Feminist Hypocrisy

MammothAd1266 · 2023-02-02T23:09:37+00:00

That one is a major one for me too.

By telling men that men are full of toxic masculinity because they don't open up and then say it's fragile masculinity when they do.

by telling boys that they are inherently an evil rapist predator
whilst also saying there is a men's mental health crisis.
perhaps there is a men's mental health crisis because the only message they've heard about themselves since birth 'you're toxic and evil'?

sorebum405 · 2023-02-02T23:21:47+00:00

Feminist complaining about benevolent sexism,but also perpetuating benevolent sexism by only focusing on women's issues and victimization,and blaming men for their issues and women's issues.

g1455ofwater · 2023-02-03T00:04:44+00:00

Wow that's a huge list to narrow down. I'd say one of these:

Claiming feminism is a fight for human rights

Attacking incels

Trying to claim women are a bigger victim of suicide when around 3 out of 4 suicides are men.

Ignoring men being oppressed by war.

Ignoring the death gap.

ReniaTycoon · 2023-02-03T00:39:34+00:00

My list is like this...

Feminists that say feminism is about equality and human rights in general 'men's equality is feminism". Yet when men bring up issues about financial abortion if a woman fails to or refuses to take BC when the man was not ready for a kid he still should be held responsible.

Feminists that say men should open up more and share their problems but when men do and it's about issues that face men more than any other demographic they shut him down and say his complaints aren't valid or are caused by the supposed patriarchy and that men alone should deal with it.

So where are these feminists trying to help with men's issues? They seem very female centric and anti male to me.

SouthernSeeker · 2023-02-03T01:09:17+00:00

I think it's something more fundamental than a single issue, but is the entire purported purpose of the movement. They CLAIM to be about "equality", and we all know that's nonsense. But they claim (far more legitimately, at first blush) to be about advancing the cause of, and empowering, women- but then look at what they TELL them:

Nothing is your fault. Nothing is your responsibility. You are a woman, and therefore you are a powerless victim. You have NO ability to change the world or improve your situation in any way. Any change in your life or the way you experience it comes from outside; either from your oppressors or "the Patriarchy", or from Feminism, if it's a positive change.

How the hell is teaching learned helplessness "empowering"?

Punder_man · 2023-02-03T01:38:28+00:00

For me its the hypocrisy of feminists claiming that violence / rape that men suffer is done primarily by men..
As if that's any fucking excuse to dismiss cases when women rape men or are violent to men...

Or when we bring up the bias within the criminal court system the attitude seems to be "Men should be held accountable for their crimes / actions" but when its a woman on trial suddenly its "Behind all woman criminals is a man making her do it"

Ergo, accountability for men, not for women..

But by far the biggest hypocrisy has to be the fact that women / feminists can get away with / supported for saying #KillALLMen where as if a man / MRA DARED to try pushing #KillALLWomen he would be labeled as a violent, misogynistic, virgin, neckbeard, incel, loser who lives in his mothers basement and be 'canceled' for "Hate speech against women"

Yet the inverse does not apply at all..

There are more hypocrisies / double standards within feminism, its why I constantly say "If it weren't for double standards, feminism and by extension feminists wouldn't have ANY standards"

h00n23 · 2023-02-03T12:45:43+00:00

Affirmative action and quota. Women can do anything men can but they need special favour lmao For example in many countries you get admission based on test (it is like sat) so women should get affirmative action even if they score less than boy's because test are sexist lmao I literally had this argument with feminist. They think that test are sexist

These feminist think that women are smarter because they get better grades but sat are sexist because men perform better

Melkor7410 · 2023-02-03T14:30:39+00:00

That rape requires penetration, and isn't just a matter of lack of consent. So now, men aren't raped, and all rape statistics are automatically skewed towards women. Plus, if a woman gets pregnant from the rape (sorry, non-consensual touching or whatever), she can sue him for child support (which now touches on your point).

Oxoperplexed · 2023-02-03T00:24:48+00:00

Genital mutilation (FGM bad, MGM good)

Final_Philosopher663 · 2023-02-03T04:10:46+00:00

For me the most hypocritical right now is to try to "reach equality" by having equal representation in the labor force on everywhere. It is just dumb, you either force people to do something or you just give them the choice. Equality for them is forcing when it should be about having the choice.

Professional-You2968 · 2023-02-03T11:49:28+00:00

Mot have already answer, I will add the attitude towards body shaming.

Greta's twitter showed their true colors to everyone.

ApprehensiveMail8 · 2023-02-04T04:00:14+00:00

Claiming that misandry doesn't exist, in spite of men being literally attacked and sent to war because of it, while accusing people of being misogynistic for trivial infractions.

pmw1981 · 2024-09-27T00:43:19+00:00

There's so many it's almost hard to count - hell, just check out some of the women-centric subs here.

They call men predators, creeps, perverts, stalkers & all that - then get mad that those same men won't step up to help them out in an emergency.

They think men just want sex 24/7, but when they get rejected, they resort to childish, petty, vindictive personal insults like "you must be gay".

They don't want to be objectified or harassed, so they come up with MeToo or BelieveWomen. Then when a man takes 'no' for an answer & walks away, they get mad that he didn't 'try harder' or 'chase'.

They'll falsely accuse men of SA, DV or r@pe but turn around & act like men don't suffer the same thing or 'men can't be r@ped because they always want it/they're stronger than women.'

They start fights physically with men, then call it 'assault' or 'unfair' when the guy defends himself & hits back.

At this point, feminism has become a running joke - they're like that little jackoff kid you knew growing up who kept changing rules to all your games & competitions when they started losing. They don't want to be equal, they want the illusion of equality so they can keep their double standards & contradictions in play.

Title	Feminist Hypocrisy
Author	Very-Vexed
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Date	February 2, 2023 7:34 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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