Question for 35+ year old MGTOWS

ransay3277 · 2018-06-18T15:49:26+00:00

Absolutely true. Old guy here. This is a common shaming tactic that never works. Remember, when they were young and hot, they treated guys their age like crap. Now that they are old, they are shocked that the wall has approached so quickly. They had no problem kicking their predecessors to the curb. Now that it is their turn to be replaced, they freak out.

DoctorB50 · 2018-06-18T16:00:13+00:00

Well past 35 and, personally speaking, I'd rather take a beating than have any interaction with any woman of any age under any circumstances. The momentary pleasure any woman of any age has to offer isn't worth the amount of psychotic demanding entitled bullshit they bring with it. It's only a matter of degree. Some bring more, some less. But they all bring some. There are no unicorns.

OldFashionMarine · 2018-06-18T16:19:01+00:00

Just my opinion here. I'm 50 and sex in general is such a low priority anymore that I really don't think about on a day to day basis. Also after 25 years of marriage, only to end in divorce, I tend to not give the time of day to any woman other than my daughter.

drevfever · 2018-06-18T15:57:52+00:00

Women generally don't want to settle down until they start thinking about having children, so the type of relationship depends on the woman's age. The old cliche is the father having the mid-life crisis, buying a sports car, and dating a woman young enough to be his daughter, leaving the mother to struggle financially taking care of the children.

What we know today because of MGTOW is women are far more likely to initiate divorce to improve their economic position; the old cliche was a lie. The reality is men can't afford to start a second family because they're already paying for their first one, so they will date younger women precisely because they are only interested in sex.

TopherOHoolihan · 2018-06-18T16:14:56+00:00

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Llodarr · 2018-06-18T16:45:24+00:00

The only thing that makes a woman off limits is being a minor. Assuming she is a recognized adult by the laws of your country, she is fair game. Phrases like "Too young", "Cradle-robber", etc... are simply shaming words with no power.

Israfelll · 2018-06-18T17:47:17+00:00

Young girls are not off limits. When I was 50 (54 now) I pulled in a 29 year old woman. And no I was not throwing money at her and what not. We had known each other for several years and when the moment presented itself I went for it and she grabbed me with open arms. It can be done and looking back it was really not hard at all.

westnblue · 2018-06-18T15:43:05+00:00

yes. she's basically just got into the news to advertise herself.

TopherOHoolihan · 2018-06-18T16:07:31+00:00

Why do you care what others think of you.

SerialMansplainer · 2018-06-18T18:10:52+00:00

Guys hit their peak SMV in their mid-30s to mid-40s, when they have the holy trinity: money, health and time. The reason marriage at 30 is marketed so intensely is that women want to catch the rising tide before this happens (apart from the fertility angle, of course). But it's a trap as far as men are concerned.

teslaistheshit · 2018-06-18T20:30:09+00:00

45 here. Post divorce I had an 18 year old babysitter offer herself but it was too creepy for me. So far I've hooked up with a 27 year old, 29, 40, and 36. Older women flirt but most of them just don't take care of themselves to bother. Frankly I could give a damn about any shaming as it's my life and decisions. I've seen past flings and every single one of them did not age well so I have a hard time committing knowing their SMV is in rapid decline.

The only way I see a LTR is if I believe she would set a good example for my kids and we all know the likelihood of that happening.

My advice to any younger guys is to focus on yourself and try to be patient knowing your testosterone is driving you mad. Better to be hated for who you are than loved for who you're not.

Bombinic · 2018-06-18T15:45:20+00:00

I would be remiss to say they're off limits to me.

1greymonk · 2018-06-18T17:49:39+00:00

I'm in a second marriage now to a woman almost 20 years younger than me. Eight years in. I married her before I was red-pilled. BIG MISTAKE. Age makes no difference. I was 36 when I met her. She was 19. Cheating, lying, guilting... they are all the same.

We have a kid, so I'm stuck. But the moment our kid turns 18, goodbye.

daniellederek · 2018-06-18T23:38:22+00:00

Yup, Why would I want a relationship with a post wall 40ish piece of flab when I can be a bit of sugar a few times a month to her 25 year old university educated daughter that can actually hold a conversation and knows not to message me beyond checking in to see if thursday nights plans are still on and if she has instructions beyond bring whipped cream and wear red bra no panties with her blue dress......

silive · 2018-06-18T16:47:56+00:00

Why are they off limits? I'm calling bullshit on that. But personally, I grew up in the culture where if you didn't like someone, you put some distance between them and yourself. And I can not say that I like what women have become nowadays: narcissists devoid of any empathy and humanity. Hence, the monk mode.

trouble_with_trilbys · 2018-06-18T18:10:11+00:00

Most of the time, I'm interested in substantive conversations that I can have with other men.

In terms of attraction, I usually get more turned on by women who are provocateurs.

That means ones who are clever enough to either pretend they are smart, or that encourage an intellectual conversation as a form of foreplay.

But one of my weaknesses is that I'm too sympathetic with women who are obviously clumsy with their words and concepts. I used to think of it as charming helplessness. Now I just see it as dull-witted.

Post-grad women closer to the cusp of 30 aren't off-limits, especially if they fancy themselves as having a "meeting of the minds." They are also more-likely to repudiate other women who feel they get to tell consenting adults to have age-appropriate matches.

When you see a younger woman telling off an older one, you get a rare glimpse into how much they resent each other. They let their guard down and reveal their weaponry, which is why men used to consider "cat-fights" a display of female sexuality.

Enjoy, but use that strategic info they have shown you to plan your escape.

And just tell women who shame men from dating younger females that they are hopelessly antiquated about relationships. All you have to do is reply, "Don't you want her to be happy? They make such a great couple!"

Blankaccount111 · 2018-06-18T20:17:46+00:00

100% Correct. Its just a shaming tactic.

Actually As I've gotten old I learned something. I always wondered why it was so hard to get laid by all the hot 18-22 year old girls surrounding me when I was young. Now I know. They were busy f'ing "old" dudes like me (or CHADS). I've pounded more 18-25 yo pussy after I turned into what young girls refer to as "old guy" then 20 years combined before(i don't want to reveal identifying info online) I/they often openly joke about our age gap (btw that is a shit test if they bring it up so don't react badly). It doesn't matter at all. In fact I believe it is the natural order of things despite what popular media wants you to believe.

2018-06-18T20:29:00+00:00

Of course they're not off limits. If it's legal, you can stick your dick in it.

But would you want to? Women are vapid air-heads at any age, and at my age (35-40 age bracket), I would rather pluck out my nose hairs than put up with their shit.

takashinippon · 2018-06-18T23:38:53+00:00

No happens all the time outside the western country. Its normal to be atleast 10 years difference some go 20 years.... it all depends on the guys wealth and personality and looks in combinations. its really acceptable abroad... why would a single high worth male go for someone their own age? when his 40 or something can date some in their 20s?

1greymonk · 2018-06-18T17:32:35+00:00

I'm a 36 year old monk, so I can't really help out here.

Flesh_Pillow5 · 2018-06-18T17:53:41+00:00

ROY MASTERS - JUST LOOK HIM UP

DoogieDee · 2018-06-18T19:24:49+00:00

35 here and in the past five years had women ranging from 20 to 28, so yeah women at that age are still for the taking. To be honest I couldn't really care any more as it was just one long continuous hassle. Younger 20 year old's will just annoy you because of their age and the older 28+ year old's are strangely even worse because they feel their entitled to everything. If you want to pump and dump go ahead but make sure you play safe.

cryptotim70726 · 2018-06-18T20:14:50+00:00

Quit worrying about them trying to shame you and do what you want.

fickle_fuck · 2018-06-18T21:04:05+00:00

Are young girls (18-30) off limits for guys 40+ or is this just them worried they can’f have you?Thanks

Off limits because of our choice or the young woman's choice? Because while I'm in my 40's, I've have had some fine, young tail chase me here and there. However I find them narcissistic, shallow and few can hold a conversation.

Just like older women (only much less attractive physically speaking).

DanTheMGTOW · 2018-06-18T22:37:59+00:00

This sounds like older women trying to shame men into not dating young girls. They won't address that young girls go for older men.

Either way, it's a losing plea. 40+ men are screwing women any age they want now as that is not an old age.

Narcissus3669 · 2018-06-18T23:11:45+00:00

I actually have no desire to pursue anyone. I’ve had a 22 year old thot hitting on me for the last half hour and I just banter a bit and go back to my business. Drives them crazy because they are used to thirsty betas. No thanks, not worth hassle.

daniellederek · 2018-06-18T23:45:03+00:00

Second thought bubble. As for logistics its best to let them get the 1st year of legal at the bars out of their system if they like to drink, so 20 in canada 22 in the states. its just a lot less bother. The just legal drinking age ones seem to like the warehouse bars dance club stuff, Been there done that for pay when I was that age. Couldnt imagine the cost of doing it now $40 cover $10 drinks for anything B list or better in a major city. Pity the simps paying for it lol.

NiceIce · 2018-06-19T00:32:58+00:00

I haven't dated in years, but when I did it was always younger girls. As long as they are legal they are not off limits.

Markes777 · 2018-06-19T09:11:49+00:00

my sister (21) has a boyfriend which is 36. i dont think he gives a fuck bout some old cunt thoughts

Doc_Sithicus · 2018-06-19T11:05:47+00:00

Over 40 here. Can confirm.

BenjaminsOverBchs · 2018-06-26T01:04:34+00:00

I'm mid 30's and would never touch a girl over 25, never actually have, talking to them is instant erectile dysfunction. I pick up girls at local university events and cute waitresses primarily. Never hang on to them, more turn 18 every day there is an endless supply. Telling them your real name, giving them your real phone number or taking them to your home are other no no's in my books, actually travel with Uber and keep them away from your car too if you can. It's worth having a cash paid trac phone for whatever contact. Dress decently and get a few expensive accessories then you're in. Looking good as a man is being in decent shape and looking paid. When you truly give no damns and make these young hotties work for you, you can easily laugh off their tests and make vague contact plans you don't keep. If you want children best bet is pay for egg donor, IVF, and surrogate. No crazy woman to corrupt them, screw you over in the court system and you can hire a maid at minimum wage to watch over them when young.

hellabad · 2018-06-18T23:51:45+00:00

32 here.

I've hooked up with 18-26s on average. My last ex was 11 years younger than me. I'm currently sleeping around with a friend who is 24 and asked me why I go for younger girls and my response was "because I can". I guess she ran into an article similiar to what you read where it said that men in their 30s are immature and go for younger girls because they haven't grown up. I explained to her what women in their 30's are doing and how they are freaked out because they are running out of time and nobody wants them. I guess it also helps that I look much younger than people think. I've been told I look anywhere from 21-24 on average and its always hilarious to get reactions from women when they find out how old I am because they most likely are younger than me and already hit the wall.

h20ho · 2018-06-18T16:16:40+00:00

I have always dated younger women. My current repository is a 42 year old Asian, by far the oldest tang I have every been with. Why would I bother with such an old hag? because she is subservient, knows her place and works for my enjoyment to a degree of which I understand that my happiness is important to her.

When I was 42, my gf at the time, also an Asian was 22. most of my women are at least 18 years younger than me. Why would I bother with women older than that? Honestly, I am very shocked that I am with the trollop I am with.

old women are broken, saggy and nasty. I would rather pud than bother with that stuff.

Title	Question for 35+ year old MGTOWS
Author	TopherOHoolihan
Upvotes	35
Comments	74
Date	June 18, 2018 3:38 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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