Made my account specifically for MGTOW a month ago. Known about TRP/MGTOW for 2-3 years, but was in LTR. Still blossoming into my new going my own way self. Anyways, the only takeaway I have from TheRedPill was to lift and get below 12% body fat. Dust did that over the past few months, now sitting below 12% but not shredded. Admittedly I could build more muscle mass, but I am still above average for muscle.
Anyways. I see most of TheRedPill sub and PUA stuff to be garbage:
Once hypergamy is exposed, all I think of are manipulation tactics. For whatever reason, I can't bring myself to flirt with girls anymore. Trying to not hate them, I struggle to be nice to women aside from my own mother. I think the red pill poisoned my whole outlook and perspective. Whenever glancing at TheRedPill I become sick. How far backwards they'll bend over for pussy, or their plate stories. It doesn't help with the culture and music / movies that reinforce degenerate behavior. Some of you have had video games, movies and shows ruined for you because of swallowing the red pill. Man, it is dizzying sometimes dealing with the perspective change. The whole world looks different, it's like I have Red Pill Motion Sickness or something; a dramatic shift from one view to another.
I was into fitness years ago, recently got back into it. Do more girls look your way? Yes. Are people nicer to you? Yes. Will girls fall all over you automatically? No, but you will get more attention. Too bad I am cold as fuck now; my anger shows through way too easily some days. I don't really have a point to my post, other than to say don't expect going down to low body fat to change your life with women. Could I be spinning plates? Yeah, but the risk of STDs or pregnancy are not worth it. And the red pill rage is still so bad. I can't bring myself to work for pussy the way TheRedPill does. To me, it's embarrassing and degrading to be putting in effort for plates.
Sorry to anyone who feels different. Still mad, still venting. Rant over.
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Lmao. I am disqualified. Haha
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Seriously, that question is key. Why bother? That's where I am at.
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As the Buddha says...being angry is like squeezing a hot coal in your palm.
You're only hurting yourself and nobody is impressed. Let it go.
Being angry at women and society is like being angry at the sky for being blue.
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Thanks for the thoughtful reply.
I agree TheRedPill has value, and do not wish to discount that value it brings to the table. Obviously guys learn quite a bit reading that sub. My issue is more-so with chasing tail. If that's what you decide to do, great. Each guy chooses their course of action after learning the nature of women. I personally can't get into the plate spinning thing, because I view it as contributing / reinforcing hypergamous nature. Which is what turns us off from women to begin with.
It feels somewhat hypocritical; to learn about the relationship problem, then go on exacerbating it. Again each guy does their own thing, whatever. But something about spinning plates and chasing girls (after taking the red pill) just feels odd. Not sure I can better define what it is: other than hypocrisy and making a problem even worse down the road for future men. Do we have a responsibility to future generations? Spinning plates can be damaging culture and prospects for generations down the line. I don't know, when I consider it... there are some moral concerns (for me.)
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