Ready to die

eewing99 · 2020-10-13T01:25:43+00:00

Man, you’re almost in the prime of life. If that’s what you really want to do then go ahead but I’d rather toast to your success in 12m than drink at your funeral.

VestigialHead · 2020-10-13T01:26:12+00:00

Much more to life than having someone love you. Because often it is fake love.

Love yourself and get out there and do things.

Find something that frightens you and become an expert at it. The change in your mindset and happiness will be mind blowing.

Ok-Collection-8948 · 2020-10-13T01:52:21+00:00

Once you accept that love is conditional you can start enjoying yourself again.

What you desire isn’t possible in our modern world. It used to be you made a commitment to stand by a partner. Now everything is temporary. All you have is yourself.

In many ways you are free and better off than married guys.

Bill Burr said there’s nothing wrong with sleeping on a futon. It’s better than sleeping next to a woman you hate and can’t leave.

redditloginfail · 2020-10-13T01:53:00+00:00

I swear I dont need the pity im legit done. ive lived a long life full of bullshit since birth. I told myself no matter what I wouldnt let this life change who I am. But I dont eve know who I am anymore. I live my whole llfe to please other people and Im miserable. Maybe some people are just defective. Ive tried alot. Depression, suicidal thughts, trying to be a good person thinking it will magically get better, Trying harder. Im just done. My mom is almost 70 and been alone so long shes lost her mind. I rach out to friends they dont respond BUT IM ALWAYS THERE FOR EVERYBODY!!!!! Fuck havving a good heart. I feel like I cant change who I sm and that person is shit.

redditloginfail · 2020-10-13T01:57:57+00:00

I felt the same way at a similar age. Changed my perspective and am enjoying my 40s, aside from the aches.

Being single is something to relish.

Lifeat35 · 2020-10-13T01:42:50+00:00

Don’t let relationships define who you are. You’re worth so much more than that.

Hang in there man, it gets better.

sfldesigner · 2020-10-13T02:04:07+00:00

Hey man.

I don’t know you. But I love you, just how you are.

Don’t give up. Focus on things in your life that give you happiness.

Show love to yourself in the way you love others and you will have a great life.

DM if you need to vent, sympathetic ear, or advice.

Dls95405 · 2020-10-13T02:59:03+00:00

I know it's hard to imagine right now, but this too shall pass. Please call this free national suicide prevention hotline for a real person to talk with 24/7

800-273-8255

Yehiaha666 · 2020-10-13T01:29:00+00:00

I've thought the same, but life is too interesting to give up. Lot's of wonderful things await you. I've been there.

DonMelbourne · 2020-10-13T01:49:19+00:00

All I wanted was someone to love me and not give up on me because that's the way I love.

Is there anything else you feel passionate about? E.g. hobbies or enthusiasms?

Bourbonandcigars06 · 2020-10-13T02:32:57+00:00

I’m going to be blunt

First you have to take responsibility for your own actions. Dude, you are legitimately lacking your life’s purpose. People cannot give you happiness. People are not going to make you content. Having a girlfriend won’t magically make you happy and in fact can be quite the opposite and likely make your life suck and become pissed off at the world. It’s just the way it is.

Join the military, yep you will get beat up but it’s for a great purpose. You can get great training, learn to adult, how to deal with problems, make great friends and can lead you to a great career

Go volunteer a few times and see how others are really suffering. No matter what you do, people are assholes, don’t appreciate help and come to feel entitled. That’s bullshit, get your ass out there, find a better job, learn new shit

I’m not going to say sorry but you are responsible for you. Now go kick ass and enjoy your life

gevalher · 2020-10-13T03:07:30+00:00

That's because you believed in fairy tales, always speaking of finding your true love, and such things doesn't exists.
Start new hobbies, learn another language(s), improve yourself, learn to make your own food, and take care of yourself, and soon you will discover that there's a rewarding life even in loneliness.

Metalcrazyx · 2020-10-13T03:14:29+00:00

Steel yourself.

CuriousIncel2 · 2020-10-13T03:41:21+00:00

Bro, recognize this is your Bipolar talking. Try to ride this phase out, buddy. You have been doing so well, it'd be a shame to quit now.

Impossible-asset · 2020-10-13T03:51:16+00:00

Ok. So post removed.

This is not an incel sub. There is 0 tolerance for any of it here, including whinging about wanting a relationship and not being able to get one.

That said, i would refer you to a suicide hotline if you are having feelings of hurting yourself or others. I would strongly suggest that you seek treatment either inpatient or outpatient.

Grenadejumper221 · 2020-10-13T03:24:30+00:00

I wish you well but this is not the appropriate forum for this discussion.

2020-10-13T03:37:27+00:00

Yes men crave love. Point of GYOW is to deviate from external approvals to internal. May be your are not ready for MGTOW.

Just get a newborn dog. He will take care of you

Title	Ready to die
Author	fucktheworldbig38
Upvotes	1
Comments	22
Date	October 13, 2020 1:16 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW2
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