Mocked for being debt free

Infinitewisdom1984 · 2019-12-21T23:58:27+00:00

Because women never compare you to themselves. They compare you to other men, and in your case, men with mortgages.

Datingisnotfun999 · 2019-12-22T00:03:44+00:00

ridiculed? nah, its just a decoy to try to hide she is a gold digger. Also why would you tell a women your finances ever, yet alone a first date. Friend, she will come back to #MeToo you when she is unable to obtain a rich man.

p3p3_sylvia · 2019-12-22T00:32:19+00:00

A woman with a useless masters degree, a nice car and apartment she can barely afford with 6 figures debt will always look down on you if you drive an older car or don’t own a house or just have a bachelors degree, even if you’re completely debt free and have a positive net worth. They don’t care if you’re good with money, they wanna see you spend it (bonus points if you spend it on them). Why do you think so many of them are broke in older age becuase they don’t get the concept of saving money?

DangZagnut · 2019-12-22T00:07:24+00:00

They want to make you feel bad in order to make themselves feel better. Crab in a bucket mentality.

Learn to love your haters, because you must be doing something right. Take their negativity and use it as fuel to make yourself better.

Even something toxic can give a good insight about yourself. It is still an opinion that is perceived as an insult and can still have a form of truth.

Just stick to what you believe in and don't let others hold you back from success. The higher value you will get, the more people will start acting funny around you. Even your closest friends can become an enemy overnight.

My advice is to keep a low profile. People will hate you especially when you become FIRE. They hate on you because it puts a mirror on themselves and their missed opportunities. They squandered through life. You have to let go of toxic people. Fuck them and live your best life. Keep on pushing every day regardless of the shit that happens and whatever people say. Because in the end they are not paying your bills.

ronoda12 · 2019-12-22T00:19:19+00:00

Basically she is looking for a house provider. Run away.

WaywardStag · 2019-12-22T01:30:53+00:00

Be honest - you weren't ridiculed for not having a mortgage, you were ridiculed for not having a house. This is the kind of dishonest re-framing is what we're used to dealing with from women, not from men.

Fuxk1n · 2019-12-21T23:57:37+00:00

Do bedder maaaaan. Hope you made that bitch pay for the date. Never under any circumstances let a woman know you have money. Nothing good can come from it.

CoinSwapTrader · 2019-12-22T01:47:12+00:00

This is why I ignore what women say because they are stupid

0signal0 · 2019-12-22T00:36:40+00:00

Say you gotta go to the bathroom real quick and leave the place never to come back.

Bourbonandcigars06 · 2019-12-22T01:30:13+00:00

It’s like teaching calculus to a 2 yr old. Just cannot or have ability to understand it so I do t get offended.

If she doesn’t understand financial independence and personal finances, don’t waste your or her time as you already know you are incompatible

Finances are first and foremost as well as preservation and her behavior is huge risk to your finances. She will want you to spend your money on her and if you don’t will consider as treating her bad. If she’s really that bad and laughs, it also shows instability and would not associate as she can make false claims, groping, get you fired etc.

Just do your thing and preserve yourself

n0t__t0day · 2019-12-22T00:53:25+00:00

Can't take your house if you don't have a house. Yet, may be 10years or so.

(I assume there is no mortgage free house in the picture)

She was just upset.

JSizzl3 · 2019-12-22T01:21:42+00:00

Ghost

kyledontcare · 2019-12-22T03:43:06+00:00

Laughing and insulting you is what people do when they have nothing else better to say in response; they just wish to gosh they were you.

humbleprotector · 2019-12-22T02:09:01+00:00

What's wrong with not having a mortgage? Made my final mortgage payment 4 years ago(it's easy to save when you don't have someone spending your money for you) and I couldn't be happier!

the-lone-squid · 2019-12-22T02:20:08+00:00

No mortgage? Or no house?

She's looking for a nice house to live in

rocko20002 · 2019-12-22T02:41:13+00:00

A mortgage means you have a house which means you have assets which means she's entitled to wait out her DUI at your place while she may or may not put out for you.

thefudmaster · 2019-12-22T04:44:35+00:00

OP. Don’t date.

LuvJoyMuzik · 2019-12-22T05:05:40+00:00

Because, vagina!! 🤣🤣🤣

RoboMandrake · 2019-12-22T06:47:11+00:00

She would like to volunteer to assist you in solving this problem of having no debt. She has many ideas how to go about this.

2019-12-24T17:54:18+00:00

When it comes to finances, women are terrible. Do not forgot that we're also in peak clown world, for these dumb thots being in debt and having zero dollar left from your paycheck is worth it if you ''own'' a car or a house.

Don't get me wrong it's not just women, I know this guy who's a complet simp and who is 120K in debt but loves to brag about how he got a brand new car, bike house and a girlfriend. None of these things are yours and if you ever lose your job for whatever reasons they will all vanish into thin air :)

dtribbletron · 2019-12-22T01:52:16+00:00

So you own your home outright or are renting?

Soldierbosh · 2019-12-22T02:43:08+00:00

Lol. I can't afford a mortgage either, and I work full time in a white collar job. Australia huh?

Nevermind. Being debt free and frugal is good, and minimizes stress. Probably not something this chick will ever understand, which is sad for her.

Tallsmarthandsome · 2019-12-22T06:17:34+00:00

You should be mocked for being on a date?

flibbidy_floob · 2019-12-22T06:24:01+00:00

Debt is investment in reverse. Keep doing what you're doing, friend.

cfuse · 2019-12-22T07:14:03+00:00

Shame can only be felt between peers.

teelolws · 2019-12-22T07:21:29+00:00

I've been mocked for being debt free. Something about should use it as leverage for better investments. Apparently I'm not allowed to be a low risk investor.

bobbiscotti · 2019-12-22T08:30:48+00:00

She's knows you're an idiot because you went on a date with her.

E-Moist · 2019-12-22T09:23:21+00:00

No debt had own house since 24, wheelchair means no womens which is a plus.

licknsuckus · 2019-12-22T10:56:20+00:00

that's why prostitution is the oldest profession! You don't pay them for sex, you pay them to leave!

PsychoticChimichanga · 2019-12-22T11:13:09+00:00

You should mock her for having a DUI and having lost her kids.

Just in case.

bonethugsgoat · 2019-12-22T11:35:39+00:00

You went on a date with a single mother?

your_a_idiet · 2019-12-22T15:00:03+00:00

Loool... These delusional thots

altworkstshirts · 2019-12-22T15:09:50+00:00

Hey man, that's what happens on first dates.

shitfren · 2019-12-22T15:18:05+00:00

What a circus where you get laughed at for using your money smart and not having to pay off depts.

freedomaintfreeyo · 2019-12-22T16:21:45+00:00

Mortgage literally means death grip

Itisoutthere · 2019-12-22T17:21:16+00:00

Some women maybe see something like this as a sign for an independent man .

There is no chance to put him in a situation where he needs her ( which is something that sounds logical for some women and some simps).

What I heard was Oh you allready has a house so we can`t build something up together??? Sorry No Mam...

So she will not invest some of her vagina magic in somebody like you.

I was very happy when my Ex told me that she will leave me and all she could take away was her clothes and some tupperware. Everything else was mine and paid in cash.

elitebuzzy · 2019-12-22T18:36:47+00:00

Women aren't logical or reasonable.

AnonDeity · 2019-12-22T19:20:54+00:00

Same I live with my parents these girls are like why don't you move out and by your own place. Bitch who trying to pay property taxes to send single mothers kids to school??? Yea I'll keep living with my parents. Not fucking buying a house to fuck pussy and then get to even more debt... After you get into debt for the house then you take out a loan for the wedding ring.. then you take out loans for her car since ur married... then she gets you to give her kids.. and well now you are in a sense a slave and apart of the rat race....Why do any of this knowing literally half these motherfuckers lose the kids and the wife....to Divorce???? yea I'll pass it aint worth my opportunity cost even if a girls really hot it'd still not be worth because remember its only your turn to ride her for a bit...Thats to expensive for what I get...

bransome44 · 2019-12-22T20:16:11+00:00

The moment my “date” started ragging on my life choices would be the moment my “date” got real fucking lonely.

BertTheWelder · 2019-12-22T22:17:25+00:00

I’ve not once had a first or second date involve questions about my finances. Is this normal now?

Title	Mocked for being debt free
Author	another74wow
Upvotes	221
Comments	61
Date	December 21, 2019 11:56 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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