Prime male objectification

SpecialPea · 2020-09-07T15:13:31+00:00

The first and second rule of dating: be attractive and dont be unattractive

iSaidItOnReddit85 · 2020-09-07T15:57:05+00:00

“I’m going to put it inside me tonight” lol wtf

corpsejockey · 2020-09-07T15:16:21+00:00

Some of these points are valid. But living with parents is a ding off a guy's attractiveness, no matter how hot he is. Sure, a total Chad can probably live at home and still get laid. But no woman is viewing that as a positive. Same with not being able to drive. It's a point subtracted from SMV regardless, not something spun into a positive. The difference is that losing a few points off SMV when somebody is already super hot doesn't make a noticeable difference.

I can see being shy and liking comics spun into positives with a more attractive male. But anything that signifies a lack of economic stability or a lack or independence is never going to be spun into a positive. At best, it would be ignored.

killerwolfs2000 · 2020-09-07T19:36:43+00:00

Can mods remove this. I don’t want the mra movement to be diluted by shitty incel memes

goldenjuniper · 2020-09-07T16:09:54+00:00

This is some retarded incel black pill bullshit and why people make fun of this sub.

paul_a_8002 · 2020-09-07T17:07:30+00:00

What's preventing the guy on the left from seeing a dermatologist, getting a decent haircut and getting his eyebrows done?

Hairosmith · 2020-09-07T15:38:29+00:00

This is unfortunately true. It happens on both sides, and it’s disgusting. What a shallow society we’ve turned in to.

kanray86 · 2020-09-07T20:48:20+00:00

while i understand the point this is making, some of this is weird incel content

"i'm gonna put it inside of me tonight"

yea no

corpsejockey · 2020-09-07T16:29:21+00:00

yeah it’s pretty privilege. and it’s the same way for both sexes

aint_dead_yeet · 2020-09-07T21:48:28+00:00

please stop upvoting this incel shit

AlterAlias1 · 2020-09-07T18:10:47+00:00

I’ve already said, whether or not you are considered creepy by a girl depends on whether or not you are attractive.

If you are attractive, she will think it’s cute, if you’re “ugly” you will be creepy

HumanGuyPerson69420 · 2020-09-07T18:45:15+00:00

Come on lads. Grow up. This ain’t true

are_motherfucker · 2020-09-07T18:58:39+00:00

I know no one wants to hear it, but I'm gonna say it. While it's true that society tends to give more leniance to attractive people, explaining it as purely women caring only about looks is at the least misleading, not to mention almost instultingy trivializing and dare I say, sexist. op might as well be saying: "all women are shallow bitches that care only about looks!" which is the type of shit you hear on subreddits like r/niceguys, r/incels, r/neckbeards etc., none of which are subreddits we wanna be associated with. Not to be rude about it, but it's painfully obvious that the original poster has never talked to a girl in the last ten years, much less gotten laid by one.

ShmandyShmeckman · 2020-09-07T20:51:18+00:00

Op youre the guy on the left, aren't you?

doctorpatience86 · 2020-09-07T21:25:17+00:00

Wtf is number 3 haha

SpareArm · 2020-09-07T16:21:08+00:00

Lmao @ #3

Samsamsamadam · 2020-09-07T17:05:54+00:00

All motivation is based of feelings

StealthyMexican · 2020-09-07T19:50:14+00:00

Yo, wtf happened to Eric Foreman?

TopcodeOriginal1 · 2020-09-07T20:49:36+00:00

But he’s in a car, if he can’t drive...

“Tee heee he’s such a bad boy”

Ultimate-garbage · 2020-09-07T21:04:38+00:00

I need the sauce for... research purposes

lowkeymokeymokey · 2020-09-07T21:21:27+00:00

This isn’t what this sub is for... c’mon...

isthisthelasttime34 · 2020-09-07T21:30:07+00:00

I don't care about men being objectified. It's the double standard that gets to me. All those things about men are perfectly fine to say. Make a similar list about women and it's suddenly oppressive and abusive toxic masculinity.

2020-09-07T21:45:34+00:00

Idk if this is true, but we should all still strive for peak physical performance.

Beltox2pointO · 2020-09-07T22:37:47+00:00

This is peak cringe + nice guy material.

Pathetic.

throwlaja · 2020-09-08T04:11:55+00:00

Women have it way, way worse. The guy at the left, with a little effort, can improve dramatically his looks, and earn money and become even more attractive to women that the model. And he can do it in his 60s if he wants.

Women are even more objectified by their beauty and they have much less control over it, and its over by the time they are 30.

Also, don't be fooled. Girls droll over the model, but fuck the dirty bearded biker.

RabidusRex · 2020-09-07T18:40:03+00:00

this sums it up really well.

I recently heard a (female) comedian talk about this. you've probably heard.

she doesn't beat around the bush (haha)

straight up says that it's only sexual harrasment if the guy is unattractive. otherwise it's quite welcome.

it was pretty funny, honestly.... because it's true.

i love how comedy can slide in a lot of inconvenient social truths, ha ha ha

theclassybutler · 2020-09-07T15:15:47+00:00

I'm sorry, but this is extremely true. Objectification of all kinds is absolutely wrong. As a former man, I can certainly say that the dude on the left doesn't deserve all the judgements made against him, while at the same time... This does reek of incel in a way. You can still be the dude on the left and still get girls. It's not hard; just have a personality and a hobby you're really passionate about, and boom! You're in Chick Heaven! I know, as a trans woman, that the dude on the left is still cute af, and would ride that shit and sit on his face. Big dick, muscles and twink face aren't everything. Sometimes, all you need is a great personality and a passion you're willing to share.

Lincoln_31313131 · 2020-09-07T17:54:43+00:00

lol I know it may seem this way but this isnt true. You'd be surprised how little looks matter in dating tbh

throwlaja · 2020-09-07T18:12:48+00:00

This is wrong, though. The guy at the left is a 3, the guy at the right is a 10.

But the decision between fuck/no fuck is not at the middle, it's at 9. We all are the guy at the left.

Title	Prime male objectification
Author	surgeprotector89
Upvotes	339
Comments	122
Date	September 7, 2020 2:47 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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