Sister. She has now totalled 2 cars and wrecked every one she has owned, probably like 5-6 cars. Everytime it's been her fault according to the law. She has never accepted responsibility for the accidents, and always some excuse for why it wasn't her fault. Well the law doesn't lie.
Of course sending my father's insurance through the roof everytime.
She insists on living alone with her husband, but she still has my dad pay for her gas and her insurance. She leases a 2018 car, that she can't even afford btw. I know this because she's broke. Doesn't matter she still has to have a $500/month car.
Wrecks it anyway with her 3 kids in the car. Cant even pay the tow bill, has my dad pay for it cause she's broke. But she gets the water works going so it doesn't matter daddy will pay. Dad also now gave her his truck to drive until she gets another new car. Instead of used. Which will most likely be more expensive than the one totalled. Still will have my dad pay for gas and insurance. Now my dad is saying he's going to cut me off the insurance because he can't afford it anymore.
Meanwhile here I am 20years old. I work for my father's business for a bit more than minimum wage because I learn a lot and it's good manual labor, I pay my cell phone bill, rent, and grocerices, just so I can live with him because it's unrealistic to accumulate debt trying to live outside of my means. I drive an 18 year old car that I fix myself whenever it has a problem. Just replaced the serpentine belt, belt tensioner, put new brakes and rotors, and it's still going strong. I've done other stuff to it too, it's a good car.
It's fine it's not new, I don't mind. I don't live unrealistically.
I don't understand how my sister formed this complex. I guess kinda cause she took after my mom. Divorced my dad when he didn't buy her a new Mercedes, took the house, the extra property my dad bought, almost tried to take his business and that property too. She married the dude she cheated on my dad with, and now stepdad owns the house and property that was supposed to go to me and my sister, it will now be split into more ways because I have defacto siblings now. Oh well there goes a large portion of my inheritance that my dad worked so hard for.
Its sad. My dad is an old man. Spent his life getting fucked over by women. My mom being the harshest. The divorce cost then both thousands of dollars. I could've afforded to go to college with what they spent in divorce. Now I just try to save to maybe go in the future if I can afford it but I have no interest in racked up student debt. I don't know the numbers but I assume my sister has to be approaching $100k in debt, being barely older than me. My mom is similar driving a brand new car, and often vacationing.
I often look at these events and acknowledge that this is what has led me down the mgtow path at such a young age. There's no responsibility or accountability. They can just cry and get what they want.
In a different future I'd inherit my father's business and run it but due to the laws it will instantly become both my sisters, mine, and now some random cuck who she's legally binded to.
I talk to my father often telling him how difficult it's going to be for me when I have such a financially irresponsible sibling owning half of a business with me. I hope he just sells it all so I don't have to be legally binded to this grown up child I have for a sibling.
I hate how Im not allowed to have an opinion with my sister. I can't tell her the facts because she is so manipulative. I can't say "get rid of your $500/month payment, don't buy a new $70/month phone, don't rack up $100k student debt, don't go on that trip"
to her I'm just stupid and live at home don't know how the real world works and that debt is just a part of life.
Whatever. When I'm rich like my father I won't throw them a bone. They never have done shit for me and my mom cut me off in every way when I was 11. She cut my gym membership, my phone, she beat the shit out of me until I was big enough.
Now me and my dad live together. We are both pretty mgtow. We're rich, don't have any financial burdens. Do what we want. Clean orderly house. Eat healthy, don't waste money. It's good here. I hope he let's me have this house. Anyways thanks for reading y'all are the only sub that keeps me grounded. I'd appreciate advice too :))))
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One of the saddest posts I've read here.
Your father is the main reason for why women have sunk so low. Men (and I'm debating if he even deserves to be called such) keep enabling them.
I understand wanting to help your children. But there should be limits somewhere. There's getting help, and then there's manipulating/abusing someone, which is 100% what your sister is doing. Your father HAS to know it, no one is that blind. And knowing it, he still plays along...
Some people can't be helped, no matter how much you try, because they're not looking for simple "help". They're looking for a slave. And the longer I live, I realize that...some people don't deserve to be helped.
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