I am wondering how many of you deal with the fact that logically you know pursuing romantic relationships with females is a bad idea, but your hard-wired dna still drives you to do so. It seems as though as humans we are designed to search out this missing piece so that we can procreate. Even with the knowledge of what that eventually turns into, you can't help but thinking "well this one could be different". The drive to find a women is not something that I can out think. How could I possibly out think my known purpose for being on earth? Modern society, marriage, long term relationships, online dating, texting, ghosting, high speed porn. We are the first generation to deal with these things as well as being enlightened to the damage that they can cause in our lives. I feel as though as happy as "going our own way" will make us, it's just going to be natural for their to be an emptiness that can not be filled. I recognize that the emptiness is an illusion designed by nature to give you the motivation to carry on your genes. Nature is tricky. So how do we out wit it?