The manosphere correctly diagnoses intersexual dynamics of the 21st century. The diagnoses indicate a brutal state of interplay between men and women. One which, taken to its end, could result in societal crises arising from a seriously low fertility rate. Given its dire diagnoses, the manosphere would naturally be expected to provide some solutions to the problems it outlines. At the very least, to discuss them. Unfortunately, it does neither. There is merely a continuation of diagnosing and outrage, which often leads to discussions of how to “get more game”— that is, how a man could navigate such an environment in order to get more sexual partners. That is as far as it goes. There is only a very limited recognition of the serious socially destructive future mentioned above. Some even welcome it in a casual way, claiming that social collapse is necessary for the current intersexual dynamics to change for the better — i.e. “the world needs a reset”.
I would propose that the entirety of the difficulties we experience with intersexual dynamics in the western world (especially North America) stem from one problem and one problem only: an overly permissive and licentious sexual culture. By connection, this stems from the general cultural mores of the West, wherein people are encouraged and constantly taught the idea that they should be allowed to do whatever they like for their own happiness and fulfillment. Basically, rampant individualism. Any impediments to this sacred individualism is a sin and cannot be accepted. Thus, women feel entitled to the divorces they file 80% of the time, and thus red-pilled men feel entitled to fuck around as much as they want and claim that this should be fine even if they are married. Many discuss the idea of the "biological imperative" as a way to validate their views of promiscuity as well. Basically, “I want to do whatever the fuck I want, and I deserve this because I am a free individual, and especially in the realm of fucking this is also what my human biology dictates. So fuck off.” Had North American and Western society not been so individualistic, the problems of intersexual dynamics would not exist as they do now. Self-control, for example, is almost unacceptable to people here, because “fuck you, I’ll do whatever the fuck I want”, or, “I deserve to do what I am doing”. The pain of discomfort and the delay of pleasure are so difficult to people here that they must make up bullshit about how such things are infringements on their human rights. Men and women both do this, in their own idiotic ways. So, the manosphere does not address the problem of licentious sexual culture. Why? I’d say, because members of the community are unwilling to abandon it. They benefit from having many opportunities to fuck. They like promiscuous women. In fact, they probably enjoy navigating (successfully or semi-successfully) the very same maze of intersexual dynamics that they spend their daily lives analyzing, diagnosing, and criticizing. Perfect example of this is FreshandFit, on Youtube. Those guys spend a lot of time criticizing modern women and trying to “help men”, but themselves take part in whoredom — quite proudly. What the hell, then, is the point of criticizing the whores in that case? Probably to get views and make money on Youtube. Basically, they’re liars and hypocrites. I see this all too often in the manosphere and I consider this a major part of its failings. Even Rollo Tomassi, the "godfather", offers almost nothing about solutions. He believes that if he gave us solutions, people would tell him to fuck off. That's ridiculous. Kevin Samuels seems to imply what the solutions are, to a certain extent, by advocating for women to lower their stratospheric standards. In other words, self-control. Elliot Hulse too seems to be a big proponent of self-control as well. And it's nice to see that he is married with children, but he represents single men less than a single man would. This is a step in the right direction, but there needs to be far more men tearing down, not encouraging, promiscuity for both sexes.
TLDR: manosphere does not discuss solutions. Excessive individualism of western society leads to sexual promiscuity. Western obsession with individualism is the greatest impediment to solving the issues that exist in the realm of intersexual dynamics. People care too much about themselves, and not enough about anyone else. Prominent members of manosphere actually enjoy, and thrive due to, promiscuity; many aren't even genuinely trying to solve the problems that they diagnose. A few provide glimpses into how contemporary issues of intersexual dynamics could be solved, but it's not nearly enough.
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