So it's been found (a long time ago) in studies that the expectations on children as they grow up, affect how they develop. A few studies have backed this up

A study was done where some children were told they are really good at some subject, perhaps basketball I forget. They were told this and treated as this, and expected to become good at it. And then they became good at basketball!

In fact the studies did (unethetically) the opposite, to some group. Told a few other (Randomly selected) Students, that they are bad at math or spelling. And then those students BECAME WORSE AT IT.

So now you have people whose whole life and being is heavily altered and distorted... because of the teachers. All negative changes.

Think about how society tells males they are bad at every point.

I think the only reason they do this, is because they feel "they can". Males are more resiliant. But it is a waste. It is like wasting 100 "mental health regeneration points" on resisting abuse, instead of using those "skill points" on "business points" and actully constructing a worthwhile fun life to live in.

I'm pretty sure some shitheaded fuckers in society have constantly been telling me "I am bad at geting on with people"... BECAUSE THEY WANT ME TO BE BAD AT GETTING ON WITH PEOPLE.

They see what they want to see. They ignore all the periods where I'm being treated nicely and get on well with people. And focus on periods where I'm being treated badly, then pretend its my fault.

Same with how males are treated in general. Get abused and blamed for the crimes of others.

So they are DISTORTING MY PERSONALITY TO MAKE ME BAD AT GETTING ON WITH PEOPLE. Because they want to. It serves their agenda.

I mean to an extent, its unavoidable. How do you get on with blamers.

But at least you can enjoy yourself :) Even if blamers exist and are around you.

That is still a level of "Getting on with people". Just troll the fuck out of them... cutely and adorably :) with a big UwU. I mean thats my style. Your style of enjoying yourself even trolling blamers and making them like you, will be different of course :)

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I'm really interested in stories relating to this! How "being treated as something makes you into it". I'm sure you got some good examples!! Maybe even real links to studies and stuff. Or videos/whatever

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EDIT: https://www.duq.edu/about/centers-and-institutes/center-for-teaching-excellence/teaching-and-learning-at-duquesne/pygmalion (by warder(thanks!!))