MGTOW Endgame?

darkmanilluminate · 2020-08-28T17:06:23+00:00

My endgame is to leave 3 kinds of legacies. One social, having provided certain services and support to improve the lives of people in my community. One monumental, I’m designing and building my own home that will be an expression of my values and vision. And last, one that’s a legacy for my estranged children. Regardless of what they have been led to believe about me or how they interpret my choices, it’s my intention to leave them with both some inspiration for life & some resources to begin their own pursuits.

Ben_Eszes · 2020-08-28T16:44:40+00:00

My endgame is to protect my future self from making a bad decision based on love. I want everything I do to be rational and for the betterment of myself.

Si-Wo · 2020-08-28T18:00:15+00:00

having fun and die happile ever after a lot of more fun

LegendOfChunk · 2020-08-28T21:04:46+00:00

To have the things I couldn't safely achieve while on the plantation, and to reclaim those things that were taken from me as I left it.

My land, my home, my children, my vehicles, my hobbies. I can have these things again now that I am living for myself and my boy, after losing everything to the gynocentric default of the court system.

3 years later, my ex has lost the house that was PAID OFF, her daughters (that she took from me 100% on a whim after 8.5 years of them being "my children") don't bother with her, she rides the cc for places to stay with a new boyfriend every 3 months, her son HATES her, she's on her fourth vehicle since then, even though the 3 she got in the divorce were also paid off, and she had to give up her "business" that she was so fuckin proud of that was bought for her because it wasn't enough to support shit when she no longer had her free house.

Conversely, I have since bought some land in the country and I have new cars and hobbies, thousands in the bank, and not a worry in the world. On top of that, I am building not only my own home, but a home for my son, as well. He will own his own home that he helped build with his old man before he's even 16 years old, and everything in both our lives will be paid off with no bullshit attached to it.

This is why I MGTOW. On the plantation, playing by their rules, you simply lose everything or are constantly at risk of losing everything. Going my own way means I don't worry about those things and just do what is right by me.

birl_ds · 2020-08-28T17:54:55+00:00

Gonna adopt 1 to 3 Kids when im 50

I believe Its much more to The world compared to what most people do

happyhappyhuman · 2020-08-28T21:02:48+00:00

My goal is simple: To live an easy, happy, healthy, long life and not screw any of that up with unnecessary risks.

The basics are in place already with two university degrees, a stable job with an (all male) team I’ve worked with for 6 years now and a debt-free existence. I have no mental health issues, no chronic conditions and no alcohol, cigarettes or drug dependence. I even very rarely drink coffee. I’ve put a bit of weight on since lockdown but that will be gone again soon as I begin to leave the house a bit more.

I have everything I want in life at the moment and to be honest, my only real goal right now is to learn to cook fancier stuff (healthy is good but is starting to get a bit boring now).

sootlord · 2020-08-28T17:14:05+00:00

Not sure what my end goal is. Been going my own way for 2 years now, its still a difficult transition from 25 years of blue pill conditioning.

I just want to get a place where I can be content

isthisthelasttime34 · 2020-08-28T17:24:32+00:00

Just not abiding by the social expectations. Including those imposed by other men. I no longer need to get laid constantly and have a hot girlfriend beside me to feel adequate among other guys. That was the last step I needed to overcome before becoming full MGTOW. And now that I've done that, I simply don't care. I'm going to do things my way and my way only. And then hopefully make it 70-75, where I will then go skydiving over the ocean without a parachute. Because I also don't want to slave away for 30-40 years just to have medical coverage in my last decade of life. The world is going to shit anyway, and nothing is going to stop that.

CyberSmith34 · 2020-08-28T17:52:45+00:00

Family through surrogacy.

Phantom_Spark · 2020-08-28T18:11:05+00:00

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michaelfowler · 2020-08-29T01:15:26+00:00

Be respected and looked up to by my kids. Sell my business and retire by 35. Climb mt everest, swim with sharks, fly a plane. Fuck and desert as many women as possible.

Alexius_von_Meinong · 2020-08-29T04:57:11+00:00

The unexpurgated sharing of personal experiences that has appeared in MGTOW forums has made me more aware of the patterns of female behavior, and I watch for them. Even in women I know to be decent, I see the little tells of hypergamy and narcissism, and I carefully contain any relationships I have with women so that they are never in a position to do me harm. I am perfectly content living alone in my own home, washing my own clothes, cooking my own meals, scrubbing my own toilet, and so on.

My simple life allows me to focus the majority of time on the things that interest me the most, and that is where I find satisfaction and value in life. Even though I have to devote a few hours of each day to work, still, most of my life is completely taken up with things that I love. In this respect, I am lucky. Even though I am poor, my life gets better every year as my focus on my interests sharpens.

EL10RUB · 2020-08-29T07:39:14+00:00

To fully be the man I was due to be. I'm 47 having to start again while ex is living in the £600,000 house I bought. Got a great relationship with my two sons (8 &12) but living in a rented apartment. I know I'll come again and this time with total and utter focus. All I want is a home for me and my boys and continue to be a dedicated father to them.

As standard I was blamed for everything and having any type of conversation with her escalates so Ive completely pulled back. I ignore her calls, dont speak to her at all. When my boys come over its light hearted, fun, silly, usual dad / boys stuff. They moan about their mum but I decided from the outset that I would never say anything neg about her because I knew that this is what she wants, drama. By being the dad I am, with zero reference to her, the boys actually see me for me, not through the lens of their mum.

Point being is that women sap your energy and focus, its very difficult for a man to realise his true potential / value while being with a woman. Once MGTOW, all of that goes and you can focus 100% on yourself & your children. Brucie bonus is that you know she is miserable having to eek out attention where she can get it.

carbonblob · 2020-08-29T14:54:43+00:00

These days, being happily single is much more socially acceptable.

20+ years ago, if you didn't have a female in your life? The consensus was that any single men were probably gay, wierdos/pedophiles, or there's something extremely unattractive about them that you can, or can't see. Medical problems, addiction issues etc.

You were expected to start and build a family as your first priority. Your career mostly existed to financially facilitate that. Whatever interests and hobbies you have - may never come to fruition. Basically - a beta provider existence. This CAN be a good life, if things go smoothly and the couple works and stays together as the decades go by. And the guy understands his situation and is OK with it.

With divorce rates over 50%, it's a coin toss.

If it all fails, everything gets more complicated - emotions, assets, kids, stress/frustration, new relationships.

Don't let anyone else convince you that you can't possibly be happy as a single person, when you have that red pill awareness that you're doing just fine.

GroundbreakingAd7585 · 2020-08-28T18:49:48+00:00

I'm going to retire in ten years, before I turn 50. I'm banking over 25% of my income. My goal is to retire to the mountains, a nice cabin.

gsharm · 2020-08-28T22:09:23+00:00

Discovery, with minimal impediments.

mgtow-for-life · 2020-08-28T22:21:18+00:00

On my way to early retiring. Money not spent on some thots brings me closer to my goal. So in a way it is ultimate freedom.

Oh well, and society and this leftist-gynocentric clown world can go down the crapper for all I care as I don't have kids.

SlainFunicle · 2020-08-29T00:10:19+00:00

aA lot of young mgtows are using surrogates from overseas and then bring the child back so if you want kids their are a lot of work around, mgtow is about living life happy and free while skipping the traps and learning from other peoples mistake

gantz_au · 2020-08-29T02:58:26+00:00

Enjoy life. What more do I really need?

ExpertDesk6 · 2020-08-30T11:31:18+00:00

Peace and freedom.

Title	MGTOW Endgame?
Author	Phantom_Spark
Upvotes	11
Comments	27
Date	August 28, 2020 4:28 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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