So first off, just to clarify I am NOT trying to be counterintuitive to this subreddit. I just have a simple question. Is this "love" and "special something" that I see in other couples mereley an illusion, or is it something worthy to invest hope in. Im really vibing with this MGTOW stuff, I feel like I can relate, but at the same time im scratching my head as im still convinced that the idea of a relationship does not just involve us (or at least me) being a slave or tool. Are relationships, marriage, and love still worth thinking about? Thanks