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The hating on boys

Fffgfggfffffff · 2024-12-19T13:53:24+00:00

Does it seems like there are more boy's hater early on from grade 2-grade 9? Rarely heard boy's hate on girls . It always seems like boys are open to...

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December 19, 2024

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Title	The hating on boys
Author	Fffgfggfffffff
Upvotes	155
Comments	37
Date	December 19, 2024 1:53 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/1hhtd1d/the_hating_on_boys/
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I understand that, i also think the focus should be on education, don't get me wrong. But getting along with the world around you, interpersonal relationships and whatnot are what is cultivated at school, else everyone would be home schooled. My point is mostly that learning to understand and get along with the other gender is also a vital part of education because they make up a whole 50%!

Misandrist family courts are a thing, but awareness is slowly being shone on that subject! Single gender schools would only lead to more issues between men and women. If everyone sent their child to a single gender school until the system is "fixed" for boys there would be an even worse disconnect between the genders. Female teachers would be even worse towards boys.

I can't speak completely for people from these schools since i only went to primary but when i started secondary i found myself severely lacking over my peers when it came to interacting with women. I was awkward around them and by that time i was using the internet and found "red pill" forums which had their hooks in me from like 16-19. It took alot of work on myself to realize that women aren't the enemy and they don't all have it "easy", everyone has their problems and we are all just pitted against each other by both left wing progressives and right wing conservatives.

I have read up a bit on the subject and i agree that single sex schools do have their benefits, especially for younger kids because men and women mature at different rates, it can help some boys or girls take on leadership roles they otherwise wouldn't but i have found nothing that indicates it brings academic advantages once factors like socioeconomic status are controlled.

>Society and women are the primary red-pillers of men.

Left wing progressivism, misandrist woman and online "alpha males" are the primary red-pillers of men. If it were the whole of society and women then every man would be "red-pilled". red pill men simply have low self esteem and gravitate towards that movement because unfortunately present society doesn't put as much emphasis on men's mental well being, but neither does the red pill movement. If you aren't a "masculine" man in traditional terms you are made fun of and rejected by this movement, it's characterized by "men being strong" perpetuating the idea that men should be stoic and not show emotion. Some women are also complicit in perpetuating this stereotype and it's what many women are also fighting against (they blame it on the patriarchy, but i despise that concept since they are pushing the blame away from themselves and onto men but at least they recognize it happens to them). There's a reason you don't see any effeminate or gay red pilled men. The red pill movement has been a massive step back in men's rights and only pushes men into a box and isolates them from others.

[–]Shadowclaw87 2 points3 points4 points 1 year ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

It doesn't radicalize them, that's BS. There were plenty of girls and boys schools back in the day and they had a much better education back then. Schools today are completely messed up. You say you feel that way about segregated schools... that's not even an argument. That's a feeling. That's not a rational opinion. Where's your data, statistics, facts, experiences? Have you talked to people who have been in segregated schools? I have, and they turned out really well.

Coed schools don't work. Boys and girls need to learn in different ways and have different needs in school. They need different atmospheres, different teaching methods, boys often need to exercise more before they can focus, boys typically learn through more tactile means while girls are typically better memorizing,

It's also a distraction. I think it's fine when they're little, but starting in middle school their hormones start pumping and they start noticing the opposite sex and desire sexual attention, and they can't think straight around the other sex, they get preoccupied and distracted. I just think it's a bad idea and girls schools and boys schools are a good way to solve that.

I do however believe that it's important for them to be encouraged to socialize in healthy ways and learn to work together, and one way they can do that is different schools participating together in events like debates, athletic an academic competitions, charities, science fairs, group projects, theater, and so on. There's also after school activities. There's no reason why they need to be completely segregated. But they do need to learn in different ways and it's too distracting in a learning environment. I wish my parents had put me into a boy's school at that age. I was constantly distracted!

The problem is that schools have been completely feminized, and any kind of masculine behavior is seen as problematic and often punished. They'll even tell you that your boy has ADHD, just for acting like a normal boy his age, like having a lot of extra energy that isn't been given the chance to be exercised out of him and not being able to sit still and focus like a girl can.

Boys literally get punished for being boys because of all the misandery that everyone in academic institutions are taught from feminists who are educating teachers. Higher education these days is just woke feminist indoctrination camps. And look at the result. All the tactile learning classes are gone like workshop, metal shop, and automotive, there's almost no recess anymore, physical education is a complete joke, boys are forced to learn like girls and punished if they can't, and there's almost no male teachers anymore because they get side-eyed by people suspecting them of being pedos just for wanting to be around children to teach and role model them and chased out by girl students making false accusations and trying to blackmail them.

I thought about being a teacher as a man when I was a child... NOT ANYMORE! That dream quickly died when I saw how male teachers are treated, and you basically have to act like a man who's had his balls cut off just to fit in and those environments.

A good example of male behavior being punished is building a tower of blocks and knocking it over. This isn't violence, this is one way boys learn cause and effect, fine motor skills, predicting outcomes, problem solving, and spatial awareness, which is a really important part of development as a child especially for boys because they are tactile learners usually. But teachers and schools often punish boys for this type of play and it needs to stop. Boys are taught to sit still and not be active, there's no recess anymore, and everything is taught in ways that girls respond to like endless memorization. Boys can't learn this way. It's destroying their ability to learn anything and they have too much pent up energy.

Colleges are even worse. Have you ever seen how slutty girls are in college? I've heard some really disgusting stories, a ton of them. I'm telling you man these college girls, most of them are hoes. That's not as much of a problem with segregated schools.

Female teachers also have a bias against boys and it's impacting their grades. They're also a lot harder on boys than girls and quick to label their behavior as destructive, violent, creepy, weird, sexist, hateful, misogynistic, problematic, etc, even if a girl did the exact same thing. I've spoken to a lot of guys who have left the public school system hating female teachers, hating education, and aren't interested in any form of higher learning after high school. They might go to a trade schooll, which is fine, but we do need doctors, engineers, chemists, physicists, etc.

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