Girlfriend feedback

ibm2431 · 2014-01-05T13:58:29+00:00

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4bitpleasure · 2014-01-05T13:23:52+00:00

I have a new girlfriend that I've been seeing for the last few weeks.

We've been friends on the internet for many years and have met each other at different conferences. We have finally only got together. She is amazing and I am overwhelmed when I am with her.

We had sex for the first time two weeks ago. I didn't use a condom. She had to leave soon afterwards because she had to go to work. It was the most incredible experience of my life.

Today she was very strange on the phone after about 3pm. After I enquired further she started getting very blunt and said she hasn't ever done anything like what she did with me before. She told me today that she was also seeing someone else that I knew.

MensRights should I shutdown all of my emotions and pursue her or just forget her? I am finding it hard to think logically right now and I need some help.

2014-01-05T13:49:16+00:00

You have to be very careful. A lot of women when in a quandary after having done something wrong will immerse themselves in the belief that it's actually them who were wronged. From being little girls someone put that candy on them to adult women someone forced that other cock in them. You could very well end up being that guy. That other guy who raped. If not. If she finds out she likes you more then perhaps it's him who raped. She never cheated or omitted something, this was done unto her.

You're in a very tough situation and it's not very clear what you should do. You basically have to hope she's just a little loose and nothing more. I'd just try to not provoke anything out of her that could lead her to feel you think she's done something wrong. If not for your sake then for the other guy's sake, because that's going to be her cue to start telling potentially harmful lies to feel better about herself.

Leave her completely out of it. Don't make her start telling any lies to protect herself, be outwardly happy with her. Go to the other guy and level with him before she can make up stories to any of you and make you believe the other one raped or deliberately took advantage of her.

Take it from me. I've been in this same exact situation on more than one occasion. The time it went to hell the other guy made her feel bad about cheating with me and I became the bad guy who had tricked and abused her. The times it went well I talked to the other guy and we kept fucking her, knowing she wasn't good for anything else as far as relationships go, and knew she could tell lies about us and we just had a laugh at it and enjoyed a couple of good fucks.

Title	Girlfriend feedback
Author	4bitpleasure
Upvotes	0
Comments	11
Date	January 5, 2014 1:12 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/1ughow/girlfriend_feedback/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/girlfriend-feedback.1005197 https://theredarchive.com/post/1005197

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