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Solving DV is simple "men just need to stop doing it"

iainmf

January 1, 2016
48 upvotes
/r/MensRights
http://www.stuff.co.nz/nelson-mail/news/74694551/The-solutions-We-can-make-it-better-Behind-Closed-Doors
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Title Solving DV is simple "men just need to stop doing it"
Author

iainmf

Upvotes 48
Comments 20
Date January 1, 2016 8:34 AM UTC
(10 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/3z03f6/solving_dv_is_simple_men_just_need_to_stop_doing/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/solving-dv-is-simple-men-just-need-to-stop-doing.964145
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Comments

[–]ay_ch 13 points14 points15 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

How can I stop doing something that I never did?

Should I also stop using magic to teleport back to ancient Rome?

[–]123xyz123xyz 2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Shit... better add that one to the ban list.

[–]youhatetruth 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Magic is patriarchal oppression, SHITLORD! /s

[–]outhouse_steakhouse 8 points9 points10 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

"Solving mugging is simple. Blacks just need to stop doing it."

/s

[–]Alkomb 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Feminist: "But, that one's discrimination, though.".

[–]Hypersapien 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"Solving child murder is simple. Women just need to stop doing it."

[–]iainmf[S] 8 points9 points10 points 10 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

For Nelson Women's Refuge manager Katie O'Donnell, the solution to New Zealand's domestic violence problem is more straightforward.

"People say it's a really complex issue. Well, it is a complex issue but also it isn't - guys just have to stop doing it. I think that's the solution, is somehow creating a culture where men don't hit women, or abuse women, or feel like they have to have that sort of control in the family."

[–]digitalcriminal 10 points11 points12 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Of course her perspective is like that. She works at a women's refuge...

Bias and all...

[–]Hypersapien 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Erin Pizzey ran one. She was able to see through the bullshit.

[–]MisanthropeNotAutist 2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Shit like this...because no man has ever been cuckolded in a serious, non-sexual way before.

Sure, micro-aggressions are bad for women, but men just need to "man up" when they're taking abuse?

[–]baskandpurr 5 points6 points7 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

To be fair the one person who genders the problem in all of this is Katie O'Donnell. I guess she's a feminist which means you expect her to excuse the violence of one gender to blame the other. The rest of the people in the video show no gender bias and neither does the article itself.

[–]iainmf[S] 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Good point, it turns out Phillip Chapman (in the video) runs a men's centre, which is awesome.

It makes me think his comments about having difficult conversations means he has had trouble with Katie O'Donnell.

[–]redditorriot 3 points4 points5 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Idiot.

Compare this to the experiences and wisdom of Erin Pizzey, it's fucking frightening.

[–]TracyMorganFreeman 2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's childishly naive that these people think people who actually do these things care about what other people think or think it's not actually wrong.

I struggle to imagine another reason their policy prescriptions are centered around it. They seem to really think men and/or society thinks it's okay and that's the only reason it happens.

[–]Stephen_Morgan 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Stop hitting yourself! Stop hitting yourself!

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The erasure of male victims continues.

[–]Alkomb 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I swear, feminists really do not believe that men can be victims, or anything like that. Sad.

[–]youhatetruth 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"Solving gold digging is simple, women just need to stop doing it."

Perfectly reasonable right, cuntbag? Zero self awareness. And then, without a SHRED of irony, women whine, "BEWHEW! Where have all the GOOD men gone!?"

[–]eaton80 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I have a better solution. Stop marrying women, and stop moving in with them.

[–]192873982 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

By the same logic:

Hey, let's not have judges from now on, because it's much more efficient to just teach all people to not commit crimes anymore.

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