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It is stuff like this that gets me down /r/mensrights... When will it become OK for MEN to be the victims?

Notusingthisaccount

December 16, 2010
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Title It is stuff like this that gets me down /r/mensrights... When will it become OK for MEN to be the victims?
Author

Notusingthisaccount

Upvotes 10
Comments 18
Date December 16, 2010 6:43 AM UTC
(15 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/emow9/it_is_stuff_like_this_that_gets_me_down/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/it-is-stuff-like-this-that-gets-me-down.1045175
https://theredarchive.com/post/1045175

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[–]rantgrrl 2 points3 points4 points 15 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

What's really sad is that not many posters on /r/mensrights seem to care either.

[–]disposable_human 0 points1 point2 points 15 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I hadn't even seen the link until it was up for a whole day. Maybe they're just not seeing it for some reason

[–]Fatalistic 2 points3 points4 points 15 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It really isn't that uncommon. I've heard many stories of women who hold higher positions using that power to blackmail guys into sex, and if the guy reports it almost every time he's either not going to be believed or just given some empty "man up" platitude.

[–]Quazz 1 point2 points3 points 15 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link

Wow... Poor guy :(

Funny how if roles were reversed, people would not only believe her but make a gigantic deal out of it :S

And then they wonder why male mortality rates are higher...

[–]disposable_human 0 points1 point2 points 15 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

suicide rates

ftfy

[–]Quazz 0 points1 point2 points 15 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Actually, I believe more women try to kill themselfs but men are simply more successful at attempting so :P

Just saying that men got to live with the stress and shame which isn't exactly good for mental state and the condition of your body, thus you'll die faster.

[–]disposable_human 0 points1 point2 points 15 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Huh. Food for thought: Does the perception of women 'crying out for help' instead of just wanting to kill themselves have any traction as an issue for feminists?

[–]ShakeyBobWillis 0 points1 point2 points 15 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

If the roles were reversed I'd also question the woman's claim that she had all these text messages, including an outright threat of making up a theft story if she didn't fuck the boss but 'nobody would believe her' even though these texts supposedly exist.

[–]Quazz 0 points1 point2 points 15 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

Yes, you

[–]ShakeyBobWillis 0 points1 point2 points 15 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

Well you did sort of just believe him but made a gigantic deal about it by attempting to link it to male mortality rates. I'm just sayin, there's no reason to knee jerk believe this guy either. Especially if texts as outrageous as he claims are on his phone.

[–]Quazz 0 points1 point2 points 15 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Rofl, can't believe you thought I was serious about the mortality part...

And... why would he lie about this?

[–]ShakeyBobWillis 0 points1 point2 points 15 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Oh I'm not suggesting he's lying so much as I'm suggesting the whole story is fake. I mean really...she texted him that if he didn't come over and get her she'd lie to the higher ups and tell them he was stealing, yet even with this information no one would believe him?

[–]Quazz 0 points1 point2 points 15 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

I went above her head to the owners about her competency, too ashamed to admit everything else, but they didn't seem to care because I was fixing the mistakes anyway.

That's what happened.

And then this:

A colleague actually "got" what was going on and approached the owners on my behalf without informing me - and the owner said it was the silliest thing she had ever heard.

He was never able to present such evidence, even though he should've.

[–]ShakeyBobWillis 0 points1 point2 points 15 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

He was never able to present such evidence, even though he should've.

Exactly..and why didn't he? I mean, according to him it was right out there in the texts...a blatant threat of lying about theft. Like 'Oh I had proof all along but I never did anything with it'. Sorry, not buying it at face value.

[–]Quazz 0 points1 point2 points 15 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Did you bother asking him?

[–]ShakeyBobWillis 0 points1 point2 points 15 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Yep

[–]Quazz1 point 15 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

What did he reply when you asked him he didn't present any evidence :?

[–]deltusverilan 1 point2 points3 points 15 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

When will it become OK for MEN to be the victims?

Right now. Men (especially straight white men) are the only unprotected class remaining.

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