One of the other subs that deals with legal matters and occasionally offers advice has dealt with Temporary Restraining Orders (TRO's) about a half dozen times. A TRO can basically be used to keep you out of your house, away from your kids, out of school...basically away from wherever the person who takes it out wants to be. If you live in the same place (even if its yours or you solely pay the rent), if you share classes, cars...etc.... then while the order is in effect you are out and they are in. They can be filed without your knowledge.

What was the most shocking to me was that TRO's can be applied for as many times as you want, even if they keep getting dismissed and theres not a damn thing anyone can do about it.

relevant case law: is Bidna vs Rosen If you read the case the crazy filed SIX meritless TRO's and the judge just shrugged and basically said, "I know youre crazy as a shithouse rat but its safer this way than to award damages to plaintiff."

(Im not a lawyer so maybe this is particularly to California)

Right now theres a thread about a foreign exchange student that was falsely named in a TRO. After spending a ton of money he managed to clear his name but not after sis university notified his scholarships initiating a review. He has no legal recourse to get that money or time back and only came out as well he did because 1: he could afford a lawyer and 2: the girl voluntarily agreed she was mistaken in naming him and cleared him.

Be careful out there Gentlemen.