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The thing is, most men won't report it because, unless they're already in a relationship a man's reaction to waking up to something like that is "well there are definitely worse things to wake up to." Men are taught to have a level head about sexual acts and have a reasonable and healthy reaction to violations of their sexual boundaries. Minor violations, such as waking up to a woman sucking your dick if you're a single man, will warrant a much less serious response than somebody physically forcing them into sex. If they're a single man they'll react to it in a healthy manner and understand that the woman doesn't really deserve to be kicked out of school for playing with his dick in his sleep. However due to feminist advocacy, women are taught that their reactions should be black or white. If a man violates a woman's sexual boundaries even a little bit then they're taught to react like he's the worst rapist who ever lived.
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I think you might misunderstand my point a bit. My point was that, yes being bothered by it would also be a healthy reaction, but treating them like they're a monster akin to someone who rapes someone at knifepoint is not. A healthy reaction would be a reaction proportional to the offense committed. The "there are worse things to wake up to." is really the most positive reaction of the spectrum of healthy reactions while a guy saying "what the hell do you think you're doing what is wrong with you?" would also be healthy. An unhealthy reaction to such an event would be to paint the woman as a violent amoral monster who deserves to have their life destroyed, and that is what feminists are teaching women. Had sex while drunk? He's a monster. Had awkward sex where you just felt slightly pressured? he's a monster. He came on a little too hard? he's a monster. my point is that feminism tries to remove the spectrum in regard to reactions of violations of sexual boundaries.
of course but my point is that feminists are teaching women that if they are okay with that, then they're wrong. Feminists are telling people that if their reaction to such event should never be anything but sheer mortal terror.
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