Question for those with first or second hand experience

Pacard76 · 2020-11-08T08:10:15+00:00

I ended up 1 month in my childs room at my parents house and over one year in a 1 room basement in a friends house, while paying full everything for my house, where my exwife lived in with my daughter. She pressured me, that she will move far away if I don’t do that. Used my child and the love for my child as a weapon against me. Sidenote: she had six month affair with her boss before I moved out. I go through every shit I remember. I often thought of suicide. Heavy oneitis. But I crawled out of the hole. By myself. Then I got redpilled a year ago. I will never forget this live changing moment. Was in my bathroom. At this time, I didn’t know the word redpill. But was the moment I saw clear. All my faults. All the new chances in front of me. A better life. I have a wonderful flat now in one of the best cities in Germany. 2 ladders higher at my beloved job. A strong and loving bond between my daughter and me even if she’s far away. Rotating woman but none of them, get any emotion or anything else of me. My personal freedom and my freedom of choices are the best goods I could give. And I give them to no one.

Soldier88 ask friends and family. Let them help you.

CuriousIncel2 · 2020-11-08T05:18:41+00:00

Never get married. Problem nipped in the ~~butt~~ bud.

throawayusedd · 2020-11-08T06:36:32+00:00

So this is why you keep a couple friends. You will need their couch. If you're lucky you have more than one and can rotate.

Note: this is humor, but also serious. Keep in mind most homeless are men.

cleats4u · 2020-11-08T12:42:20+00:00

Women found out men were sleeping in their cars so they had the government take away their drivers licenses.

TXsoldier88 · 2020-11-08T14:13:00+00:00

I should have verified. I’m not married and single (gfs are too expensive) but did six years in the military and heard/seen my fair share of divorces. I asked this question because I wanted to know if there was anything out there for men

MajIssuesCaptObvious · 2020-11-08T08:03:35+00:00

Most people stay with family or friends when they leave or are kicked out of their marriage.

deadBeefCafe2014 · 2020-11-08T14:48:00+00:00

Beyond your own resources, there is nothing available from an organizational perspective. Your network is your most important asset.

I was fortunate that my folks’ next door neighbor had an apartment coming up and he needed a tenant right when I needed it. It was a tiny shithole, but it was enough for me and my boys. It would have been much more difficult if i had to leave town and live outside the school system.

It took me years to regroup, but the house I have now is far and away better than the one I had to leave, and the kiddos are better for it.

Edit: Spelling...

Maximum_Afternoon · 2020-11-08T19:18:18+00:00

Sure, I slept in my car a couple times WHILE I was married. Before I left for good I rented an apartment.

Private organizations? You've already listed them: hotel/motels.

the-lone-squid · 2020-11-08T05:56:10+00:00

Usually his car.

principledbeast1 · 2020-11-09T20:18:22+00:00

I got lucky and had parents that cared about me, they put me up for about a year. After that I spent 5 years rebuilding my finances by living in a basic and slightly run down house for very cheap. Most guys live with parents or friends for a period based on my experience.

SUEDE2BLACK · 2020-11-09T20:12:54+00:00

Some cities have shelters you could stay their.

Title	Question for those with first or second hand experience
Author	TXsoldier88
Upvotes	1
Comments	11
Date	November 8, 2020 4:42 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW2
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