I promise this is not intended to be rage bait, nor is this meant for me to bloviate about my views or struggles. I have seen that some of these apps and whisper groups are being taken down, and that they are having to use backup groups as a last resort. It is nice to see progress, even if it is small..

I understand there are 'apps' and 'groups' devoted to women so they can whisper, yet I have noticed a lot of gen-z and younger using them as gossip channels. Maybe at one point it was about staying safe, but from what I have heard and seen, they are mostly used for misandry. It's like a 'rate my ex boyfriend/ last date' app where mostly innocent men get posted and humiliated. Let's say a guy messed up years ago and started over. Next thing we know their personal information is blasted all over these apps. Same thing happens to guys that are just trying to date. God forbid we go on one date, things do not go picture perfect, or the chick did not get everything she wanted, and goes on to these apps with screen shots and posts nothing but slander. How TF are we supposed to date? Is anyone having success finding someone that does not take their pictures and circulate them to be humiliated until they want to die or actually do? So now they get to take our photos and decide if we are worthy to date or deserving of being ostracized world wide?

These same women turn around and say 'there is a single man epidemic, WTF?!' yet they perpetuate and exacerbate it with their sociopathic behaviors. All it takes is one or two people to talk shit and every girl on the planet will believe it. How is it fair that women get to have these repositories that make redemption (and dating) impossible, yet we do not? This also translates into the work place. I work in the education field (my fault) and it is loaded with women that have nothing but contempt for men. They are teaching and educating them too, sometimes messing with their grades to allow more women to advance. So I apply for full time jobs, get pigeonholed b/c I am not gay or a chick, it is really killing my finances and my livelihood. Yet people are bending over backwards despite the anti-DEI laws, finding creative ways to keep it alive, and spoon feeding white men false hope. These same people complain that we do not try hard enough, work enough, and that we are all 'entitled' or 'toxic masculinity' b/c we want to advance and have full time jobs or get promoted in any industry? And then they go back to complain that we 'give up too easily' when they stack the deck so we have no choice.