Not us.

Saturn1981 · 2019-12-19T06:34:03+00:00

We do - just not with modern women.

teslaistheshit · 2019-12-19T06:57:02+00:00

I think the Biggest problem with the idea of wanting a wife and family is that our modern ideas are rooted in some 1950s fantasy, but we don't realize that the family man in 1950 still had to go through the same wife bullshit but he also had to pay 100% of the bills.

There was never a time in history were having a wife was a benefit for a man, don't believe the fantasy.

If it was so great, then why has every society shamed the bachelor? You don't look down on people for avoiding enjoyable things.

Being a family man in a big fucking responsibility and sacrifice, and its always been that way. Your great grandmas was just as much a hypergomous whore, she just didnt have internet and an iPhone.

Sir_manalot · 2019-12-19T07:04:24+00:00

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ATTOJ19 · 2019-12-19T06:54:55+00:00

I want a kid or two but I don’t want to get married

Whirrlz · 2019-12-19T06:32:45+00:00

Keep waiting

DarthCallidous · 2019-12-19T11:15:42+00:00

I do, but I'm too smart to actually trust anyone.

Graypube88 · 2019-12-19T12:09:33+00:00

Not me. I love freedom way too much I guess.

Rottinghere · 2019-12-19T09:17:23+00:00

Once upon a time, I did.

VagabondLonewolf · 2019-12-19T08:47:30+00:00

You gotta wait for the rest of your life bruh. Not gonna happen.

NoCharism · 2019-12-19T11:44:32+00:00

definetely not me in this day and age

throwaway5747322 · 2019-12-19T14:57:27+00:00

This is actually very manipulative.

By saying this, she makes men look bad by shaming. However, her ploy is to shame men into submitting to women through a wife and kids makIng it seem justiceful, but is pretty deceiving and conniving into getting what she wants.

Taking it another step further, she could be a single mom shaming men into being with her rather than looking at herself and her mistakes first.

Mostly everything we get ourselves into, could be avoidable. If she's fat, she could lose weight to attract the men she wants. Alot of what women complain about is avoidable, but they choose to make the wrong decisions because of fee fees. This is why most if not all women must be controlled or things go straight down the tubes.

kayfab · 2019-12-19T07:02:32+00:00

Hahahah yeah that will happen

mgtoman · 2019-12-19T09:58:25+00:00

I do. Just not in modern circumstances.

when_its_too_late · 2019-12-19T13:09:37+00:00

I am not against marriage and family. Just for women, marriage is a legal contract and not a bond of any kind. Kids are an asset for court, not something the love.

Back in the USSR (where my parents are from) even though gender equality was heavily pushed, good luck having sex with more than one guy, ever, and not being shamed.

bk6830 · 2019-12-19T13:42:42+00:00

What are the incentives? Companionship? Love? Loyalty? Tell me. I'll wait.

Chakra_Devourer · 2019-12-19T14:20:21+00:00

To reference family guy.

Peter: "That may be...but anyone who doesn't want to go to war is gay!"

Congressman C: "I want to go to war."

Congressman B: "Oh, yeah I want to go war!"

Senate Leader: "I was the FIRST ONE that wanted to go to war!"

Now replace "war" with "wife."

Media: "that maybe but anyone who doesn't want to get married is gay."

Simp A: "I want a wife."

Simp B: "Oh, yeah I definitely want a wife."

Simp Megalord: "I was the first one that wanted to get a wife."

311kx · 2019-12-19T15:14:44+00:00

You can turn a hoe into a housewife.

So what’s the point?

🤷‍♂️

NightOuts · 2019-12-19T15:18:04+00:00

lol, on every other sub but this one. you are a neckbeard incel if you don't want to gamble half of your life's earning and the house that you bought! you are a misoginist.

Fuxk1n · 2019-12-19T15:29:09+00:00

Yes I do want a wife and kids. But that's just a fantasy that can never happen, With the current climate making it impossible and it's only getting worse. All the guys here have provided enough evidence as if the evidence speaking to women wasn't enough.

D0ctorwh010 · 2019-12-19T15:38:14+00:00

Plenty. However ask the men that were already married.

RedPilledLife · 2019-12-19T15:54:39+00:00

Keep on waiting, it is not going to be me....

311kx · 2019-12-20T06:27:46+00:00

I want to have a son.

But is it worth it? To have my boy ripped away from me, dressed up in girl's clothes and raised in such a way that he is not a man, but merely a shell of one? Grow to hate the very essence of who he is just so he can end it with a 9mm aspirin?

No.

The gift I give my son is the gift of death through nonexistence.

Nathaniel66 · 2019-12-19T08:58:16+00:00

Many of them, just not with 30+ woman, with a package (that of course come first) and a mileage of 100+ dicks.

BastaHR · 2019-12-19T10:02:37+00:00

I want, but not unconditionally and not with modern women.

2019-12-19T12:18:51+00:00

I want but...

faridle · 2019-12-19T12:41:50+00:00

Money, Freedom and a Triumph Bonneville. Sure having a son to futher the line would be nice but nah.

Therealschroom · 2019-12-19T13:10:56+00:00

I just want someone to take care of me when I'm old and not strong enough anymore to do everything on my own.
apart from that, happy single man for 12 years

dankvader192 · 2019-12-19T15:11:29+00:00

I do.

HeavyMeringue · 2019-12-19T15:40:25+00:00

Well,personally I would like one but I know better than trying to get a child and a family.

xandercade · 2019-12-19T18:28:11+00:00

Proper Response: How many women would enter into the union with a legal contract that protects both parties from assets division, alimony, and child support.

leviathanch · 2019-12-19T19:53:34+00:00

Yeah. Unless certain very unlikely things occur, me neither.

I'm hanging around here in China and self realize myself. Writing code. Building hardware. I'm good at this, started out as a white hat hacker in Switzerland, went into hardware hacking, and now here I can actually manufacture cost effective by tapping into all those cheap part suppliers.

The only annoying are those chicas sometimes who react totally brain fucked when I have to explain to them that I don't want a relationship nor marriage nor crap like that.

A long while ago I encountered someone who was so fantastic, that ever since I'm in the situation, that I just compare people to that person, and hardly anyone comes at least close in intelligence and character or looks.

I might be more tempted to enter at least a relationship over where her parents came from originally, especially since I noticed certain character patterns on Youtube now that I'm learning to properly pronounce the language by watching movies/channels in that language.
Now I'm not level one directly spawning in the lair of a boss mob anymore, so I might actually be able to pull that off ^_^

But I don't think I'll ever be so lucky that she'll text me as you guys sometimes describe it here, and because it's impossible to promise eternal fidelity to someone who's just... well... a person I deal with... I can't. And so I can't marry anyone anyway, because I don't wanna lie.

If that makes sense.

It makes more sense to earn money, and invest the left over money at the end of the month into new prototypes.

IkemenKyoushi23 · 2019-12-20T04:16:22+00:00

"You're in the wrong neighborhood."

TinderFacts · 2019-12-19T22:42:22+00:00

Jesus Christ how many women can?

Franken_Stiner · 2019-12-19T06:36:13+00:00

Keep telling yourself this lie. Most of you do want a wife and a family. Most of you want to reproduce... its built into your biology. You just want a certain type of woman that you think does not exist anymore. You want a traditional, obedient wife like the good old days.

Since you can't find such a lady, you keep telling yourself the lies that you, in fact, don't want that. You are only fooling yourself.

Title	Not us.
Author	Whirrlz
Upvotes	238
Comments	73
Date	December 19, 2019 6:31 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/ecpekm/not_us/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MGTOW/not-us.644899 https://theredarchive.com/post/644899

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