Im thankful for this comunity

Konsaki · 2018-02-25T18:01:47+00:00

Don't stop educating yourself and I'm talking about academic education!

Dropping out of your government provided schooling is literally just throwing money away, which is a really shitty way to start your solo life as a man!

Never stop educating yourself! Go back to finish school. It might be boring and may even be slanted against you for just being a male but quitting means 'they' won because they got you to quit... and quitting just hurts you.

Even now, 20 years after completing my high school education, I'm still consistently reading and learning new things. This allowed me to make informed decisions which allows me to live successfully as a self-made man.

Please look after yourself.

ZeroBlink · 2018-02-25T18:09:15+00:00

As much as everyone might tell you to go to college. I think that it is important to IDENTIFY what's available and most profitable for you. I made the mistake of getting educated in field that is almost non-existant in my region and basically wasted 10G's on nothing. Then I had to go to study in different more practical field of expertise.

SuhMaDud · 2018-02-25T17:57:06+00:00

It's great that you know the reality you live in while you're still young. Keep up the good work!

Tercalerc · 2018-02-25T18:06:45+00:00

You're young. So im going to warn you now. You will be deceived by girls who will act like they want you. No. They want what you represent. Provisioning and resources. A woman can never...EVER give you the happiness you seek. They can give you temporary (or IMPERMANENT :p) bouts of pleasure and enjoyment, but at what cost? Your freedom, thats what. Pussy or freedom. Pick one.

mutageno · 2018-02-25T22:15:39+00:00

I may be paid 800 pounds a month

Army sucks and you won't have much to show afterwards. It's a waste of precious time. And that money is too little to be worth your time. These are your best years. Don't waste them. Invest in yourself and your future.

Just try not to waste too much time on women, booze, drugs, etc. You'll wake up in 10 years with nothing to show.

Find something you'd like to do in a trade full of like-manded men. There are a lot of man jobs around that are amazing once you master them. From carpentry to rocket science. People holding civilization together recognize each other. You'll never see a male scientist make fun of a mechanic. On the contrary, he'd be full of questions to share over some beers.

Men are competitive but respect each other. Women are the ones who dis people doing things beyond their abilities.

mutageno · 2018-02-25T20:45:57+00:00

The army isn't worth it it the UK. You have no GI bill.

Go back and study your pants off.

Ohboohoolittlegirl · 2018-02-26T08:17:23+00:00

I find it hard to understand MGTOWs in the army. MGTOW says: get out of society, go your own way. And here you are, willing to die for that society that doesn't give a shit about you..

SimplyKaz · 2018-02-25T21:40:01+00:00

Hey man, I'm 18, also British. I was raised by a single mom and dropped out of school at 16. I love video games and I do Nofap/am celibate. Was diagnosed with depression and anxiety. We have a lot in common man.

You seem like you're on track with your goals and aspirations. But I'm just gonna say a few things I'm thinking about looking back on the past 2 years of my life I wish someone told me.

If I could give you any piece of advice from what I've learned it wouldn't be any of the chiche shit you always hear 'stay in school' etc. or any stuff regarding women(thats on the sidebar) I'd just tell you to find something I enjoyed that was contributing to something I cared about in life. It took me way too long to stop focusing on the number 'get X job, get X money, be successful because of X reason then you'll be successful and respected' We're lucky because we're so young that we can make mistake after mistake until we find our true path. We're already pretty far ahead of most! You have plenty of time to figure out what you want to do, so if you want to just get a normal job for a year or two whilst you work on yourself, train for the army, and focus on what really makes you get up in the morning, that's totally fine dude. If you think you already have it figured out that's cool too, just don't lock yourself in for anything just yet as you'll change a lot between 16-18 and learn a lot more about yourself. I wanted to be in the RAF, and joined the ATC and trained until I could pass the basic requirements easily, but during that process, I learned enough about myself to realise that being in the RAF wasn't what I really wanted to do with my life.

Dropping out of school was the best decision I ever made. It might not be for you, but the point I'm trying to make is don't be afraid of doing the unconventional thing. Put yourself first and always work harder on yourself than you do your ob/career/hobby ect.

Good luck man, you're in for a rollercoaster these next few years, but you'll come out the other side a true man.

fullnamenumber7 · 2018-02-25T22:44:23+00:00

good deal!! i say no to no fap and i make attempt to send my sex energy up to my head. read the multi orgasmic man. you can have tons of orgasms without ejaculating. its awesome and intense! and you dont experience the little death!

DJDickJob · 2018-02-26T02:45:35+00:00

It's so great to see younger guys waking up to this. Learn as much as you can from the mistakes of others, advice can be a valuable thing. If you don't have a father figure or mentor, use the internet to connect with people that can help fill that void. We're here for you man.

antishock8 · 2018-02-25T23:00:18+00:00

Self-improvement is a lifelong process. Never stop. Never give in to laziness. Never become complacent. You'll do great.

master_haku91 · 2018-02-25T19:14:49+00:00

Good on ya m8!

Best of luck to you young man.

MegaDeathX12 · 2018-02-26T01:50:26+00:00

I think you should reconsider going into the junior soldiers. The british government is very feminist. Chances are you will be dealing with a lot of simps that will be incharge of you. With a regular job if you have problems with simps you can just leave. In the army you can't do that. And if you get a pretty female in your unit be prepared to always do some of her work. It may be an extra 4 hours of guard duty or just lifting a lot of heavy equipment because she can't. While she is fucking her way up to a higher rank.

VlogIt · 2018-02-26T10:02:20+00:00

The education system sucks, it's design to enslave people, to work at a job.

But don't stop learning. If you want, read up on Robert Kiyosaki. One of his popular book is "Rich dad, Poor dad"

Here's a start:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kcMV3IotuU8

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=buK-a70E0bI

axonMagnus · 2018-02-26T18:37:35+00:00

/u/BLUEUPTON hey buddy 22 year old british lad here , i live next to norwich. i dont recommend going to the army as you will be fighting and dieing for a society that is pushed countless of our brothers to suicide or slavery aka devorce rape aka baby jail aka unjust laws.

What i recommend is for now go and find your self a job at best something you like at worst something you tolerate! get your self a car license! dont but a car if you live in a big city just have a car license that way u will have access to more jobs.

don't get a car unless you really really really have to because at your age the insurance will have your way with you, and cost an arm and a leg!

after you are working when you are 19 , i recommend you go into computer science but looking for a college course call "access to higher education" computing. it will be free for you and just one year course after that you can go to university for 4 years .

the reason i recommend computer science is its the very very very few degree that will give you access to "ALL FUCKIN INDUSTRIES IN THE WHOLE FUKIN WORLD" the other degree i can think of that does is the same thing is law degree and business degree. plus if you love video game with the comp sci degree you will be set!

Flame2057 · 2018-02-25T18:34:19+00:00

Wrong sub bro

TheToadShroom · 2018-02-26T01:47:51+00:00

Nofap at your age if fucking hard. Respect man. I was only able to pull that off in my late twenties when my hormones basically stopped working lol.

verynormalsimple · 2018-02-26T05:57:53+00:00

Dropping out of school is not a good idea, at least finish that before making any decisions about your life. After that I'd consider college only if you're capable and willing to study something lucrative, if not you're better in the army or something like that because college is hella expensive and nowadays there's a myriad of useless degrees. Only a few careers are good choices considering what the future will look like, and they will take effort and brains for sure.

Title	Im thankful for this comunity
Author	BLUEUPTON
Upvotes	123
Comments	71
Date	February 25, 2018 5:53 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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