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hypocrite women on dates

traveller1976

October 13, 2022
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Title hypocrite women on dates
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traveller1976

Upvotes 46
Comments 60
Date October 13, 2022 3:05 PM UTC
(3 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/y311sc/hypocrite_women_on_dates/
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Comments

[–]Ok-Translator2294 45 points46 points47 points 3 years ago* (25 children) | Copy Link

She went for free food, didn't get it, so she decided she'll not go again. Good riddance. The number of women who date for free food and booze is too damn high. They should be glad that men aren't asking for refunds in case things didn't go any futher.

[–]traveller1976[S] 28 points29 points30 points 3 years ago (23 children) | Copy Link

Some men do ask for refunds then get named and shamed. Bitches should be pre screened for their intentions.

[–]OTR_7 22 points23 points24 points 3 years ago* (22 children) | Copy Link

Rule 101. Never do dinner on the first date. Do coffee instead to suss out personality & compatibility. If the vibe is off or there is no chemistry, then you’ve only lost 10 bucks max.

[–]sharksville 12 points13 points14 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Tbh even if it’s a coffee date you still pay your own bill on the first date

[–]OTR_7 10 points11 points12 points 3 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link

I’m ok with parting ways with 10 bucks. What l’m not ok with is losing $150 - $200 bucks to some entitled & ungrateful female. I dnt run a charity dinner, l’m not the Salvation Army!

[–]sharksville 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

It usually starts off with 10 bucks. Next time she’s just going to up the ante. Now it’s 20 bucks. It all starts with something small

[+]donhuff23 -13 points-12 points-11 points 3 years ago (17 children) | Copy Link

If you are finalizing your prenup on your first date, you are missing the point.

[–]OTR_7 15 points16 points17 points 3 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link

Is that what you got from the commentary above? Wow, you simps are really a fucking problem.

[–]blootbleet991 points 3 years ago* [recovered] (13 children) | Copy Link

Lolllll “simps”

Tell me what the term is for someone who spends 200 dollars on an experience and a meal who then compares themselves to “the Salvation Army”? Don’t fuck with chicks that you don’t want to….do whatever you want an move on. Just don’t get mad when women also have preferences for what they want. I make over six figures and I have been since I’m 22 years old. I’m not fucking with a guy who thinks a 200 dollar night out is some infuriating charity event, nvm the guy above talking about a 20 dollar coffee lmaoooo I’ll throw down cash and walk out. The reason is life comes at you fucking fast….if the guy I’m interested in has some crazy fuckin problem paying for something we do together before any discussion even takes place that’s all good I’m gone because life is about way more than dinners if the relationship progresses.

[–]OTR_7 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link

Do what you want with your money. I will do as I please with mine!

[–]blootbleet991 points 3 years ago [recovered] (11 children) | Copy Link

Yasss do you king!

[–]OTR_71 points 3 years ago [recovered] (10 children) | Copy Link

Yeah and ease up on the pocket watching! That's a female trait.

[–]blootbleet991 points 3 years ago [recovered] (9 children) | Copy Link

Bahahah what guy?

Nobody over here is “pocket watching” mr Salvation Army

I’m good

Keep being mad at females though for the traits you think that they have lmao

[–]OTR_71 point 3 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

You are, because you tryna step in here and comment how I spend my money. It's mine son. Go get yours and spend it how you like.

[–]ExpensiveBumblebee83 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

You are crazy to think women don’t do this kind of bs.

Because all they do is see if a man is well off if he can do manual labor even if he is capable or not capable of doing it.

And right away on the other side of that you will see her sending a text to her friend omg girlfriend he is a keeper he is so attentive to my needs don’t get me wrong most of us can be that way. But to make a distinction and put in man on a chopping block because he wants to get married and have a prenup ready because he does not want to or wish to lose all he has made over a certain number of years.

Because let’s face it and get it out in the open most women need and want Financial security without working for it, and without doing anything for it when I say anything they wish for a black check.

But most of us men look to see or find out which ones are the crazy’s ones before hand because you just need to know 😂.

[–]donhuff23 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Oh God. I was hoping for once I wouldn’t need to explain irony or wat a joke is,

[–]ExpensiveBumblebee83 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Make the woman a picnic basket and take her to the park problem solved really.

[–]Riptionator 18 points19 points20 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

So she says it's ok then gets mad when he accepts her agreement? Basically women not standing up for themselves and then taking zero responsibility for their own actions. "zero responsibility" should be the slogan of modern feminism.

[–]traveller1976[S] 12 points13 points14 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The perfect counter of zero responsibility for women is zero commitment for men.

[–]B1uefalc0n 14 points15 points16 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

The problem here is that women want men to continue being traditional (provider, protector) without being traditional themselves ( virgin, houswife) men are ok that women arent traditional anymore noone expects a girl to be a virgin or be the perfect houswife but women do still expect the man to be a provider that pays for everything and protect them. The actual fact is that most men are traditional wanting to be modern and are accepting of modern women but women are modern and not accepting of modern men and are expecting them to be traditional.

[–]traveller1976[S] 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yep pretty much. Summary, feminism turned women into a bunch of hypocrite bitches

[–]WingsofSky 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes. They want their cake and want to eat it too.

[–]sharksville 10 points11 points12 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Tell me you’re a gold digger without telling me you’re a gold digger. Can someone tell this woman that I’d she doesn’t want to spend money then I know a good place for her. It’s called prison. She get a roof over her head and 3 meals a day, never has to worry about work and everything is free. Maybe or maybe not she gets a roommate, I’m not so sure in that part though.

[–]mikesteane 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Yes, but the system is biased in favour of men who can get into prison much more easily than women. Do you have any idea how hard the patriarchy makes it for women to get into prison?

[–]sharksville 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes. She can volunteer to go in if she’s keen for free stuff no one’s stopping her and there’s no dilemma here really. No one should really stop her in that case.

On a different note you do make a good point though about how easy it is for men than women to face the consequences. That can be a topic for another day maybe I don’t mind

[–]WingsofSky 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Not sure if I'd say it was "patriarchy" or just society in general that doesn't like sending women to prison. Even for the most horrendous crimes.

[–]mikesteane 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

The patriarchy doesn't exist.

[–]WingsofSky 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The matriarchy is strong. Not sure if much of man kind is left.

[–]OriginalHuckleberry3 10 points11 points12 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I don't pay for dates. Not going to happen.

[–]Aimless-Nomad 9 points10 points11 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Looks like the trash is taking itself out.

[–]ZulutheZebra 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Now if only the trash didn’t complain all the way to the dumpster we’d be golden.

[–]dw87190 14 points15 points16 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I never pay for a woman on the first date because too many women are entitled fakes who just try to use me for my money

[–]NetNeutralitee1 points 3 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link

This checks out. I get the feeling it’s not your personality they are after.

[–]dw87190 8 points9 points10 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Plenty are keen to get sex and a free meal from me, but I'm too old and busy for that casual stuff, and I don't tolerate lies and games. If she doesn't genuinely want the same thing I'm looking for, I'm going to leave. Simple. I'm honest about what I want, the least a woman can do is the same thing. But of course, a white knight like you won't be happy because I'm not submissive and desperate like you

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You seriously come here all the time please stop harassing random men on the internet

[–]traveller1976[S] 18 points19 points20 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

They're OK for free meals but they hate equality when it comes to paying. Bitches like this need to be boycotted. I even question the value of traditional dates

[–]disayle32 21 points22 points23 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Women: REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE MEN ARE NOT ENTITLED TO ANYTHING FROM US

Men: Okay. And you're not entitled to anything from us either.

Women: REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

[–]traveller1976[S] 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Lol

[–]WingsofSky 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Damn Karens!

[–]WingsofSky 10 points11 points12 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

She has a vacant look.

[–]delocalelectron 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yep. But it's not Pretty Vacant.

[–]traveller1976[S] 8 points9 points10 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Explains her ego

[–]randomguy7277 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

An her soul

[–]WingsofSky -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Could be a dyed ginger.

[–]sgt_oddball_17 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The Thousand Cock Stare is a dead giveaway . . .

[–]NutsLikeMelons 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Torn on this one. But ultimately the problem, as always, comes with the use of social media afterwards. I cannot stand TikTok.

[–]traveller1976[S] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Yeah but there's a lot of honesty on tik tok

[–]NutsLikeMelons 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I have no problem with women who want dates paid for. I don’t even have a problem with women who want their husbands to pay for everything - forever. What I have an issue with is women who want that but do not want to give the men what he wants in exchange. Be traditional or be modern. You can’t be both.

[–]Jesus_marley 7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

All first dates should be separate checks. The purpose is to get to know the person you're out with and see if you're compatible. If they're worth a second date, then the person who asks, pays.

[–]traveller1976[S] 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

95 percent of women will shit on this prescription. They are the table, in their not so humble opinion

[–]Clemicus 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

TikTok? You will never find a more wretched hive of scum and villainy

[–]denyjunctionfunction 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Ticketmaster and cable companies: hold my beer

[–]delocalelectron 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Always 'forget' your wallet on a first date. Say you'll settle up next time. This helps you pan for gold, and allows the gold-diggers to fall through the sieve.

[–]traveller1976[S] 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Problem with that is the bitch will get on social media and publicly shame you, maybe even name you. Better to weed out up front. Plenty of bitches are desperate now

[–]mikesteane 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

How to date: Never invite a woman, just say "I shall be at...on....If you want to come along you're welcome."

[–]traveller1976[S] 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah but bitches think they are the table and will expect you to default pay cos she bothered to show up with tits and ass. You have to set expectations up front.

[–]Ok-Obligation5243 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Well she lied saying it's okay and then wonders why he's a little confused when she acts on a lie. Sigh. I paid for my first date with my now fiancée. Because I wanted to. I asked her out to a meal. I paid. Different strokes for different folks. Just don't lie about it and post it on social media. Something about cake and eating it. And I swear these sort of people tee themselves up for these scenarios for social media clout. I hope she's lonely.

[–]actualsize123 -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

That was a pretty stupid article but anywho if a woman refuses to split the check or does and ghost you then that’s a pretty easy red flag right off the first date.

[–]traveller1976[S] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

It's a very important article to warn men there are crazy women out there who are waiting for something to go bad on a date and then publish it on tik tok. Prevention is way better than cure. Pre screening and avoiding mentally unstable bitches like this is absolutely essential.

[–]actualsize123 -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Very poorly written, seems like the transcript from a second tiktok.

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