Hello, I’m new

Silver_The_Bard · 2020-06-05T20:09:32+00:00

MGTOW is a simple methodology. You simply remove as much female influence from your life as possible, and focus on work/aspirations/self growth.

You can either do this temporarily until you feel comfortable with your own self actualization. Or maybe the ideology will help you find a new destiny you desired.

Either are great outcomes for you.

Good luck little brother.👍

XGHOW · 2020-06-05T20:34:00+00:00

Hi.

You’re not a dumbass, your just young. Since you used the word dumbass, I assume that you’re wanting to improve your wisdom and intelligence, and not look down on yourself anymore; an excellent, admirable first step, by asking those questions. I’d encourage you to not put yourself down while doing so.

Second, don’t apologize for taking people’s time. You asked a great question, no need for apologies. Be confident in your quest for knowledge. If you ever receive hostility for asking a question (which, judging by your phrasing, I would hazard a guess that you are constantly are discouraged from asking question by your family), that’s an indication that the person whom you’re asking, has answers that are not for your benefit at all. One strike policy- don’t ever ask them anything again, and get them out of your life as soon as possible. Only keep people who are willing to explore topics with you, free of judgement, in your life.

There’s a reason I’m pointing out these two things before getting to your question; hopefully you’ll pick up on that as you continue reading.

Onto your great question.

MGTOW is about autonomy. It’s about using the freedom you, as an individual man, have in this modern world, and using it to build and empower yourself to make as much of an autonomous life as possible. A life where you have the resources, the fortitude, and the power to build the most exciting and interesting experience possible.

That means being liberated from the tyranny of others. It means picking and choosing exactly the types of relationships you want in your life, be that romantic, friendships, governmental, or familial. What is best for you? That’s your decision to make, and no one else. And the path of Going You Own Way is the one which will afford you the power to build this autonomy like no other. It will allow you to take absolute control over your existence, and decide if you want it to be one that you’re proud of inhabiting.

I hope you realize how empowered you already are, by being so young and already asking these types of questions. Don’t ever stop asking. You’ll keep growing the more you ask questions, especially the hard ones. If you keep building on this, focusing only on your own liberation, soon you won’t be able to even recognize yourself in the mirror.

I have a recommendation for the next set of questions to ask yourself:

1) What does my ideal, best, most empowered self look like? And, 2) Do I want to be that man?

Answer those 2, and see where that takes you.

Some last advice, check out these two YouTube channels: Colltaine and Quasimandias.

Colltaine will give you a cold hard look at the truth, as it relates to human behavioral biology. Looking at this truth is incredibly important, as it will help you navigate the complex world of human interaction.

Quadimandias will give you the tools to make your life one of excellence. He is much more into the philosophy of autonomy, especially as it relates to going your own way, and will show you a variety of different thought models, each more empowering than the last.

You’re in an amazing position OP, to be contemplating these types of subjects at such a young age. Keep pushing, and keep building exactly the kind of life you deserve. This life is yours, and yours alone. Free yourself from anything, or anyONE, that holds you back.

Keep asking questions, that’s why the forum is here. We’re happy to help.

Best of luck with your journey, keep pushing hard.

g3r4l7zR1v11 · 2020-06-05T21:18:24+00:00

Brother if only I could go back in time and discover some red pill/MGTOW truths at 15.. Welcome! 🤜🏻🤛🏻

Replicant3982 · 2020-06-05T23:08:05+00:00

Your testosterone is all time high and it’s telling you girls are the most important thing in your life. It will pass. You are most important in your life. Here is my view on MGTOW philosophy. It gives you simple rules to minimize negative impact of females on your life.

No cohabitation: sex and relationships are okay but don’t let invade your personal space. Every man needs proverbial cave where can be yourself.
No marriage: judicial system is highly skewed towards women. When you sign marriage contract you give up a lot of rights. Your money are no longer yours. There are no benefits for men in marriage. Divorces are skyrocketing.
Don’t relay on females: for them everything is temporary. All promises will be revoked when they find better guy.
Work on yourself to become better, independent man. And do it for your own satisfaction.

Girls should be compliment to your life, not the focus.

Jake4523 · 2020-06-05T20:40:11+00:00

Three quick things

Your not a dumbass, so stop saying that. Sure we all can make a few dumb choices but that doesn't make you a "dumbass".
Why at 15 are you here? Your young, e joy being young, enjoy the beautiful parts of your world, have fun, you shouldn't be worried about how crazy shit is.
MGTOW is men who want no part in relationships, marriage or cohabitation with women. Simple and as easy as that, we would rather focus on building us (yourself) up rather than having to step on eggshells and build someone else up, who has little regard, respect, sympathy, or integrity towards you. People may conflate that criticizing women is "hateful" or "misogynistic" or "hate speech" however they have no issue blasting anti male rhetoric, or ads on TV, in newspapers, or online without question.

Anyways go and enjoy life kid, it all may seem crazy, wild and unbelievable but ignore it all, go and be a kid.

LonelyBobcat · 2020-06-05T21:36:34+00:00

ALSO, no need to apologize, you came here and politely asked for more information. Its a hard habit to get out of when you're deep in it, but you're not a burden just for existing and asking questions. If someone isn't interested in talking to you then its up to them to just not respond, its not up to you to preemptively apologize for existing.

Lifeat35 · 2020-06-05T20:24:42+00:00

Relax bud, you don’t need to apologize for anything and there isn’t any reason to call yourself a dumbass.

This place is designed for people to talk and ask questions.

MGTOW focuses on doing what makes you happy and not having anyone holding you back from it, specifically girls or women.

NoMercy_17 · 2020-06-05T20:02:16+00:00

Hey man, I'm a 13 year old dumbass and I to need help.

DonMelbourne · 2020-06-05T22:46:33+00:00

MGTOW is the RATIONAL decision to avoid legal entanglements with women based on a cost/benefit analysis of marriage/co-habitation. That decision will differ based on how each man defines the costs and benefits to their own lives.

MGTOW is not about being anti-woman or pro-man. It is about being pro-individual. Learn as much as you can, question as much as you can, and go your own way. The fact that, at 15 years of age, you are trying to figure things out puts you well ahead of many others! Well done, and never stop. Best wishes, brother.

GrandpaLeiho · 2020-06-05T22:52:46+00:00

Yea, don’t apologize for bothering anyone for 1 good question and Unfortunately male suffering is repulsive to most women and society.

This is a great place to get mens opinions outside of women; from people you’d never get the chance to meet irl. Like I’m forty with a 10 y/o daughter.

Unapologetically focus on your passions Always try and be more capable than your peers. I would suggest reading into female dating strategy if you haven’t already as dating is vastly different is for men and women.

Perseus_the_Bold · 2020-06-06T01:15:13+00:00

Asking us to describe MGTOW is like asking us to describe the wind. MGTOW simply means Men Going Their Own Way. Why are we going our own way? Because the path that others have set for us is unacceptable. We do not agree with our role in life thus we are walking our own path, our own way. Specifically when it comes to girls.

We understand what makes girls tick, and once you discover how they work you become disenchanted and the majority choose to forsake relations with women because for them they are simply not worth it.

It begins with a question: What is this going to cost me? And then: Is it worth it?

Girls are a drain on our life so we choose to just leave them alone. Whether it's their drama or the fact that marriage is a legally binding contract we do not agree with it doesn't matter. We all have different reasons for not wanting to have anything to do with women in our lives. Sure we can still talk to them, have platonic relationships with women at work or through mutual friends but as far as having a girl in our life that is a big NO.

Find out what you want in life first. See for yourself what girls are all about, study them, get to know them, then decide for yourself. Do not listen to another dumbass tells you on the internet. Choose for yourself. That is MGTOW.

The following videos may help:

https://youtu.be/z1PSbDmV8Gw

https://youtu.be/v7KQsS2kLM4

https://youtu.be/KOMD3H6oHyg

https://youtu.be/M8aT6uE3QFs

iu88 · 2020-06-06T05:00:07+00:00

Don't fully go into it. This is good at face value, but this way of thinking will lead many men to die alone and sad. Do it, find a girl you like, marry, have kids, go to church, have a good life.

2020-06-06T14:10:05+00:00

Welcome to mgtow, you don’t know how lucky you are to have found us at your age.

MGTOW_BEASTMODE · 2020-06-06T15:55:50+00:00

I was a 15 year old dumbass as well, many many years ago.

The fact that you can admit that you don't know things is a good sign that a person is open to learning.

MGTOW to me simply means I won't give any of my resources to a woman.

BelchMcWiggles · 2020-06-06T17:59:14+00:00

Chameleon

GrisBosque · 2020-06-07T10:33:59+00:00

Zen saying: "The first wise thought, is realizing you are a fool."

You'll go far here.

ExItGuy · 2020-06-08T15:55:20+00:00

I don't think you're dumb, I think you are just trying to figure things out like you said. We were all there at one time and many of us still are. It's hard to navigate a changing world. Asking questions is a good thing, so keep doing it.

MGTOW is Men Going Their Own Way. It's basically a lifestyle choice in which males put themselves first and not make women a priority in their lives. It's basically focusing on ourselves with no regard for what women or others think.

It's not easy to be male these days with all the antimale sentiment in government, schools, workplaces, media, and our culture in general. Many of us have simply chosen not to play this game and work entirely on ourselves.

It's not about hating women, it's about limiting their influence on your life. I have female friends and went to a female counselor a few years ago, but that is the extent of my dealings with women. Divorced, not looking for a new wife/girlfriend, just enjoying my freedom.

You can get started enjoying your life too. Study and try to do as well as possible in school and at whatever you decide to do after graduation, whether it be college, trades, military, etc.

As for your social life, limit your time around girls if you can. Teen girls are the worst in my experience, and they don't bother with any guy who isn't a jock or drives an expensive sports car. Stick with guys who treat you right and get rid of the ones who don't.

Live life for yourself, for you own improvement, not for someone else.

I've gotten a little long winded, but sometimes I wish at your age I'd gone MGTOW.

Adifficultdog · 2020-06-05T22:49:45+00:00

Sure, make sure to take complete randoms on Reddits opinions on relationships and women and internalize them into your developing impressionable mind. Great job kiddo, next try go on some neo-nazi boards (or just 4Chan) and say "hi I'm a dumbass but would just like to know is nazism for me?"

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