Questions that need answering.

mrcandyman · 2018-10-20T05:33:24+00:00

MGTOW is about going your own way without women. Veering off the route of being in a long term relationship and/or marriage. You're not going your own way at all. In fact you doubled down and went with a single mom.

ResidentTruck · 2018-10-20T05:59:42+00:00

You, sir, have completely missed the point. That's not to say I hold it against you. Do what you want - just don't look for sympathy here.

Point by point:

One. If you actually found a unicorn, good for you. It's still my belief that the vast majority of women aren't worth the hassle.

Two and Three. No and yes respectively. Personally, I'd consider this post a violation of rules 1 and 4, possibly 8.

Four. Yes and no. If you're talking about getting with a single mom and being a stepfather to someone else's kid, you're letting yourself in for serious bullshit drama. If you're talking about adopting such a kid and raising this kid yourself, then no. (You're still letting yourself in for serious bullshit drama, though. That's parenthood for you.)

Five. No. This is about finding happiness without a woman.

Bottom line, if you think you've found happiness in your relationship, congratulations. I think you're a fool. That's only my opinion based on a brief, vague internet post, which is to say on next to nothing. Take it for what it's worth.

I'm sure we'll be around on some platform or other when your relationship turns to shit and you're a bit less naive. Feel free to drop back by at that point.

Pk_s_to_the_yizzle · 2018-10-20T12:58:22+00:00

Mgtow in theory is:

No more wasted resources on women anymore. No more time. No more money. No more wasted emotions. No more lies and drama, no more being a target, no more playing the game. No more self harm, No more accepted harm from association with women. It is a waste of time. Period.

WHY? because women lie and they deceive. Non-stop. All the time. And they do so to use up all your time, resources, and to destroy your feelings. And they have no sense of honor or right and wrong, so Unless they DIE of natural causes suddenly. They will never stop their shit. And thanks to the Laws, you CAN'T EVEN DEFEND YOURSELF AGAINST THEIR NEVERENDING, RELENTLESS SHIT. you try, and you get Dead or in Jail.

So the only thing you CAN do, that they haven't been able to stop yet (because they are too lazy)

is to run away. When you run away from a woman, she calls you a coward for not allowing her to use you like a slave and beat you up mentally, and since she is too lazy to chase, she just moves on to another one of her batch of willing slaves. Conveniently located on facebook and instagram.

This CONCEPT has been made into short form which is essentially taken to be:

No co-habitation. No marriage. it accomplishes most, if not all of the above. Because women do the most damage once they are INSIDE your dwelling and INSIDE your life.

While you keep a woman at arms distance, that's when she PRETENDS to be the most agreeable and awesome perfect girl. Because she HAS TO REEL YOU IN, so you don't run away. THIS IS WHERE MOST OF THE MGTOW DO THEIR FUCKING. When she's outside the castle taking it in every hole and being the perfect date BECAUSE SHE IS TRYING TO GET INSIDE SO SHE CAN ROB AND TRASH THE PLACE (that place, is your LIFE)

This is BORN from the fairly common decisions forming the philosophy.

So to answer your questions:

Yes. If you keep her from living with you, and marrying you, go nuts. But since women are parasites, good luck getting her to stay with you and not move things forward to her advantage, and not yours. Which is kinda like Drama (Beep....! Rules violation!)
Don't care. Probably not if your gonna make it simpy time with stories like "Guys help!, we were fucking our boyfriend last night and like a good little cuck I wet his cock and prepared to put it her hole and then..." NOPE. don't want that shit. you too far gone.
You would be living in denial. Living a lie. And being with a woman would be causing it. SO. (Beep....! Rules violation!) Self- Harm for a woman!
Yes. And I'm being a hypocritical FUCK by saying so. BUT raising someone elses kid IS WASTING YOUR TIME AND MONEY! (Beep....! Rules violation!) Wasting your time and money. Lets say you stay together with her for 10 years and you "be the man" and pay all the bills. Then she DONE WITH YOU. Who just wasted their time and money! YOU! (Beep....! Double Rules violation!) Simping! you'd be single again and out of 10 YEARS OF MONEY, A PLACE TO LIVE, AND PROBABLY ALL OF YOUR FRIENDS!
Yes. BUT WITH CONDITIONS! Define Partner. Does my partner have to live with me? Do I have to see my partner everyday? DOes my partner control my life, money? free time? (Beep....! Rules violation!) Prepping to SIMP! Once you have experience, It's safe to say, that the ONLY WAY to keep yourself happy with them is TO KEEP THEM AT ARMS LENGTH. That means out of your dwelling. Also, it keeps them pretending to be worth a damn longer.

BEEEP!!.. Rules explained.

YOu are now free to SIMP your life away.

Just don't call yourself MGTOW.

A chevy malibu is NOT a Ferrarai, nor will it ever be. Just because they are both cars, DOES NOT MAKE ONE THE OTHER.

You don't wear football gear, you don't make $1million dollars a year, and you don't play professional football,

SO, you wouldn't be in the Greenbay Packers pro nfl players roster forum, TALKIN BOUT - "can I still call myself a professional nfl player?"

why you here?

401kisfun · 2018-10-20T06:16:41+00:00

I think you could be an MGTOW and be married with kids. Just as long as you are the head of the household and it’s recognized.

Vaxel00 · 2018-10-20T08:55:13+00:00

There are no unicorns, women are timer less explosives. A smart man doesn't get close to an explosive.
As long as you don't start preaching and virtue signaling I don't care.
Again, as long as you don't start preaching and virtue signaling I wouldn't know if you are.
You will never be the father, sure you can be a role model but you're just playing house. Me personally would never take care of another man's child.

Only exception would be, the death of the father and me having personally known both the kid and the parents. So I would, maybe , take responsibility for the child of a friend that died or a relative. Notice how I never mentioned anything about marriage or taking care of the woman.

I care about my own happines, the only thing I would do for anyone else is warn them.

Your happiness or unhappiness will be your own.

exdees · 2018-10-20T09:19:12+00:00

I respect your decision but by the time you commit to someone it's safe to say that you are no longer MGTOW. Simple as that.

DJDickJob · 2018-10-20T10:09:03+00:00

Hard to answer. I know a guy that was completely alone in the world, and a hopeless alcoholic with no direction. He met a single mom that had a second kid on the way, and his dick took over his mind and now he lives with her and helps raise the kids, and even though he's pussywhipped and pretty much fully dependent on her(because I'm not letting that motherfucker move back in with me if it all goes to shit) he's a lot happier now and has found a purpose in life after years of aimlessness. As pathetic and disgusting as it is to me for him to be his girlfriend's bitch, I can't necessarily judge him for it because he's finally happy with his life. His girlfriend has been caught letting other guys slap her ass, she lied about it and then admitted to it, she claims she should've been born a guy because she thinks like one, but she acts like a typical western chick, straight up told me she has him wrapped around her pinky, and has gotten him to call me TWICE to tell me to not stop by their house when she's not there(I ratted her out to him for the ass slapping thing so she knows I'm the enemy) but despite all of her fucking bullshit, he's living a happier life now so it's not my place to try to convince him to go back to being miserable and suicidal. It'll all go to shit one day because she's a bitch, and maybe then, when he realizes that all the MGTOW shit I've told him is actually legit, he'll level up, but for now he's doing what makes him happy and doesn't let anyone else tell him how to live. Pathetic as shit but he's doing what he wants and he's happy for now. If all he wants out of life is to get drunk and have sex every night, that's his choice. I sure as fuck don't let anyone tell me how to live.

TowingMig · 2018-10-20T10:29:24+00:00

There is a lot to consider, MGTOWs can date, the only rules are don't get married and dont gave kids. MGTOWs level 1 and 2 date women, but they aren't the main goal of these guys. If this guy you mentioned is spending his time looking for someone, he is probably not a MGTOW, even because MGTOWs know women can mirror men to pretent to be what we need/want and as a MGTOW he should know it.
As long as he doesn't violate the rules...
If he is wasting his time looking for someone, I think so.
The answer is not that simple because many of us think about adoption (I still think its also a trap). Women like to cock carousel their whole life and use the kid to force men to pay them child support and we can be put in jail, how fair is it? For me, not at all. In adoption you're still taking care of someone else's kid, but you chose to, nobody forced you to do that under threat of jail or played you fool like women do.
No. You can't simply find happiness with a woman around because she slowly tries to take you from all your hobbies and projects to be with her giving endless attention, then complain you make small cash, then you work more, then she complains you're not giving attention, then she cheats on you and leaves you and takes all of your stuff... Women are naturally leeches, evolution shows that and now they are leeches with privileges from the law. There is no way to be trully happy by leaving all you love for someone who leeches you financially, emotionally and psychologically.

PS: I'm pretty sure you're not MGTOW. You say you are, but you make questions like someone from the plantation... If you are, I suggest you to check human evolution, how law works related to divorce and the rates between men and women when it comes to custody, how many men are in jail compared to women for not paying alimony, read the book Men on Strike by Hellen Smith... Check history and how society used to work before and now and ask yourself of men ever had any choice in the past or now...

Pk_s_to_the_yizzle · 2018-10-20T12:41:31+00:00

Where are these people coming from?

"I think a vehicle that I make up in my mind, should be called a Car, jsut because, but it is different to my standards."

"I think could be called a car , if you had 3 triangles attached to the wheel hubs, the front half of the vehicle is a couch, and the back half is a boat. If you can sit in it and steer it, if you can honk the horn and it works, I think it could still be a car."

WTF?

401kisfun · 2018-10-20T18:37:57+00:00

I used to think that way, but it’s pretty extreme mentality and can do lots of damage to your psyche.

Title	Questions that need answering.
Author	TheShaggyGamerGuy
Upvotes	2
Comments	18
Date	October 20, 2018 12:56 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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