Any man who's using that phrase is either suffering from the anecdotal evidence fallacy or a certified simp, IMHO. It pains me to see that expression to be used in all seriousness on a MGTOW sub of all places. So until someone is able to make a case for men being able to be friends with the naturally amoral people (aka "all women"), it will remain your personal experience fallacy along the lines of "Wrong, Yugo is a great car and it's never given me any problems!".