Planning on leaving

deathtocontrollers · 2019-01-13T20:58:14+00:00

You are making the right choice. She is about to fuck you over soon, one way or another.

urban3879 · 2019-01-13T20:53:28+00:00

By all means you are welcome to vent . Remember, it's your life. Only you can decide what to do . Only you can make your life what you want it to be.

BalancingVices · 2019-01-13T21:32:38+00:00

This seems like a perfect opportunity, if you ask me. Just let her go on her vacation alone. Perfect time for you to move out your valuables, electronics, change your post adres, etc.

The only downside I see, is that it does suck for the kid. In any case, prepare.

Ron-Don-Volante · 2019-01-13T20:57:11+00:00

For your sake, I hope you don't live in a common-law state in the US.

Keep your finances separate. Good luck.

user_miki · 2019-01-13T21:09:51+00:00

I think she has something calculated if no work and planned vacation.Better you vacate the area asap.

tdh792 · 2019-01-13T21:00:39+00:00

She has been unemployed for 3 months and is still planning on taking that vacation? Vacation from what?

If you leave, she might have a case for you to support them if you were having conjugal relations with the mom. It depends on how long you were together.

DWShimoda · 2019-01-13T23:51:08+00:00

Don't be surprised if she tries to sue your arse for "child support" under the rationale that regardless of you NOT adopting them, you have been acting as a provider-father to her children, and that since they have come to think of you as such & "their household" has been at least partially dependent upon your earnings at time, that they (and thus she) are entitled to have that continue until they reach adulthood.

Also don't think that it will be a "slam dunk" case for you to win.

GTFO ASAP.

StratOmaticFanatic · 2019-01-13T21:29:57+00:00

Good luck, hope you get out clean and free.

SphincteralAperture · 2019-01-13T23:31:52+00:00

Change your number after you move. I would eliminate any and all contact with her, as well as any potential methods of contact. Let us know how it goes man.

KneeDeepThought · 2019-01-14T01:50:10+00:00

You will be happier when it's done, guaranteed. However, don't move your things out slowly, this gives her time to notice what is happening and burn you down for leaving. All it takes is one phone call to the cops and she will get you thrown in jail for long enough to liquidate your property and evict you. Don't allow this possibility.

Get everything ready and go all at once. Bank accounts, property, all connections need to severed quick and clean. Wait until she's out of the house and grab the important stuff first, then go somewhere safe she doesn't know about and block all her methods of contacting you. Her friends too. She will send social search parties after you so dont go back to your local hangouts, and warn your boss and a couple friends that day you're about to go through a bad breakup so when she calls and tries to get you fired or destroy your social life you have inoculated yourself against this disease.

I know it's hard saying goodbye to the little ones in your heart, but this is a chain you must throw off. She's using the wee one as a hostage and that makes her a terrorist- you have already heard her demands.

Take away all her avenues for revenge and become a ghost. It's your best chance.

KaitouNala · 2019-01-14T08:50:06+00:00

Sadly as much as most women pretend they are the unicorn, "your" girlfriend is an AWALT (all women are like that) i say this because you seem like you don't quite consider yourself mgtow but you know this is probably one of the few places you can vent this without being told to "man up" my point, this is how most women are once they finally think they have you hooked/whipped and can safely drop the facade knowing you wont leave because you are too "invested" (emotionally) into the relationship.

The pure fact that she is entertaining the thought of going off on a vacation without you to me is a major red flag, think hard i'm sure there are other warning signs out there but, shes probably cheating on you bro.

The fact that she quit here high paying job, has let you pay the majority of the bills and doesn't do any of the domestic work (going to assume she guilts/bitches/berates you until you do the majority of the chores too right?) and gives you ultimatums shows she's long over you and has lost all respect/interest/tingles for you, you literally are still there because you are useful in paying her bills for her while in all likelihood she is fucking around behind your back while you are at work. Gonna venture to guess that sex is also a rare commodity among the other suppositions i have made thus far.

If i am incorrect by all means tell me i'm wrong but i'm curious on the flip side if anything if not most of the things i said hit close to home. in either case get out of there sooner not later and tbh while pussy/sex/relationships can be addicting at least at first, all women are like that, its better to go your own way brother.

Touch_It_Boi · 2019-01-13T20:53:36+00:00

I do love him very much and he know no other father figure

cuck

but now she has been unemployed for the last 3 months. I have covered the majority of our expenses during this time.

she will never work again cuck

post again when your out of there and I will retract my "cuck" comments.

Texian_Fusilier · 2019-01-13T22:09:38+00:00

When in doubt, pull out

cyndonn66 · 2019-01-14T04:14:34+00:00

Tell nobody.

re_all · 2019-01-13T22:45:57+00:00

RemindMe! 2 months

Hey! Be sure to give us an update!

sevententhsahuman · 2019-01-13T22:54:12+00:00

Your future self will look back at this moment as the turning point in your life where you made a decision to improve it, and cut off those who wish to become dependent on you.

ikhwan_arif · 2019-01-14T00:12:14+00:00

You're doing the right thing. Make you you ghost her proper.

Remarkable_Host · 2019-01-13T21:04:26+00:00

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Suited_Vulture · 2019-01-14T00:16:57+00:00

Good luck brother!

SPI-MGTOW · 2019-01-14T01:12:23+00:00

Shittybillyall · 2019-01-14T01:47:23+00:00

You do this to do it all at once so you're comitted and have no reason to come back. Book a spa day or something for her then while she's gone have all your shit moved into storage. Any confrontation about you leaving her have it documented or witnesses present with you in case she pulls some shut. Goodluck

pablosito · 2019-01-14T01:47:59+00:00

Should ask her if she thinks it’s wise for her to travel in her condition

Her: what condition

You: broke and unemployed

But legit I’d tell her that she isn’t going since she hasn’t pulled her weight for 3 months and doesn’t deserve to go least of all without you since you’ve been working. Also also I agree with your plan regardless. Just get out do you man

Doc_Sithicus · 2019-01-14T01:57:55+00:00

Let us know how this goes.

BonelessSkinless · 2019-01-14T02:33:17+00:00

Leave. Get out. You're being smart and planning ahead and using your head. This is good. Keep it up. The storage locker move is smart too make sure there's no record of it she can access and she has no knowledge. Women love to go for your possessions when things go south so cover your bases and leave!!!

XavierMalory · 2019-01-14T03:10:02+00:00

Your situation reminds me of the modern-day Golden Rule:

"Do unto others, before they can do unto you."

Non_Kosher_Baker · 2019-01-14T06:05:11+00:00

Pls follow up with her reaction lol

metallicdrama · 2019-01-14T08:04:44+00:00

The universe is even making it easy for you. She goes on vacation. Probably will cheat. Comes home to karma. Make sure to superman that ho before she leaves.

MysteriousGovernment · 2019-01-14T03:43:36+00:00

This might sounds Paranoid but I would advise, to delete the Browser History and Stuff (Some Women's give a .... About Privacy as long it`s not theirs.

Sandbagicus · 2019-01-13T23:17:25+00:00

you have a good plan. The slow-roll departure is probably best. Any chance she'll go on the vacay without you? That'd be a good time to ditch this millstone around your neck.

Title	Planning on leaving
Author	Remarkable_Host
Upvotes	136
Comments	52
Date	January 13, 2019 8:44 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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