I don't know anymore

Chinny_YT · 2021-03-07T05:32:46+00:00

First of all, happy birthday brother. Second of all, I think, most of us are all here to support our fellow brothers. Sometimes, the people that say that stuff are just jealous of you, to bring you down because you are better than them. Sometimes, not lingering on those bad thoughts can save you. Most of us are here (I;m pretty sure) and you can PM me if you want. Love you bro.

2021-03-07T06:29:27+00:00

Happy Birthday! I don't know what to advise you, I'm sorry. But nice to see you here.

xinxinel · 2021-03-07T09:20:37+00:00

Happy birthday mate, your best option while you feel this way is to do nothing different. Rest and relax, people like to spew horrible things to hurt people because they can. When you've distanced yourself from the words, decide what to do.

Solo_and_Simple · 2021-03-07T13:16:40+00:00

Pay attention to what you're thinking, about what they're saying. Ok, someone said something mean and cruel about you. But the key is how you are thinking about that. It sounds like you're feeling depressed, which tells me that you're taking the attack as true or well-founded and agreeing with it. You might want to double-check your thinking.

For instance...

Is what they're saying really true? Or is there some distortion to it?
Is the source credible? That is, is the person saying this someone whose opinion you trust and consider reliable?
Is the source well-informed about what he/she is saying? Are they in a good position to speak authoritatively about whatever they're saying, or are they uninformed?
Is the comment fair and objective? For example, are they putting things in perspective, or are they focusing on just one detail and blowing it out of proportion?
What is the motive of the speaker? Is it possible, for example, that the speaker is angry and blaming, or feeling self-righteous? If so, you ought to consider their motive in speaking to you this way. Perhaps they want to cause you harm or tear you down, for their own purposes (e.g., to feel better about themselves).

cleats4u · 2021-03-07T14:30:36+00:00

Happy birthday! People have personality disorders and it's a whole lot more prevalent than you would think. There is no medication they can take and there is no cure for it. Most aren't even aware they have it. One minute they are OK, the next they are lunatics plotting your demise. They want you to understand them, otherwise your a rotten uncaring son of a bitch. The only thing I understand about them is they are shit. And it's going to get all over me if I don't get away from them. The sex is not worth it...no matter how kinky/crazy. In the long run it's just a waste of time that could be spent doing something more productive than arguing and fighting with a crazy person.

Reddit1984Censorship · 2021-03-07T10:33:09+00:00

Happy birthday.
Emotions are like drug effects therefore do not make life important desicions based on emotions.
Instead just break the emotional ties you have to whatever the source of your pain is.
You are free to live on your own by your own under your own terms and definitions.

Mynewadventures · 2021-03-07T12:18:15+00:00

Happy Birthday!

Inevitable_Ad_8170 · 2021-03-07T14:04:12+00:00

Happy birthday, my brother from another mother.

Dont pay much attention to what stupid people say to you. Vile people will say vile things, its all they can do.

And no matter what they say, you can chose to ignore them, just like you would ignore some irritating insect.

roplaysraid · 2021-03-07T16:27:58+00:00

Happy birthday 🎁. If there is one thing that can said to be true and universal about being online: Haters gonna hate. IMHO, leave them to their sad little lives. We can hope that one day they realize that diminishing someone elses flame doesn't make theirs brighter.

reaper555 · 2021-03-08T03:13:00+00:00

I think I need to understand more what they said. If someone launches into personal attacks. I approach it with composure, curiosity and detachment. Do not react to the other person. Say “So let me get this straight you said xyz. Repeat what they said. What would compel you to stay something like at someone’s birthday in front of everyone. And how does that empower you”. Basically you put them on the spot. If the continue to insult you. You ask them to leave. Nip in the bud right there.

Germantaffer · 2021-03-07T15:56:01+00:00

I think most viewers don't understand to help you now. But my question for you is: If somebody willing for helping you , would you really accept this help? I ask simply, since I know , that I wouldn't accept help at all, when I was really down in hell. Primary you have to be aware of the answer on yourself...

Intelligent-Brush708 · 2021-03-07T17:11:44+00:00

Man up little buddy if its a woman, she is using S.I.G.N language don't fall for it

S- shame. I- insults. G- Guilt. N- Need to be right.

I hope you push through like the man you are

SilenceIsGolden321 · 2021-03-08T04:23:23+00:00

If it was a woman, be careful with the things you tell or reveal to them because they may use it against you when you're in a vulnerable state such as your birthday or breakup.

DoItForDalebaby · 2021-03-10T03:14:29+00:00

I have a remedy for you. Go fuck a silly whore and blow her back out. Blow a load all over her face like the alpha you are. It’s imperative that you swiftly tell that bitch to leave at once post nut and not fall in lOvE with her. Go to your fridge and shot gun a beer. You will go from not knowing anymore to feeling like a super chad with a golden dick. Or if you don’t wanna do that you could always just take a load off your feet and relax. Sorry about your dog brother.

Title	I don't know anymore
Author	KnownEmergency00
Upvotes	15
Comments	20
Date	March 7, 2021 5:08 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW2
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/mgtow2/comments/lzjq6j/i-dont-know-anymore/
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