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A True Gentleman

CobaltFresco · 2018-11-28T17:16:11+00:00

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November 28, 2018

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Title	A True Gentleman
Author	CobaltFresco
Upvotes	66
Comments	22
Date	November 28, 2018 5:16 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/a186s5/a_true_gentleman/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/a-true-gentleman.889251 https://theredarchive.com/post/889251

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[–]Hellhound265 13 points14 points15 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]grasshopa 15 points16 points17 points 7 years ago (19 children) | Copy Link

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[–]valenin 4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

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[–]v573v 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link

It”s confirmation that you are, and are inclined to, be resilient which highlights your ability to provide security as well as material comfort - both will serve your future family together well. Much like women preparing a sandwich for their boyfriend isn’t evidence of oppression but a demonstration of her ability and inclination to tend to others which will serve their future family well.

It’s fairly universal and works for most folks not just some folks. Can we stop pretending that human sex selection is evidence of villainy? Can we also stop pretending that the outliers of gender norms are more than a tiny group of men and women? Finally, can we stop pretending that traditional gender roles are a social construct and not the result of men and women following their typical inclinations which results in them also leading with their best foot forward?

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[–]v573v 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

The word was injected for your sake not mine. I saw your propaganda for what it was - a judgement that a people’s beneficial behaviour actually fulfilled selfish purposes.

Did you know that, according to certain people: men’s desire for young and physically fit women is not because it assures both healthy children and a healthy lifestyle for children but because men are selfish pigs only interested in their own sexual gratification?

Do you see the propaganda at work behind that sentiment? They’ve taken a positive male behaviour that assures healthy children and made it something villainous. Here, men’s beneficial behaviours are being twisted to make men look bad and you’ve done exactly the same for women and both are dishonest.

The terms of any agreement have to be met with an equal understanding by both of us that ‘dominance and ownership’ are either good for a person to exhibit or bad; for me, they are not good traits and ascribing them to a people is libel and that’s my entire counterpoint.

Now is the time for you to explain how a person exercising dominance and ownership over another person is something positive. Go!

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