i don't want to start a shit storm. i really want to have an adult discussion about rape. i am really tired of gender blaming, and as someone with many close male friends and relatives, i am thoroughly ashamed of the portrayal of men as potential predators, and the portrayal of women as victims. this is pretty flipping sad.

that being said, here is a post on r/twoxchromosomes that really just chapped my ass. i enjoy twox most of the time; i think it's a good community and a nice safe place on the internet to discuss women's topics, but this shit is really starting to get out of fucking control.

sorry for my language. i don't even know if this is the right place to post this, but it'd be really awesome if there could be some serious discussion about this over in twox. that's all.