Hey, I’ve seen this one before…

UtetopiaSS · 2021-07-17T00:03:19+00:00

The asshole here is the wait staff. She just took the order, saw the imbalance, but still suggested to spilt it 50/50, straight after it was said they'd pay seperate?

Edit: Wait staff don't make suggestions on how people pay. They offer methods, but won't offer a suggestion in place of one already chosen.

Secondly, why couldn't the OP pipe up and say something like "uh.. no.. just separately, thanks, not 50/50"? Instead she let it happen and then complains online...

Ramp_Up_Then_Dump · 2021-07-17T02:54:29+00:00

She is right, I would be annoyed as well.

If he wanted to annoy her.... Why would he waste time? I think this post is not directly linked with mgtow

topami222 · 2021-07-16T23:57:33+00:00

That’s not right of the guy. I’m all for splitting but that’s a bullshit thing he pulled.

Ryuujinken · 2021-07-17T04:14:30+00:00

Asshole guy and this is unrelated to mgtow

-NotFBI-agent006- · 2021-07-16T23:31:19+00:00

I am pretty sure he knows that half way he would pay less so, as a guy. I think he set himself up hoping to get away with it

Dustin_Bromain · 2021-07-17T03:40:35+00:00

Nah that’s dumb as fuck pay for what you eat

tomgreens · 2021-07-17T00:43:52+00:00

The dude either has no self-awareness or is pathetic for not wanting to part with $22.

MiguelH69 · 2021-07-17T02:33:19+00:00

Lol my boy got options. You only do shit like that when you dgaf what happens.

SeaworthinessOk7174 · 2021-07-16T23:10:17+00:00

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Diligent-Education64 · 2021-07-17T00:21:21+00:00

Because it's such a big deal to buy a woman a few meals first. A little generosity goes a long way.

omen_tenebris · 2021-07-17T06:05:52+00:00

It's funny, but it's not right

cliffy348801 · 2021-07-17T01:00:39+00:00

it's a tacky move on his part, regardless of MgtoW or not.

the 4 drinks to her none should be a red flag for her.

Hard_one123 · 2021-07-17T07:42:46+00:00

Imagine subbing to MGTOW and being one of the many advocating for the villain in this scenario.

The bad apples ruin the bunch. For some GTOW is a choice, for many it’s their actions that lead them down the path yet they seem so jaded against women as if it is the fault of all women but themselves.

The idea of GYOW is to be your own person and not to rely on women for your creature comforts, not to hate and blame. I wish you all better futures and that you grow beyond this bitterness.

tabris51 · 2021-07-17T07:45:31+00:00

Wow what a dick.

Reminded me of the story of that one guy who had a cinema date with a girl, he offers to buy the tickets, after buying them he says he is hungry and kinda forces her to go to a carls jr with him, pretty much makes her pay for the meal(she didn’t eat), after eating he just cancels and refunds the tickets and goes home.

Now you just can’t be mad at that

kevintheredneck · 2021-07-17T11:47:03+00:00

Boy what a crap thing to do. If you go Dutch you pay for your own meal. What a douche move. This hasn’t got a thing to do with MGTOW.

mimetist · 2021-07-17T09:33:49+00:00

If this happened as she says, he is an asshole... but we only see one version here.

It is better not to believe anyone by default.

I doubt that someone would order 4 drinks and a steak for dinner while he is with someone that only orders "small pasta and water".

It doesn't make sense to order "a steak" on an Italian restaurant.

It makes much more sense that she is just exaggerating orders and prices to justify (to herself) that she doesn't want to be with someone that splits the bill.

Adventurous-Worker64 · 2021-07-17T19:13:44+00:00

If so many women weren't just doing a "foodie call" for a free meal, this wouldn't be the issue it's turned into. Boo hoo!

woshifeicai · 2021-07-17T18:57:28+00:00

Guy is an ass, and she should have spoken up and have the bill seperated into what each of them consumed.

Impossible-asset · 2021-07-18T12:43:43+00:00

She's right. Anyone who does the "order a bunch of shit and then split the bill 50/50" is am asshole.

unabashedXY · 2021-07-17T01:14:25+00:00

Nah, that guy’s a dick

enemystanduser96 · 2021-07-17T12:42:19+00:00

Tbh the girl is right here I know i would have been pissed if someone did this to me

Awokeeleven · 2021-07-17T10:24:51+00:00

Cheap dude, regardless if I’m eating with a friend or date, if I order something for 80$ and my friend order something for 10-20$ I can gladly pay that as well to avoid the splitting hassle.

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dreamthekeytoreality · 2021-07-19T19:22:45+00:00

Call me a simp if you like but if I offer to take a girl to a date, then I pay for the date. If I want to go and eat out, I go to places that sell high quality food. High quality = expensive. Really I'm going for myself and taking her as company so the least I can do is pay for her food. I don't understand men who insist on taking women to expensive restaurants then insisting they pay 50% of more of the meal... they also whine that she won't "put out" after doing this (looking at you mgtow #1 sub).

I quite often go to restaurants on my own too. Pre-covid I enjoyed an extremely nice pizza with some Douro in a restaurant in Kensington, London. It was so delicious it stood out and I'm glad I was on my own to savour it.

NoMarriageNoKids · 2021-07-17T04:59:46+00:00

Ahhhhh, the strong and independent woman is getting a small taste of being a man. So, she wants equal pay, wants to graduate school and compete with ken for job, and then gets pissed about paying $25 more then her food was.

Listen, toots. Men have been carrying women 100% forever. Cry me a river already.

This is just why I never do dinner dates anymore. I'm not treating some entitled woman to a nice dinner in this day and age. I'll offer to pick up groceries and cook dinner at her place because that implies we're getting down to it later... and, she got the D and the meal for free.

Such_Temporary_9597 · 2021-07-17T01:23:34+00:00

Equality right down the middle

starameski · 2021-07-17T01:37:10+00:00

What a legend lol

daniellederek · 2021-07-17T02:20:15+00:00

Smart man up till the begging for another date.

NervousShower · 2021-07-16T23:21:19+00:00

She deserves it 🙂

Bensonian170 · 2021-07-17T02:28:48+00:00

Lmao this woman!

Al-Rei · 2021-07-17T02:50:58+00:00

It’s interesting how she emphasizes she always “offers” to pay for what she ate. Indicating she’s happy not to if someone else sucks it up. Also, noticeable how she never mentions (because has never occurred to her) that she could sometimes offer to pay the whole bill…. I’ll probably be dead before I see women fighting over to take care of the check. I’ve seen men do it all the time.

Gofishingrn · 2021-07-17T02:43:36+00:00

Miss ‘Independent’ (Karen) is pissed cause she thinks she paid more. Boo hoo. I seriously Don’t give a rats ass. IMO - trust me it would have been something else on her ‘list’ if that hadn’t happened.

Al-Rei · 2021-07-17T02:56:29+00:00

He should have paid for the whole thing then get kisses and laid at the end of the date. You see it’s just a damn game. This chick is acknowledging she blocked him because of it. The way I see it is a lot cheaper to pay for your dates dinner than hiring a hooker both want something out of you before they warm you up. Just women’s nature.

Title	Hey, I’ve seen this one before…
Author	HarryHawk16
Upvotes	1
Comments	72
Date	July 16, 2021 11:06 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW2
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