Where do we go from here?

kuulbert · 2017-11-04T22:42:15+00:00

I remember this one. I wonder if this was actually written by the PM of Canada under a pseudonym.

ChrisBrownApologist · 2017-11-04T22:32:06+00:00

LOL. Let it burn.

LET IT BUUUUUUUUUUUUUURRRRRRRRRN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

feel-theTang · 2017-11-04T22:51:59+00:00

"where do we go from here?" our own way?

2017-11-04T23:10:45+00:00

Where do we go from here?

Straight into the shitter. As for myself, I’m running away from all women as fast as my legs can carry me.

DarwinianKEKistani · 2017-11-04T23:34:33+00:00

LoL. Get cucked degenerate subhuman piece of meat

relevantretriever · 2017-11-05T02:04:57+00:00

Somethings not right with this article. I think it was actually written by a woman. Every other sentence is talking about feelings.

https://www.thecut.com/2015/07/what-open-marriage-taught-one-man-about-feminism.html

Flintblood · 2017-11-04T23:01:35+00:00

TL;DR is they are cucked? Basically the woman has more opportunity and is the one wanting more sex partners.

throwaway152038 · 2017-11-04T22:48:23+00:00

I tried that once in practice, i.e. allowing her to fuck around.

Unfortunately hypergamy still was stronger. She decided if she wants to fuck around obviously she doesn't love me, so she switched me for an another guy, but he dumped her quite quickly.

He wasn't nearly as tolerant as I am for her "needs".

Mr_RobotDick · 2017-11-05T00:33:10+00:00

The definition of a literal cuck

IslandicFreedom · 2017-11-05T08:49:40+00:00

A few things.

I always worried about getting old. Now at 40, I can tell you there are worse things than getting old, like being born young into such a fucked up world. It's a huge sigh of relief not having to fix a mess you'll be departing from soon enough.
I can really see how things got to this point. Things started falling apart after the industrial revolution. Where you might not have had to toil a field, you now had to work in a factory. And I don't give a shit how elevated the service sector is, you're still spending a considerable amount of time at work. Before you might have worked on a farm with family and friends. Now you work with "colleagues". You spend vast portions of your life with people who don't really give 2 shits about you. Most importantly though the integral family unit is weakened by this absence. Women and children aren't exempt. Children start their "work" the day they enter school, they're now in a system, and their family is a secondary concern. * Mini note here: It's also about waking hours. You might only spend 8 hours a day at work, but those are your most lucid hours. Your spare change hours (when you're tired / not focused) are allocated to your family. From my experience roughly 2-3 hours a day during a work day, and even then there's shit like household chores.
We can sit and debate how women got into the workforce, but at some point they did, and in a big way. Shit it's happened fast. At least 20 years ago female salaries were subsidiary at best. Not any more. Hence concepts like "Stay at home Dad" and the rebranding of "Breadwinner to be unisex".
Political correctness. Outside of Reddit, I mean in life, there's still a hive mind. Acceptable behavior is governed by the community. This means that let's say you met a girl and wanted to live normally where the male has his roles and the female hers. This symbiosis sustains a healthy relationship between the 2. Only the community these people find themselves in is far more liberal. What is considered "normal" however to the female is primarily what all her friends are doing. If their marriages are all open, or the majority, well regardless of how moral you think your bitch might be, it's only a matter of time. But it's not just in bigger issues like this. A more basic example. I wanted to do anal with my ex, and she literally went and got opinions from her friends on the subject. Now here's the fucked up thing. "Her getting to like anal" or not, would have been based on the feedback from her friends. If all her friends did it, well then she would feel obliged to do it or vice versa. In the same way you'll find yourself out of a relationship fast, if you come with any ideas too far out of the norm. EG: In the future, the desire for a monogamous relationship. You'll be labeled a freak.
Back to point 2. Since your woman is now spending most of her breathing hours at work. Who do you think she's pulling emotional support from? I mean realistically, even with your best efforts. My ex worked at a place for over a decade, and with friends she knew from university days. It's like she had a 2nd life at work. A buzzing social scene with all kinds of drama and complex relationships and many participants. After a while YOU'RE NOT the one she turns to if she has something really personal to discuss. Or if she needs a shoulder to cry on etc, she goes to the most natural, clearly her work friends. And it's a cluster fuck. Since all these work friends are in the same boat too. My point here is -> It starts becoming that your relationship is less about the emotional connection and more about the financial partnership (a basic dwelling cooperation) and to scratch that itch called sex. Now at this point it's really not a very far reach to say "Fuck if he's only giving me sex, well I can get that anywhere".
The general lack of real intimacy / connection in society, means people are more desperate for it, and constantly missing it. And because people are too fucking stupid to realise how to fix it, well they start having affairs. Notice how flirty office communication is. Mostly it leads to nowhere, but I see this general vibe of "I find you fuckable, and if I wasn't in a relationship or bound by social constraints I would be fucking you". Flirting, even at the most professional levels is so commonplace. And this can lead to affairs. Point is at some stage, affairs stop becoming taboo, since EVERYONE is virtually having them, so "Hell let's bring it out in the open".

What I find most distressing is that you reach a point where that one thing you wanted you won't have because women today aren't capable of giving it. They're so intertwinded with "The system" that they cannot even fathom sancity these days or what it really means to submit to a partner. At best you can hope for "sex on tap" and someone to come home to (and nag and bitch over impossible standards).

That's all.

redditrat99 · 2017-11-05T00:51:03+00:00

um. no. nope. this is not okay. the same goes the other way. it is not okay to sleep with other women. people need to stop being disgusting pigs.

Nezborn02 · 2017-11-05T00:12:18+00:00

Don't feel bad for him at all

mrp_1844 · 2017-11-04T23:52:51+00:00

One word. Fool.

2017-11-05T08:16:07+00:00

Fun fact

If your hot enough to get girls. They won't allow an open relationship

2017-11-05T10:27:37+00:00

Uuuuugh she'd still be covered in Paulo's semen and sweat. And when he kisses her he'll taste Paulo's ass juice from when she rimmed him like a World War Z zombie gorging on a corpse.

Flintblood · 2017-11-04T23:02:13+00:00

Where’s the rest of this devil’s tale?

cleats4u · 2017-11-05T02:23:12+00:00

Further proof this cuntry is ripe to be taken over by...real men. I'm just going to show them where the police stations and prisons are if they let me live.

2017-11-05T02:54:01+00:00

Daily dose of horror!

stoopididoit · 2017-11-05T00:15:01+00:00

I believe the saying goes "to hell, in a hand-basket"

Aussiewolf82 · 2017-11-05T02:17:06+00:00

Your a fucking cuck, not a feminist.

JeffersonSales · 2017-11-05T02:38:45+00:00

I couldn't care less about it. Just like a fellow MGTOW buddy said above, LET IT BURN.

2017-11-05T02:40:57+00:00

Fuck. Seriously? It’s got nothing to do with male or female, it’s only basic respect. Poor bloke.

2017-11-05T04:17:00+00:00

and their expectation is my tax money should cover any STD treatment; we are all humans, after all /s

jerseymayan · 2017-11-05T04:37:01+00:00

I already know what this cuck looks like. Skinny fat guy, with a patchy beard, a black thick rimmed prescription glasses, maybe a receiving hairline but covered with a beanie hat. Most likely has a very funny, feminine walk too.

And lets not forget he most likely has a small penis. 4 inches long 4 inches circumference.

fcb98292 · 2017-11-05T04:47:00+00:00

Gross, twisted and nothing I want any part of.

mofono · 2017-11-05T05:41:38+00:00

i went to the brothel today and had sex with a lady. i know she's been with heaps of other men before, but i don't mind. therefore i cannot really blame a woman in a relationship for sleeping around. it's how they are. we all need some variety.

GrimyBrisketbeard · 2017-11-05T06:45:18+00:00

He's not truly feminist until he charges himself with "flavor rape" for not delivering dessert to Paulo's bedroom after the deed was done.

bermalux · 2017-11-05T08:07:17+00:00

cut off your balls, put them in a box and give them to her. you do not need them any more with such an article.

BipolarKing14 · 2017-11-05T09:48:12+00:00

300 the Persian emissary " THIS IS MADNESS"

HODLtheCRYPTO · 2017-11-05T09:49:47+00:00

Open marriage ?? hahahaha you mean NO marriage !!!

2017-11-05T10:32:51+00:00

I fully can't.

Hwga_lurker_tw · 2017-11-05T11:16:34+00:00

That is the dumbest thing I've ever read. How can anyone defend that kind of stupidity? When mommy gives the kids herpes from sharing glasses after she screwed a burner how happy will that dad be? It's weird to see society destroy the nuclear family then wonder "where have all the good men gone?"

Drakaris · 2017-11-05T11:45:57+00:00

earth was a mistake.

Rhodesius · 2017-11-05T00:34:48+00:00

Down the drain hopefully.

RedFoxOnFire · 2017-11-05T00:36:19+00:00

"Where do we go from here?"

Get picture, bitch is probably dumb enough to send them to you.

Use those pictures as grounds for a divorce so you can keep everything

MyLittlePonyofDoom · 2017-11-05T01:25:41+00:00

Shit, the dude should show this to his son when he's 15.

MGTOW4LIFE thence

Udo70 · 2017-11-05T06:39:28+00:00

Cucks gonna cuck.

2017-11-05T14:41:55+00:00

needs to puke

EconomistMagazine · 2017-11-05T17:12:12+00:00

That doesn't sound like an open relationship. That sounds like she gets to fuck and you're on baby sitting duty.

A true open relationship would be both partners finding equal amounts of anonymous sex. But feminists don't want equality, they want better. As huMAN says... "Whatever it is, women just want MORE."

frankmarlowe · 2017-11-05T23:31:16+00:00

Technically, every relationship is an open relationship. The real question is whether or not your partner will be honest with you about it.

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2017-11-05T08:10:48+00:00

Hell?

2017-11-05T13:20:05+00:00

I'm not a feminist, but as a gamer this sounds like a pretty sweet arrangement.

Title	Where do we go from here?
Author	TiredMisfit
Upvotes	203
Comments	87
Date	November 4, 2017 10:27 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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