Single men

TheRandomGuyX · 2025-02-08T13:57:48+00:00

Sorry, bud but governments will just give more aid to single mothers. They do not need full families anymore, just dumb women to get pregnant from chad to raise a new taxpayer.

Only thing you can do is to avoid paying taxes, vote against any "social" help and do not feel any empathy for single mothers.

TwerpOco · 2025-02-08T18:57:48+00:00

I don't even think I'm that awkward and it's still extremely frustrating that it's always on the man to make not only the first move but all the moves. Scratch that - it's exhausting.

You risk rejection, being labeled creepy, and honestly even if you 'succeed' you can still feel rejected because they don't give you any effort in return. At some point the advice to 'better yourself to be more attractive'/'try harder' falls on deaf ears because, yeah, while it gives you better odds, the game still sucks to play.

And online dating is toxic af.

BrilliantWriting3725 · 2025-02-08T20:23:22+00:00

I hate condemning people who have issues with intimacy and dating, so it always surprises me when single men are targeted and singled out on social media. For example, there are subreddits that specifically target men who struggle with love and sex, but they would never allow the creation of subs to shame women. Love struggles are universal to all, but the gynocentric framework and systemic misandry make it all but impossible for men to talk about their dating issues without significant pushback.

OrganizationThen8345 · 2025-02-08T20:47:15+00:00

"I am a bit bitter that I am still in my position at this age and know I can't change it myself."

Harsh truth time. Do you really think a woman is going to be attracted to that attitude? The reality is that you are 100% able to change it yourself.

I'm not the best looking guy in the world but I work with what I have. I go to the gym regularly, I eat well, I work hard and I've made a conscious effort to be confident around people. That is harder for some people than others, I understand. But do what you can.

Exercise often, dress well, keep yourself well groomed. Take pride in yourself. Love yourself. Do that and people will notice you. Confidence is a hell of a drug. You don't even need to say anything.

If you lack confidence, try this. Every single time you leave the house. When you walk down the street, look straight ahead, DON'T LOOK AT THE FLOOR. Keep your shoulders back, chest out. Walk with confidence even if you don't feel confident.

Do that 100 times and when you feel confident enough try and make eye contact with people as you pass them and smile.

The progression from that is then start saying hello and complimenting them. Not just with women you like the look of, do it to everyone. You'll see how much people appreciate it. Some people will engage with you/return the compliment. Some might even strike up a conversation. Just start building your social skills up step by step and I promise you that people will warm up to you and you'll find it much easier to make friends and meet women.

Title	Single men
Author	Apprehensive-Alps279
Upvotes	26
Comments	10
Date	February 8, 2025 12:39 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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