRethink · 2019-04-26T20:30:28+00:00

The penny drops.

vuuraap666 · 2019-04-26T21:15:56+00:00

I used to think y’all are just bunch of angry dudes who can’t get laid, ranting about women

I think your first intuition was pretty on the money dude

FitCorner7 · 2019-04-26T22:59:31+00:00

Reasons why i joined MGTOW: -Kept putting my career on hold like a dumbass chasing pussy - married for 9 years. Wife stole 9k in savings and blew it on herself because shes "depressed" -i dont find women interesting i just like theyre vagina -now that we are going through a divorce all the sudden i was abusive lol

My plans: -finish degree only 1 yr left -get a corvette -fuck hookers if i feel the itch -stay fit af im 6-3, 6% bodyfat -avoid women and relationships

Gobc · 2019-04-26T23:43:05+00:00

You know what's great about the MGTOW community? We don't need an apology from you. You were always welcome.

bacon_and_3ggs · 2019-04-26T07:20:37+00:00

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Title	I’m sorry guys
Author	SamwellTarleyofTexas
Upvotes	429
Comments	79
Date	April 26, 2019 12:41 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/bhg506/im_sorry_guys/
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