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I'd lend more to the discussion saying that a scale exists between femininity and masculinity. Gender is literally directly relate to your genitals; there are only two given as standard equipment.
However, defining people and labeling them by levels of masculinity and femininity is problematic and actually rather toxic. Walking up to a guy with long hair and saying he's feminine could sound a lot like walking up to a white guy eating fried chicken and saying he's a black guy. It's just pointless efforts to document the world and fit everyone into neat little boxes that doesn't need to happen.
Intersectional feminism, in deciding two genders seems to be a cruel way of putting people into convenient little boxes, has made a fuck ton of boxes to fit less people inside each of. They're just splitting hairs.
I'm twenty-four and when I was growing up the big thing was not being a boy, girl, white, Hispanic, eighth-grader, whatever. The social movement was to define yourself as yourself. What's your name, youngster? What do you do? What do you want to do? What do you think about a lot? That was good, hugely positive for everyone.
Now people are just fucking looking for new communes to belong to. They're trading individuality for a place that was secured outside of normalcy for the sake of being outside of it and enjoying some of that oppression Olympics shit. Or maybe they're just so boring themselves that saying they're a pangenderfluid quadsexual uniromantic buttsponge is their best bet at not being a dull person instead of...you know...doing something with their lives instead of deciding which fan fiction about real-life biology is their favorite. I'm sure they'll get over it when they realize they need to be adults and stop worrying about being unique and just be themselves, as unique as it is to be the one and only you that will ever be abled to live your life.
But you sound intelligent and well-intentioned. Don't fall into that bullshit, it's not important what box you might fit in. Don't crawl into boxes just because they're inviting and everyone in there is like you, trying to be like you, or is vaguely resembling people like you just to fit in somewhere. You don't need to fit in, you need to make room for yourself. Don't identify with people as a goal or definition, you get one identity so why share it?
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