She Will Always Replace You, GYOW

Hiromant · 2019-12-25T12:52:29+00:00

You deal with it by not getting emotionally invested.

yawp1 · 2019-12-25T12:57:14+00:00

Fuck. That thing about his special plate. Jeez. Fuck these whores.

2019-12-25T13:23:48+00:00

This happened to me. I know what he is going through. I was devastated and all the whiskey in the world couldn’t take the pain away. Wish I had discovered MGTOW back then.

Wallstreet3 · 2019-12-25T14:25:04+00:00

Right in the feels, straight in the gut. Goddamn this hurts just reading it. My brother is going through something similar.

Everyday I am thankful this is never gonna happen to me.

leering855 · 2019-12-25T14:49:01+00:00

It's just another day. Society has convinced people that this is a special time of year?? get the fuck outta here.... another man eating santa cookies off your special plate? you're damn right and then he's turning that plate over and doing it doggie style. So weep my child... weep

rejac218 · 2019-12-25T15:53:28+00:00

I know where you're coming from, man. You, like most of us.. bought into the whole dream. Believed in it. But the bill of goods they sold us...was a lie. It's painful..but you'll heal. Just don't fall for it again.

senior_chop · 2019-12-25T12:51:38+00:00

Which subreddit is this from?

DKN3 · 2019-12-25T16:25:01+00:00

Remember Women don’t feel shit, they say they do but it takes a real Man to say that he Cried, All In all it was your decisions, but that the reality of this

darkmanilluminate · 2019-12-25T16:58:25+00:00

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_MCMXCVI_ · 2019-12-25T20:00:38+00:00

These horror stories are what is keeping my from getting married. Im 23 so, if I stay on the right path I can avoid this soul crushing bullshit.

fritobandito214 · 2019-12-25T20:51:15+00:00

I'm so glad i never had kids, i can handle dumping a broad and never looking back, but the kid thing would have changed everything.

Jaeger8x57 · 2019-12-25T20:51:26+00:00

The same here...feeling with you. I caught mine in April 19 cheating with a close friend of mine. Got a daughter of 2 years. At least I can see her for 1 day at Christmas but its definitely giving me a hard time after I believed in my family till the very bitter end. As mentioned: try your best to attach to your children and be there for them no matter what. That's all you can do but probably is enough to keep your offspring close.Take your time to get over the hurt and disappointment. Read, work out and recover, go red pill, learn from your mistakes, see the red flags next time and always remember that it is just your turn. Wish you all the best to get over it soon and become a more wise, stronger and independent man who can enjoy his life.

ExBariPlayer · 2019-12-25T22:20:32+00:00

Can confirm, happened to me too. Married 12/27/19XX, divorce finalized (the date stamped on the decree) 12/24/20XX but 22 years later. Dude broke up his 3rd marriage and my first (and only) to run off with my ex; how I told her how I discovered their “conscious coupling” is MGTOW gold for another time. Fought and got 50/50 custody, then I moved to Hawaii for a higher paying job to pay the the child support as “she didn’t have $$$” but drove a new BMW. My one kid is in a Brady Bunch situation with his two. I used to go all out for the holidays; I was “That Guy” with the Xmas lights on his house (which she got) and even turned my little travel trailer (which I had to sell) into a “Santa’s Mobile Command Post” display complete with lights and stuffed animals posed as though they were “monitoring” Santa on a computer and reading “The Night Before Xmas”. Had hot cookies & apple cider out there too because of my, you know, toxic masculinity. My neighbors loved it. Not any more. No more Xmas trees in the house, no more lights.

On the upside, he still hasn’t married her despite his “many promises” to do so. To paraphrase Popeye the Sailor Man, “Youse makes your bed, now youse have to lies in it.”

ValhallaBoundBoy · 2019-12-25T17:54:38+00:00

Ah jesus. I thought this was going to be one of those 'boo hoo im single on the holidays' posts, but this is fucking rough.

2019-12-25T18:27:18+00:00

Same thing happened to me this year. She can kiss my ass but I do miss the kids. And yes, I was a simp taking care of another man’s kids. Lessons learned and what not.

Itisoutthere · 2019-12-25T16:13:40+00:00

Stay strong you are not alone.

TigPlaze · 2019-12-25T20:13:48+00:00

Shit. And how could a woman read that and not experience empathy for this man? No matter how painful the situation, women will always find a way to blame it on the man.

2019-12-25T23:36:08+00:00

Here is how insanely stupid is the law in most countries. Lets say, a man fucks every women he sees and cums into her vagina, and he is drunk all the time and just enjoys sex. How do you think, what can all those women, their children and government take from him? In Russia, they can pretend on 40% of his income. Combined.

I.e. after making a 2nd child, when he pays 20% and does not give a fuck, he can keep fucking them over and over, be it 2 children, 10 children, 100 children - if you have zero interest in raising children, they can take 40% of your income and split it the way they want to. That is about Russia. Ah, btw, the guy can fight back and forbid the child to move out of the country without him, so there is the way to be offensive too.

But, if there is a normal guy who lives his child a lot, and he wants to meat him, of course a court allows a woman to completely avoid those meetings, move the guy away from a father, etc. A woman may request extra money for giving a free access for a kid.

So, all is stupid as fuck - "normal" guys are punished, "bad" guys already have nothing to loose and don't give a fuck.

CpuDoc67 · 2019-12-26T20:35:04+00:00

Many years ago my son's mother was trying to fuck up my existence. She told me she's thinking about moving to Texas and taking my son we lived in NY at the time. I didn't miss a beat and said "I hear they have great schools in Texas". I defused her shit bomb and she never mentioned it again.
Don't be a puppet control your emotions.

2019-12-25T14:34:37+00:00

This is how you deal with it

https://youtu.be/O6DwFY9BWVI

2019-12-25T15:37:05+00:00

Lol I had a feeling this post would be popping up here at some point.

VetteVet83 · 2019-12-26T05:35:18+00:00

It’s hard for me too, bro. My 4 y/o daughter is going to eventually like one of the poor schmucks who falls victim to her mom’s charms. I feel sorry for him. Luckily, she’s getting older and fatter every year. ;)

HoldenBalzac · 2019-12-26T21:21:33+00:00

''how do you find the strength this time of year?'' You just endure it. Be stubborn, don't give up. The first twenty years were the toughest. The second twenty years the holidays have been no bid deal. Like valentine's day, it's just one more page on the calendar with a little extra commercial icing around it.

747Latts · 2019-12-25T16:13:45+00:00

Hoes are hoes, understand that and you’ll be ok. I’m way happier with no girl for Christmas, just family

Joroda · 2019-12-25T18:45:51+00:00

It's just going to take time.

prove_this · 2019-12-25T19:26:38+00:00

Read up on stoicism. IF you like audiobooks the daily stoic is recommended.

Stahlboden · 2019-12-26T05:29:28+00:00

They were never his kids. If you have something for as long as someone else allows you to have it and they can take it away in a whim, then you definitely dont have it.

Title	She Will Always Replace You, GYOW
Author	JustNySpace
Upvotes	245
Comments	42
Date	December 25, 2019 12:47 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/efg4ke/she_will_always_replace_you_gyow/
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