Please hear me out:

I think a lot of you young men here are well meaning and it is good to want to improve yourself but if you had a good a woman in your life to help guide and regulate you, you would not have these outlandish ideas.

Men cannot just "Go Their Own Way". Here is my reasoning:

Men are needed to fight in the military and protect the motherland (and women, hence why it is called the MOTHERland) any nation that doesn't protect and cherish it's women is doomed! There is no country on earth that is called the 'father land', that just sounds wrong and pervasive.

To help raise families. A woman should not have to raise a family on her own. A man and his income are needed to create a stable home, provide a bulwark of savings and investment and help discipline children and set a good example to raise the next generation of men who will do the same. Men deciding to "Go Their Own Way" will collapse the system in a few generations!

The core idea's about hypergamy that I see here are are not wrong, but you boys misconstrue it as something bad, hypergamy helps the economy by forcing men to go out and be the best they can be. Men fight to get good jobs, degrees and invent things and these things help boost GDP and improve quality of life for everyone! Men's health also improves because men go to the gym in addition to working hard so they can get abs which, hello, that should speak for itself 😻

Men need to go out and date. If they do not entire industries will collapse like entertainment, events management, escort and valet, and food services and many people will lose their jobs. Plus men enjoy themselves anyway and I'm you all will too, you boys just need a little fixing up!

Men need to get married because it makes the union last longer and is stronger. And again without Marriage entire industries will collapse like pastry making, wedding planning, suit and dress making. HOUSING PRICES, trust me you don't want a repeat of that.

I hope no one here misconstrues anything I am saying as condescending, mean or ignorant of the struggle you all face. I understand that men have it bad but you chaps just need to put in a little more effort and you'll come out alright.