So I’ve got an issue. Or just need some guidance. I’ve been in an LTR for a couple years now. And I’ve always been hardcore in the sense that I’ll do what I want when I want how I want. My fiancé has expressed to me that she doesn’t appreciate that I’ll go do whatever I want without consenting her first. Which I can understand from the sense if I’m doing things like going to a strip club or something disrespectful to our relationship. But I don’t do that. I don’t like the idea of asking permission to do things I enjoy. And I know if I asked that she would say yes. There’s no reason for her to say no. But I don’t like asking anyone to do things. How do I notify my counterpart that I would like to do something and plan it and do it in a way that’s respectful of her and our relationship without relinquishing control to her. Or worse yet her thinking she has that control. Because she really wouldn’t. But her thinking she did would cause enough problems.