Being prepared

snatch_haggis · 2018-01-14T18:30:49+00:00

Step one: Don't be afraid of your wife.

SBIII · 2018-01-14T18:46:22+00:00

I don't use any browser security / incognito mode. If she wants to look up my browsing history, that's up to her. I've nothing to hide. If she finds stuff that she doesn't like or finds hard to deal with, that's her problem, not mine.

If you live in fear of anything or anyone, then you aren't really living. Don't be afraid to be yourself, or to show your flaws. I'm not saying that you should go around advertising your flaws but if you own them, then you never have any fear of other people seeing them.

Senor_Martillo · 2018-01-14T19:03:39+00:00

"Not telling wife" is not the same as "hiding from wife"

OYS to anyone who is interested. Including her.

Marcus_Aurtrillius · 2018-01-14T19:16:17+00:00

This is something I just don't understand, and I've mentioned it before.

Are you guys browsing MRP on the family desktop? You're typing up an OYS post while the kid is waiting to research their history essay?

There's no reason to hide. But there's also no reason to leave shit laying around either. Depending on circumstance, each woman may react differently, but you'll still lose some mystique. She's thinking, "Wow, sex with MRP Hubby has been amazing lately..." Then she finds SGM on the kitchen counter. RIP tingles.

The Great & Powerful Oz had the curtains closed for a reason.

SteelSharpensSteel · 2018-01-14T19:19:08+00:00

Do we? I don't take any special browser activities. Let's take a hypothetical here. Say my wife got ahold of my phone and saw that I was logged into this "Married Red Pill" site. She'd see my username and perhaps the post or two I would be reading. Let's say she were to browse my post history. I honestly would not care - I wouldn't DEER, nor get into her frame. Say she were to try to use it as a power play - I don't play those games.

I would find it amusing though if she were to ask me about MRP Approved... "Honey, what is this 'MRP Approved' and why do you have it?" "That's something called flair, dear, and it's only for those guys who are sex gods. Remember last night?"

screechhater · 2018-01-14T18:37:29+00:00

Don’t login unless you comment.

Don’t use the app on the phone.

“Ya, some shit I was reading on Reddit. All kinds of interesting stuff on there”

You lift ? How about side bar ?

Don’t let fear of repricussions by her slow you down Don’t let anything stand in your way

[deleted] · 2018-01-14T19:40:54+00:00

I do not offer anything about MRP to wife, nor do I offer free information about what I am thinking.

If she should be so bold, as to enter my personal space on Reddit, what she finds is her problem. If she is embarrassed by my conversations here, so be it. Not my problem, it is her problem that she brought on herself. I do not read others diaries either.

What is the worst thing that could happen? She could be so upset that she wants a divorce, OK, I'm gone.

zurgenfloggin · 2018-01-14T20:09:09+00:00

Dude, I simply don't bring it up talking to her. I've not given 2 seconds of thought to what I'd do if she found my posts.

Stop worrying about what she's doing and start worrying about yourself.

weakandsensitive · 2018-01-14T20:24:17+00:00

Go Tyler Durden...

straius · 2018-01-14T20:29:16+00:00

That advice exists because they've been forced by dudes over sharing with their wives to give it.

Not because you need to hide it at all costs.

Title	Being prepared
Author	StillMill
Upvotes	3
Comments	18
Date	January 14, 2018 5:50 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MarriedRedPill
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