Can we be salvaged????

innominating · 2017-02-14T06:15:30+00:00

Sidebar. Nofap.

InChargeMan · 2017-02-14T08:15:44+00:00

It seems OP isn't concerned about NoFap, he is feeling regret for perceived harm he caused his oneitis.

Listen carefully my friend, I have one piece of mystical wisdom that has been passed down for generations, likely descendant of words spoken directly by Zeus himself.

STFU

To elaborate. SHUT THE FUCK UP

Do not bring it up, do not tell her how sorry you are, do not tell her about the feminist website you just read and how you regret the sins of Man against humanity.

Step 1: STFU Step 2: Be awesome (as taught in the sidebar) Step 3: Profit

What's done is done. Women have the amazing ability to move on from pain if you let them/show them. i.e. if you make her rehashing past pain a positive or beneficial experience for her, then that is your life forever. If you don't feed that behavior, but instead feed it with your current state of awesomeness, then she will no longer be with that old guy, she has her new one that is awesome. Pain forgotten.

Get it?

1976NovemberPappa · 2017-02-14T14:09:44+00:00

If I'm on the wrong sub, sorry no offense intended. My first time on

Bryz4Vezina · 2017-02-14T18:39:57+00:00

I know where you're coming from,I've been there too. The wierd "she won't have sex with me and I am still a horny man so I turn to porn now I feel guilty about it because they believe it's tantamount to an affair" bullshit.

Here's the deal. Kill this thought. Her denial of sex is just as much a violation of the marriage agreement. It's equally as heinous and just as much a form of infidelity.

Next, follow the sidebar and avoid porn, not because it's betrayal but because it's pathetic and wastes your drive to be a man. Get to the gym and sculpt yourself. Put in the right amount of time in the gym and realize porn isn't something you want. Because you won't want it. It only has power you give it. That's it.

Next, start owning the rest of your life and commit that emotional and mental energy you waste on feeling guilty about porn and channel it into being a man. You were made to be one. Your default state is not to feminize yourself or to share her thought processes. After all, she doesn't give a god damn about how her not having sex with you makes you feel. She doesn't lose sleep? You don't lose sleep. Stop accepting feminist bullshit as reality.

Read the sidebar. Commit to it. Fuck all the rest.

Edit: I remember feeling so guilty I confessed my porn usage and guess what? No sex. No "trust." Blah blah blah. You emmasculate yourself by doing that. She doesn't care that it was your outlet forced upon you by her abstinence. She didn't want to fuck you anyway.

Now she feels validated about it because you essentially told her to be. If she tries playing the religious card and shaming you,remind her of how the Bible tells her she should not deny you sex since sex is what defines a marriage (otherwise why wouldn't you just be business partners?)

Edit 2: And why would you prioritize her friendship when she's not prioritizing yours? Feeling like you do makes you one of her girlfriends. Does she fuck her girlfriends? Would you fuck your guy friends? Be her husband. Be her man.

BobbyPeru · 2017-02-14T06:12:32+00:00

Do you even lift bro?

470_2_700_nm · 2017-02-14T12:29:31+00:00

You are blaming everything on smartphones and your friend who introduced you to porn.

The real deal is you don't have any self control, and you are owning nothing.

Don't fucking post this garbage in MRP. Use ASK MRP but even then yiu have done zero work so you are wasting everyone's time.

zeteomegaleio · 2017-02-14T12:45:35+00:00

Why are you 40 and calling us bros? I'll call my best friend that and LTR to tease her when I ask if she lifted that day, but I'm not in a frat with you.

Start having some standards for yourself as a gentleman.

I have no idea if your marriage can be saved. But you could become someone who doesn't suck as a husband/man if you start internalizing the sidebar and putting some real effort into building a better you.

And every time you want to jerk off, either initiate with your wife or go lift.

RP_SuitScholar · 2017-02-14T17:12:58+00:00

Jerking off hurts your precious little snowflake? So??? Jesus go somewhere else...

Pinelero · 2017-02-14T13:36:35+00:00

How does fapping hurt your "best friend"... did you get carpal tunnel?

Title	Can we be salvaged????
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	2
Comments	23
Date	February 14, 2017 5:35 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MarriedRedPill
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STFU