Me, average East Asian engineer at my mid 20, stands only 5'8'', deleted my Tinder account three months ago. Now I am feeling sane and good. I used to spend 6+ hours on that stupid app, tried to talk to girls, went out with them and tried to play cool, usually went nowhere other than some stupid pity fucks.

Instead of wasting my time on Tinder, or other dating apps, I put a lot more time into taking online classes and started reading books about engineering and operation management. On top of that, I started working for an extra 30+ hours per work as a contractor. I know this is far from enjoyable, but it helped distract me from thinking about hoes and feeling bad about my 'ricecel' status in the society. And hopefully, by my late 30s, I can be less of a mid-aged wagecuck (destiny for most of my fellow asian bros).

I know I know, whatever I do, 80% chance I will still have to accept and marry a travel-loving + cock/STD conniusseur noodlewhore. But hopefully by that time, I will have enough money so I don't need to marry a hole to validate myself.

But bros, think about it. 6 hours a week, and you will have 300+ hours a year to do whatever you want. With that, you can learn a new language, an instrument or 50+ online courses to give you a wage boost.