Double Standards

iainmf · 2020-02-16T23:44:11+00:00

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LotBuilder · 2020-02-16T20:29:50+00:00

Rule #1 Don’t be ugly or fat. That’s life

tkoubek · 2020-02-16T18:54:31+00:00

And no feminism will ever change this...

Plisken999 · 2020-02-16T21:18:55+00:00

I was watching Shark Tank last week and 2 guys were pitching. A 70 yo man and his son. They made a deal with Barbara...

Thing is... Barbara made a "joke" about having a date with the father if they made a deal...

And when they actually made a deal, instead of shaking hands, she went for a hug and grabbed his ass..

If he grabbed her ass.... Wouldnt be the same.

I am a 30 yo gay man. I am fortunate enough to be good looking.. At least to the ladies... And working in a restaurant.. I had a few time ladies talking to me, putting their arms around me and grabbing my butt... It happened at least 10times over the years. No, they didnt know I am gay. It made me very unconfortable and I always ended up asking my coworkers to take care of them for me...

Also once I was going to my boyfriend place on a friday night. I was looking sharp, leather coat, nice tan, smelled nice. One car stopped on a corner and there was two girls. The driver asked me if I was looking for a girlfriend just for tonight. I gently refused. In that instance, I felt really good, and I still do. But i cannot stop thinking if the roles were reversed.. How would it looked if I stopped at a corner and ask a lady walking alone if she wanted a boyfriend just for one night...

Edit to add :

I only been grabbed once by a dude.. In a gay bar. I was dancing with my friends and some guy started dancing with us.. At this point.. Fine... Then he put his face infront of mine and grabbed my cock...

I picked him up by the collar and asked him who he was... He made a face like "wow calm down". I pushed him a little and told him if he does it again to me or anyone else ill slug him on the spot and he left.

So in my life, i had way more women behaving badly toward me than men.

Yet... Only versus the man I was ready to act... So even me... I have that double standars and I dont know how to change that with my actions. I know its double standard... But I wouldnt see myself menacing to slug the lady if she touched me again..

omegaphallic · 2020-02-16T19:44:57+00:00

This is the truth. I have seen it in action.

JDP518 · 2020-02-16T21:01:51+00:00

It's only harrasment if she's not interested in you.

xcbrent · 2020-02-16T20:36:50+00:00

What is this r/niceguys ? Get this crap off of here.

davou · 2020-02-16T20:13:34+00:00

This is cheap, adversarial and makes the cause seem petty.

I've seen plenty of very attractive people cross a line and make someone uncomfortable on both sides of the gender line.

-chewier- · 2020-02-16T21:58:11+00:00

This is true for women too. I don't see why this is a men's rights post. That wasn't the point of the comic either.

Tolgen45 · 2020-02-16T20:39:15+00:00

Personal preference is not discrimination

NotSeaPartie · 2020-02-16T20:24:30+00:00

Doesn’t fit

IcedCube420 · 2020-02-16T19:57:50+00:00

You get rejected if you are ugly and reported if you persist I see no issue here

Ctrl_Alt_Abstergo · 2020-02-16T18:48:29+00:00

Two things to nitpick:

Susan is a name for women in their mid-to-late 50's, so "lookin' good there" would be less a sexual approach and more a way of paying homage to the grandmotherly office lady.
Fatboy already knows he'll have HR on his case if he remarks, no matter how casually or politely, on the looks of his female colleagues. If Susan's new outfit throws him into a state of wonderment, he's not going to say anything, he'll just look at his shoes more and stutter, and this will confirm Susan in her opinion that he's a creep.

SoddingEggiweg · 2020-02-16T21:39:23+00:00

Call the post what you will, but the comic has generated some discussion so far. 😋

lolfuzzy · 2020-02-16T22:03:29+00:00

I consider myself more like the top pictured man, but would never say “looking good, Susan” due to the fact that it’s crossing the line for workplace appropriate dialogue

Ussurij · 2020-02-16T20:46:13+00:00

r/niceguys much?

shaner38 · 2020-02-16T21:26:45+00:00

The difference between flirting and sexual harassment is attractiveness.

nigasorusrex · 2020-02-16T21:10:58+00:00

Stop posting this incel shit.

ASMRisMindControl · 2020-02-16T20:42:43+00:00

Get this shit out outta here

siggee02 · 2020-02-16T21:54:53+00:00

Honestly, it's inappropriate no matter how good looking the man is imo. Things like that just don't belong in a work environment.

J3ST3RR · 2020-02-16T20:55:56+00:00

Silence incel

darkstar1031 · 2020-02-16T20:50:15+00:00

What the fuck is this incel bullshit right here? Fuck off with this bullshit.

Killerzaz202 · 2020-02-17T06:44:53+00:00

This subreddit seems to be slowly turning into r/niceguys

GuyWithTheStalker · 2020-02-16T20:57:13+00:00

The Zyzz way, bruh.

Also, the Shmidt, "New Girl" way... 😐 Actually, yes, realistically, this is more accurate more often than not.

It's weird.

OofieElfie · 2020-02-16T21:02:23+00:00

I can't help but laugh at how broken her wrist is in the second picture

TheLongWanderer · 2020-02-16T21:44:43+00:00

Ehhh wouldn't guys do the same if a girl was ugly? Haha

AKFlatfoot · 2020-02-16T19:23:39+00:00

Make yourself desirable to women instead of whining about double standards. We expect the same from women. Improve yourself.

HungryHornyHigh · 2020-02-16T20:52:24+00:00

Lose some weight, get some contacts, become the guy on the top fuck the girl and marry the girl version of the guy in the bottom, that'll show them!

Double Standards

Comments

Wow you can't see past the bullshit double standards? Gtfo.

respect.

Title	Double Standards
Author	SoddingEggiweg
Upvotes	623
Comments	78
Date	February 16, 2020 6:20 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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