I have been thinking about how some feminists have a desire to make every single 'female trait' good and anything 'male' bad. It strikes me that defining the sexes like this is fallacious since the majority of males and females will ultimately share the same traits with outliers representing the extremes. And given less women are outliers, that means most women share or have 'male traits'.

I have seen graphics with a straight line and little dots representing data points in relation to the median. Would something like this be possible showing the view point of some feminists in contrast to gender neutral descriptions of human behavior mapped along the median?

I don't think having a 'U" shaped data distribution is even possible, but this is what we are to accept.